get off my blog with that bullshit

Villainous Headcanons

Yeah that’s right ya boi back on that bullshit also you guys should check out my Dr. Flug RP BLOG @oh-flug-me maybe drop a question…please

Anyway, let’s get started


•It’s a house rule not to attempt to remove Flug’s bag

•Dementia will pick at the edges to mess with him, but she’d never actually try to take it off
•5.0.5. learned his lesson when Flug almost had a panic attack when he started to lift it up
•Black Hat had completely removed it once, snatched it off his head in a fit of rage, and was actually surprised to see Flug curled up tightly on the floor, covering his head with his arms so no one could see any part of it at all.
•He was shuddering and crying, mumbling and pleading for Black Hat to give it back
•Black Hat, either out of the kindness of his bleak little black heart or maybe just because he was sick of Flug’s whimpering, he gave it back and even turned around, allowing him to put it back on without Black Hat seeing his face
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•They eat at the table, all of them

•Black Hat’s rule
•"We’re evil, not slobs! It’s so I won’t find any plates in people’s rooms, Dementia. How would we look in our advertisments if this place was a mess?“
•Dementia eats more like an animal than 5.0.5. does
•Flug either waits for everyone to finish so he can participate in the conversation then eat alone at the table or he simply asks to eat in his room if his social battery isn’t too high, for obvious reasons
•"I better not find that plate in there or it’s your soul.”

•One day, Flug sat down at the table and seemed to worry about something
•Nobody was paying his fidgeting any heed until Dementia glanced over at him and her mouth dropped, prompting the other two to look where she was looking. Their reactions to the phenomenon were the same.
•Flug had pushed up his bag juuuuust enough to allow him to take bites of his dinner, revealing a small part of his mouth and chin
•His hands were shaking and he was trying to ignore their gawking
•"I-I-I-p-please lo-look away. Yo-you’re staring is m-making me uncomfortable,“ he squeaked, etching the bag back down.
•In an instant, the conversation went back to being just about it was before, but glances were stolen at his mouth
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•Black Hat likes cats

•As in: If they wander in because the door is open on a hot day, he doesn’t immediately shoo it out and lets it wonder around til it leaves
•If it bumps his leg wanting affection, he’ll nudge it away a bit, but he won’t kick it
•If it brings him dead things, then it gets a pet
•Black Hat made the mistake of letting a cat fall asleep on him
•"You sneaky devil! How’d you even get in my lap?”
•He wants to move, but something compels him to stay put until it wakes up
•Dememtia is jealous as all hell when she found Black Hat asleep with the little fuzzball in his lap
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•5.0.5. can be found sleeping anywhere at any point of the day.
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•Flug: “I’ve been awake for a week with nothing but coffee and Ritz crackers to keep me alive.”
•Black Hat: “For once, that isn’t my fault.”
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•Flug and Dementia sing together some times

•One of the few times you’ll ever see them getting along
•Dementia handles the more…provocative dance moves of the songs they sing together
•Flug can rap pretty damn well
•Though she may tease and sometimes bully him, Dementia likes seeing Flug so happy when he’s singing
•They usually sing until either Black Hat yells at them to turn it down/off or if 5.0.5. tells them that their music is ruining his cleaning time
•They usually high five before going about their day.

Full offense but if you think disabled dudes, mentally ill dudes, dudes with eating disorders and dudes who were abused and/or raped don’t face as much ableism or aren’t as disadvantaged as girls because “they already get support 24/7 just for being dudes”(which isn’t even true) you’re fucking sexist and ableist and you need to get your ass off my blog.

Originally posted by dumanlaricindekiay

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Salt shaker. Want the story? OK.

So, this particular thrift store was in the middle of nowhere, Texas. Surrounded by primordial forest. The hand-painted sign outside the beat-up building listed much stuff inside and one of the items was misspelled, I forget what.

I couldn’t say no, right?

The proprietor was a weird old man with tons of energy and some missing teeth. He prevailed upon me to go outside, to the outbuildings in back. “That’s where the real good stuff is!” 

I walked out there alone and saw seven corrugated tin shacks, big ones. Doors were all open but there was no electricity. Did I mention it was hotter than hades? 

Everything inside these big shacks was helter-skelter. Computer books from the 80s, cassette tapes, mah-jongg, cutlery. Piled high on rickety card tables, 1970s weighs-a-ton furniture, car hoods. And it was hot. Oh my gosh, it was hot.

All I wanted was to get out of there. I was thirsty but I had no water and I didn’t want to ask the weird old man for a drink. But first I had to find something to photograph. One thing. For the blog. So, slowly at first, I began shuffling crap.

And then I picked up the pace. Faster and faster. SO HOT. Sweat was pouring off me, staining some bullshit Herbie Hancock book that I *almost* photographed but discarded. Not good enough.

Nothing. So I walked to the next shack. 

And the next.

And the next.

Finally I stood in the last tin hot house, throwing crap everywhere, screaming “WHERE IS IT? WHERE IS IT?!! IT’S GOT TO BE HERE!!!!!!!!!” Dehydration had made me demented, crazed, an animal. But still there was only awful stuff that should have been in a landfill: 1960s milk bottles, an ugly porcelain baby’s pacifier, stuffed tomatoes that upon inspection were ratty sewing pincushions, cheap-o water glasses. Where does this old guy buy all this garbage, I wondered. And why does he keep it?

I nearly swooned and fell down. I realized I had been in these corrugated prisoner-of-war hothouses for hours. But I would not give up. 

And then, as if by divine mercy, I saw this little angel salt shaker. So tiny–couldn’t hold more than a teaspoon of sel. Two holes atop its little head. Somehow, it was perfect. I cried, I was so happy. I knew it! I knew it was here!

And I do realize in retrospect that this salt shaker is “blah,” especially for the (dare I say) high standards of this blog. However, at the time, I truly thought I’d discovered the Grail. I was so ecstatic I wanted to buy the thing, for any price the old man asked. But back in the store, he had disappeared. Where? There was nowhere to go, except the woods. 

Finally, I couldn’t wait any longer. I set the little salt shaker reverently upon the man’s ancient cash register, strolled out, got in my vehicle, and drove away.

I did it for you.

Oh hey-

I’m Beans, take a seat thanks. 

As you know I’m mutuals with some amazing artists. *motions to the mututals I don’t deserve because they are truly wonderful, honest-to-lord people*

And you know what really grinds my gears, reposting art. I see how hard my mutuals work on their art, how important their art is to them. Takes a lot to be an artist, practicing and honing skills. So it really stinks when folks repost it. And you may be thinking, “Gee Bean, but I found their art and I didn’t know! I just wanted to share the good stuff on my blog and get it out there” Well friend, that’s when I say–

Fuck off with that bullshit. You don’t know? In an era where googling and reverse image searches are literally built into our fingertips? You can’t tell me that your crusty, shady behind who likes a certain fandom hasn’t come across some fanart by the original artist ONCE. 

Reposting art is STEALING because the artist will never see those notes and anyone who reblogs and gets all up in arms with reposted art will never know where it came from. Its lazy ass bullshit. And that whole “if you know the artist put the credit beloooow” no, again, lazy. You figure out the artist you take down their STOLEN artwork and you reblog it and apologize like a decent human being you were most likely raised to be. 

Credit means shit if the source doesn’t go back to the artist. Ask for permission, reblog fucking art and stop being assholes when people call out the fact its art theft. 

Hell fucking shit– 

Well, thanks for listening, its been grand. Have a nice day (dickwads) 

anonymous asked:

A while back, an anon asked for your blessing to use your material, but wanted to change certain wordings- you declined stating that it basically wasn't a good thing to do; I agree. However, are you not manipulating the content of the Greek myths to suit your own ideology? Why do you find it necessary to make pretty much all your characters gay or lesbian? Especially when they aren't your original characters?! You declined somebody editing your creations so why are you editing those of others?

You have to be kidding me.

First of all, that anon you’re referring to asked me to take an explicit wlw written poem and make it hetero. I said no because I feel uncomfortable for people taking my words out of context, something I wrote for the wlw community and use it for their hetero ships. So no, that’s something utterly different than what you’re referring to.

I am not manipulating the content of the Greek myths, I am interpreting and reshaping them. Which basically means I am creating new characters. I could also have named Apollo and Icarus Mike and Alex and just said the myth of Icarus was the inspiration and be done with it. Because in the end those two characters were build upon scratch. So yes, if you would have read my stuff you’d pretty much know that all of my characters are original characters that happen to be inspired by Greek myth characters that share the same name or legend.

And, by all means, what are you even implying with your ‘why do you find it necessary to make pretty much all your characters gay or lesbian?’ bullshit? Are you implying that just because I explore and write about LGBTQ+ characters those are less worth than hetero ones? Sorry, but your whole message sounds like a whining homophobe to me so please just get off my blog and unfollow. You are not wanted here.

The new Rizzy sneak peek.

You know, there isn’t much I can totally go off about. Really. But there I was, going through tumblr and suddenly seeing a new sneak peek. I see Raphael and think yay. I see Isabelle and scream.

I watch the sneak peek.

I am not an angry person. But if I despise something in this world, it’s Rizzy. I’m so anti Rizzy that all other antis probably seem like they love that crap compared to me. In the whole time I’ve been in this shipping thing, I’ve never hated any other shipping as much as Rizzy. Never.

They call it a connection? Something special? Maybe even love?

I’ll tell you what it is.

Addiction. Lust. Arrogance. Not love. Not feelings. It’s pure and utter addiction. They don’t have a connection. They don’t feel love for each other. And frankly I’m the only one to notice that.

But you know what disgusted me most about the sneak peek?

That Raphael apologized.

Raphael.

Raphael, who told her no.
Raphael, who was forced into this whole thing because of her.
Raphael, who said he promised his máma and she ignored it.
Raphael, who has never done any wrong to her personally.

You know who didn’t apologize even ONCE?

Isabelle.

Isabelle, who tried to kill him TWICE.
Isabelle, who blamed him for everything.
Isabelle, who developed the plan to threaten his sister.
Isabelle, who forced her blood into his mouth even after he said no.
Isabelle, who continued to use him for her own gain.

It’s sick. It’s abusive. It’s toxic. It’s unhealthy. It’s racist.

It’s not cute. It’s not hot. It’s not nice. It’s not sweet.

Rizzy is everything a tv series should never show in a positive light. But instead it’s loved by many fans, it’s considered a really hot ship.

And I am over here, crying over it because nobody else seems to fucking recognize how wrong that crap is.

But continue to live in oblivion if you wish.

I just tell you one. Fucking. Thing.

If you support Rizzy, like Rizzy or even just think it’s okay,

Get. Off. My. Blog.

anonymous asked:

How does one end up with a successful rpg tumblr/blog/whatever? It seems so hard to get noticed.

In my case?

Sheer volume.

Considering only original content (i.e., excluding reblogs of other people’s stuff), I make an average of 5-6 posts per day, every day, and I’ve been doing that essentially without interruption since 2012.

Bluntly, I just post every single piece of senseless bullshit that pops into my head, no matter how asinine, and thus I end up producing a steady stream of trending content through the simple law of averages.

(The fact that I’ve managed to pass myself off as some kind of expert in a relatively niche field doesn’t hurt, of course, but mostly it’s volume.)

So hey, if you seriously think the Shisui set is Thot Gear; or you think that characters that wear it are “slutty” or shameless or whatever; or it’s “just gear for Sunseeker Courtesan RPers” or some bullshit… Go away. Leave. Get off my blog, I don’t want your miserable ass here.

Keep reading

A Gentle Reminder that Anti Reylos Harass POC Reylos, Send Holocaust photos to Reylos, Compare Star Wars to the Holocaust, Compare Reylo to a deadly disease that kills millions of people every day, cross Tags post in unrelated to even Star Wars Tags (I found a few anti reylo bs posts in the Black Panther and Zutara tag), Harass shippers for the “fun” of it, Lied about the distribution of pornography to minors, Threaten to murder actors if their ship is not canon, called a Trailer Gif Set a Hate Crime, Defended the Plagiarism of fan works, Stole Pictures of Children to make fun of them, Said Rose The New Star Wars Heroine that happens to be Vietnamese American POC wasn’t good enough for Finn compared to Rey’s white skin, and are currently threatening destruction of property.

Just go down the Reylo Antis being Assholes or just search Reylo on my blog and you will see a whole lot of bullshit so kindly step off with your “you should call out your community’s bullshit” when your community is literally built on the most toxic bullshit I’ve ever seen. Reylos actually do manage their community fairly well all things considered with how large a community it is. From what I’ve seen most of the bullshit Antis get angry about is completely fabricated and when it isn’t reylo shippers call it out.

anonymous asked:

I hope you die of cancer and your family burn in a fire. Blackinnon is BULLSHIT because Sirius did not give a single shit about her. You have to have serious autism and brain damage to think that. Marlene was irrelevant and not even friends with Lily. Fucking idiot. In the letter from Lily to sirius she mentioned the "Mckinnons dying" so casually that her death didn't meant shit to them. So fuck off with your bullshit blog. Deactivate at once you piece of shit

because a ship i used in a chat was worthy enough for your threats.


so tough when you hide behind the anon head aren’t ya?

Good thing I don’t care. Don’t like what i write? Get off my blog. Simple. 

The Kink Community

1. Porn bots

2. You’ll probably see them in the following tags whether safe search is on or not: kitten, princess, little girl, daddy, daddy’s girl, sanrio, etc.

3. They claim they keep it in the bedroom despite what I mentioned above

4. Kink blogs following minors with pink cute blogs

5. Gets angry when asked to take someone’s sfw posts off their nasty blog

6. Let’s sexualize every childish thing we can think of and call it a kink

7. Every kinkster is an anti-sjw

8. If a make a post and tag it as n.s.f.w, no matter what the post was about 5 different porn bots will follow you instantly

9. “18+ only” but can still be found in sfw tags

10. Stop kinkshaming me! It’s not like my kink is unhealthy and damaging or anything!

DEAR EVERYONE!

PLEASE stop underrating Michael Jackson and his talents. I understand that everyone is not going to like him (only God knows why) or be a fan, but NEVER underrate him. I’m soooooo tired of hearing people say that all he could do was this

While he did moonwalk quite well, he was so much more than a dance move and Thriller. Michael Jackson was an amazing singer, composer, dancer, performer, actor, humanitarian, and innovator. He didn’t just take dances or music from artists before him and “redo” them. He reinvented the things that inspired him. He made them better. He made them stand out. 

Michael had some of the BEST vocals ever. Even as a child he sang with the emotion and passion of a man who had lived for years. He took the time to perfect his talents. He worked extremely hard for all of his achievements. Michael unquestionably deserved the title “King.”

So many artists today cite Michael as one of their main inspirations. I can’t even begin to fathom how people can call him irrelevant. The fact that you’re trying to blur his legacy proves his relevance. In most cases, people end up putting Michael down to try to exalt their fave. This is HIGHLY unnecessary. Firstly, if you are so comfortable with your fave’s position and think they are so talented, why are you trying to put another artist down? You obviously feel like that person is a threat. Secondly, NO ONE compares to Michael Jackson. Stop thinking that they do just because your fave is obviously inspired by him. I promise your fave can still be considered talented in the same world that MJ is considered talented without you undermining his impact.

I just can’t understand why people get so offended by others acknowledging Michael’s greatness. Every time I see someone talking about how amazing he was, there’s always someone waiting to talk about how he’s overhyped. If anything, he’s the exact opposite. As I said earlier, he is mainly credited for his dancing and performing. So many people completely ignore all the great songs he wrote with amazing messages. So many people ignore his videos (short films) that have messages just as strong as his music. So many ignore the power of his voice and how it demands your attention. Why?

People choose to ignore the fact that his “Remember the Time” short film was set in Egypt, so every person in the video was black.

People choose to ignore the fact that “They Don’t Care About Us” was basically him saying, “Black lives matter,” in the 90s.

People choose to ignore that Michael said, “It don’t matter if you’re black or white.”

So in conclusion, I’m not telling you to stan. I’m not telling you to spazz every time you see something MJ related. I’m simply asking you to not be ignorant. Resist the urge to start shit every time someone talks positively about Michael. Understand that he was one of the most talented (if not the most talented) people to ever walk this earth. You’re going to hear about him. His legacy and impact will never die simply because he will never stop inspiring artists, and he will never stop being great. Please just realize that more than one person can be talented and looked up to. You don’t have to put MJ down to make your fave look good. That’s stupid.

Have a blessed day, and stay off of my blog with that bullshit :)

It’s genuinely fascinating to watch lefties and SJWs act like GamerGate was some sort of harbinger to the alt-right

Like, as an ex-alt right guy who was one of the very few dudes trying to build a bridge from Gamergate to the alt-right I can 100% confirm that no, that is NOT the case, given how all of my efforts failed miserably. Gamergate was (and still is) extremely hostile to alt-right advances and a lot of prominent alt-right guys didn’t even want gamergaters getting involved in the movement because “ewww nerds”.


AFAIK the only connections between GG and the Alt-Right are a blog post from weev (a notorious disinfo artist) and the puppy connection (which falls flat in the wake of the alt-right rabid puppies splitting off from the more GG-aligned sad puppies). The rest is all disengenious conjecture from bullshit artists hoping to tie their boogeyman folk devils together.

Racists/White Supremacists Can Fuck Off

Since apparently I STILL have not made it clear enough, let’s go again!


If you support White Nationalism/Ehite Supremacy/Racist Bullshit/Are A Literal Nazi, you are not welcome and you need to take your fucking sick, sorry, pathetic, weak ass off my blog immediately.


If you want to reblog my shit and accuse me of being racist against white people, you better block me before I get to respond to your whiny shit.


If you think anything about racism or white supremacy is okay, you best believe that this witch will dox you, blast your shit on any public platform I can, AND I might even contact your place of work to make sure you don’t get to be the fun weekend-only Nazi, and those are just the physical actions I’ll take, not including any curse I may elect to them throw your way to not only torment your life, but your mind and even what remains of your vitriolic soul.


If you think your fucking disgusting, foul, wretched, downright evil ideology is safe on this blog, you are so ill-informed it’s actually funny.


This is my notice to you. My blog is not your fucking safe space, and I would literally rather see your blood spilled on the altar of the Devil himself than allow you even a moment of comfort in my material.


You are the lower than shit. At least shit can fertilize a field. You are nothing more than the evil of the world given physical body, and I don’t care how you got to be the way you are. I don’t care if it’s how you were raised, you made the choice to never grow. You deserve no compassion, and the breath in your lungs would be better suited in the lungs of the POC who have been killed at the hands of us white folks for no other reason then the color of their skin.


My blog is not your safe space, and so long as I breathe you will never have a safe space in my vacinity.


Just saying 😀

anonymous asked:

ok that post that's like "how many black kids get called this and that" and then at the end it says April is Autism Awareness month, and yea black people are apart of it? yea, uh haha no. I'm autistic myself, and I hate this bullshit of black people gotta be apart of everything, what do they want?? some attention?? fucking repetitive and annoying. AUTISM AWARENESS MONTH IS SUPPORTING PEOPLE WITH AUTISM, NOT RACE! black people already have a month, why do they feel the need to take ours?

Do you. Really hear yourself now? Can you hear that? Oh! That’s the sound of me not giving a shit about your anti-black tears!!!

Honestly black people get excluded out of everything–not the other way around–and the post in question was trying to highlight a lot of the issues black autistic people face in particular, since those issues are a mixture of ableism AND race discrimination and the fact that there’s very little representation for black autistic people.

It’s not about stealing your month or whatever bullshit you wanna call it. There are black people who are autistic and their issues NEED TO BE ADDRESSED in our community, and as a POC autistic person myself I need you to get your head out of your ass or at least the FUCK OFF my BLOG.

One thing that pisses me off so fucking bad is that it’s pretty much impossible to Google search any information on uterine/etc health issues without getting results that are totally clogged up with bullshit crunchy granola health blogs talking about useless ~natural cures~. Fuck off, Rowenne, I want to know if birth control helps if you have pcos and depression, and how it would interact with my current meds, not about how you supposedly cured endometriosis with positive mindfulness and black cohosh (which you’re hawking for $39.99/bottle)

My two cents (This might be controversial but it needs to be said)

( Please note that this is only my opinion and is not meant to offend anyone if my argument is improperly worded )

So I have a lot of stuff in my inbox talking about the whole 2B9S situation and the romanticization of it. Basically, the argument I see against it is that:

the only reason I like the ship is because its heterosexual and therefore fits my worldview.

it’s kinda sick to romanticize their relationship because she doesn’t love him, only kills him.

The reason why I haven’t answered these is because these people did not use the anon feature and I don’t want to put them in a situation that opens their blogs up for harassment. So I’ll be referring to them as “User 1” “User 2” “User 3” and “User 4” to protect their identities.

ahem

First off, I would like to say that I don’t understand the argument that on this site, it’s perfectly fine to bash and assault heterosexuals simply for the their sexuality. To me, it’s flat out disgusting when I see it happen to anyone. It’s discrimination and pretty hilariously ironic that the same people who say they include everyone will shoot you down the moment you say you’re a heterosexual or are fine with heterosexuality. Like shrug emoji you’re literally contradicting yourself in one breath. Make a gay joke? Get the hell out of tumblr. Bully and mock a heterosexual? It’s perfectly fine, welcome to the club :D

I have no words for how ridiculous you all sound.

Secondly, I am not heterosexual. Why is this important? Because the argument that I only like a heterosexual ship is because I’m heterosexual is absolute bullshit. I don’t give a flying damn what sexuality the characters are, if I see good interaction between them and strong romantic leanings, you can bet your ass that they’re getting shipped. So the argument of Users 1, 3 and 4 are invalid right then and there.

I realize that most people would assume that I am heterosexual just based off of the fact that I don’t talk about my sexuality anywhere in my profile, but that’s because I do not fucking matter. This is not a personal blog. On occasion, I post things about myself, but only when prompted. Very rarely do I post anything about myself without something shippy backing it up. In my bio, I have one word descriptors, no mention of my age, sexuality, race, country of origin, nothing. I haven’t posted a single picture of myself or anything remotely close to it. Notice, I haven’t even said what sexuality I am, I just said I’m not heterosexual.

Why? Because I am legit a trashy, boring human being and no one wants to visit a blog about that.

Anyways, onto their second point…

romanticizing a relationship filled with murder.

Now, I can see why some people wouldn’t get why this is such a draw for me, but in my opinion, this is where strong bonds are formed: in fire and suffering. 2B truly cares about 9S and in the novel, which I recommended you go and read, it’s pretty much confirmed that she detests hurting him. In her mind, she’s not strong enough to protect him any other way than killing him; she can’t run from who she is and therefore can’t desert with him and she knows that if he runs, she’ll be one of those who has to hunt him down anyway.

She’s trapped in two options, kill him now or kill him later. And that right there is that juicy conflict that I love so much in romances.

Maybe it is a bit deranged to see people falling in love over the fact that she has to kill him, but 1) everyone is deranged in Yoko Taro games, and 2) I don’t see it that way.

I live quite far away from my family and we only get to see each other once a year. I treasure each of those memories because I know eventually, it’s going to end and we’ll have to say goodbye. Take that to the extreme and you have 2B’s relationship with 9S. She treasures each moment she spends with him because she knows it’s going to end in torment. It’s beautiful and at the same time heartbreaking because in the end, she only wants to see him in a place where he can be happy.

I don’t see this as “sick romanticization” as User 2 put it, I see it as a conflict that plagues them throughout their relationship, something they need to overcome together.

In conclusion, I’m not trying to convert anyone, you have what you like and I have what I like, but I feel that it’s unfair to place every 2B9S fan in one group of “heterosexual ship because heterosexuality” because that’s not how any of us work. We see the forest for the trees. If it was a homosexual ship, then the fandom would be exactly the same and I think this is what these detractors are missing in their arguments: the humanity of us 2B9S fans.

If you preach casual sexism, get off my blog and fuck off <3

This goes for sexism against all genders, no more “men ain’t shit” “stay in the kitchen” bullshit anymore, if you spread it, you’re a cunt, and you’re affecting generations growing up online and being hit with this and not understanding why. I don’t want young boys to think they should eat shit and die and that they are literally trash, and that they are violent, rage fuelled monsters bc of girls who preach casual sexism against men, I don’t want young girls to grow up thinking they are weak, that they aren’t allowed to have what they want, to think that they are below anyone, and to think, they aren’t entitled to anything equal because of boys, who believe they are better and stronger then women.

@ people who think they have an excuse You are not stronger for preaching hate against someone else, you are weak, ignorant, and stupid.

There is no excuse for casual sexism.

generalsongcolor replied to your post “Hi, don’t know you and i’ve never seen any of your anti posts but i’ve…”

It takes so much self awareness to tell survivors to fuck off! UwU your pain isn’t that important and some borderline illegal activities are OK! uwu abuse and pedophilia aren’t that bad uwu get over yourself

1. Going off the age in your profile, I’d already survived more than a decade of abuse by the time you were born, so I’m gonna need you to take several seats there, champ.

2. No, your pain isn’t important insofar as you use it as a weapon to bludgeon and shame others. Being an abuse survivor is NOT a “get out of jail free” card to behave as poorly as you want and stop others from liking things.

Know one of my triggers? Golf clubs. I completely shut down, go into violent flashbacks, you name it when I hear a golf club impacting on a ball. It is my right to avoid golf clubs. It is my right to have them upset me and to not want to set foot on a golf course, ever. But it is not my right to go onto golf courses, steal everyone’s clubs, and scream at them that they’re heartless abuse fetishists who hate survivors like me. It’s not my right to assume that every single person who likes golf is doing it as a giant “fuck you” to survivors who might have issues with golf clubs. 

That’s what the first point of that post was about. It’s not about hating abuse survivors. It’s about telling survivors that you can’t bully and shame and threaten others and then hide behind “IT’S BECAUSE I’M AN ABUSE SURVIVOR” as a shield. I pulled that bullshit for years as an anti, and it ain’t kosher. 

Take your poor reasoning and white-knighting for abuse survivors and get off my blog. I don’t need your protection, and neither do other survivors.