i cant wait for dnp to get married and make a golden future for themselves just… lying in bed wrapped in soft blankets and love warmer than anything listening to quiet music and watching the clouds move by their window bc they have to be floating at this point..
if you’re a woman who’s attracted to women but you can’t see yourself marrying one, know that that feeling is so common and very often temporary. this is not to say that i know you better than you know yourself; maybe you just don’t want to get married and that’s ok. but very few women have grown up with the idea that they could marry another woman, and it’s hard to picture something for yourself that you’ve so rarely seen!
i couldn’t see myself marrying a woman for a long time, but i did and it’s the best thing i’ve ever done and the many messages i get telling me my blog has helped people picture themselves marrying other women tell me i’m not alone. know that whatever you end up wanting is okay, but don’t stress if there’s some aspect of loving women that doesn’t come to you with perfect ease. in a way we’re forging new cultural territory here. it’s only natural to feel a little lost without a map.
Request: #31 with John Shelby pleasee, dont stop doing imagines, i love them <3
Author’s note: Thank you for the idea behind this one @theaqueenakaspeedy I had so much fun writing it! ALSO got through all my requests now so keep them coming my requests are open!!! P.S sorry that there is 2 John fics in a row but I couldn’t resist posting this one tonight
You worked at a factory as a receptionist and it was your last day before going on a 3 day holiday over the weekend. Little did you know that it would be the last day you were here ever. You had no clue that your boyfriend and his crazy company were coming to blow the place up. He had tried to convince you to quit your job, promised you that he would get you more work. But you refused, even though he did say your boss had bad business with the blinders you ignored him and carried on. You stayed for two reasons. The first being you actually loved your job, going and working wasn’t a drag and then second is because you got to work alongside your best childhood friend clarissa as she was the other receptionist. “It won’t be the first time i’ve been in trouble with the peaky boys will it.” You explained to John moving into his personal space, smiling at him seductively with heat in your eyes. He accepted that he wasn’t going to win the argument and had given up trying to convince you otherwise even though he was still reluctant to let you go.
it’s ok if you wanna get married and it’s ok if you don’t
it’s also ok if you wanna talk about the societal problems with the institution of marriage, but please don’t do so with people who are preparing to get married unless they start the conversation because that doesn’t make you smart, it makes you a presumptuous jerk.
marriage is huge and complex and because of those societal problems it brings up a lot of emotions and stress in people, especially but not only the women involved. once someone decides to get married i promise you they have already thought about these issues (and if they haven’t i promise you that your words of wisdom really won’t be welcome). owen and i got married two and a half years ago and i am STILL working out some of the issues marriage stirred up in me about my body and my family. it is absolutely harder to be single than it is to be married, but when someone is going through a big life event we just don’t give unsolicited advice, okay? we just don’t. it’s not nice.
Time travel AU: Past Lance and Keith are so oblivious to their future selves being married. They do like little kisses and their past selves don't even blink an eye. They talk about their child/ren and their past selves just continue whatever they're doing. When the future ones go back Pidge is like 'YOU GUYS GET MARRIED OK?' and Lance n Keith are like '...Yeah. We know. That's great and all but we've gotta focus on (x mission)' Turns out they were dating for months and never said anything.
What if young (like kindergarten) Edd and young Tord had a mock marriage ceremony because young Tord thought that he could protect Edd from bullying by getting married and Edd's like ok. They used flowers as rings and the teacher thought it was cute. Both Red Leader and Edd look back on that day with mixed emotions.
That’s cute, but what if Tord saved him like a classic super hero and remembered how the hero and the damsel kissed at the end: