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“Let the Alpha male warm you up :)”

- by @yourinfernalmajesty1 Okay hold up - I saw this just now and I honestly have no idea how this particular ask thingy works or my app is just shit.. what I know is, that I’m in heat now 😳😳😳

Since tumblr has me paranoid with black women and fandoms, anyone want to team up and see if we can organize a day to get Mercedes/Misty Knight trending or something? I just want to start the fandom, right of the bat, with showing the actress (And the writers) just how much we support her and how important Misty is.

anonymous asked:

more asks about limb disaster!Alex you said? WELL OK you should talk about Alex's attempts at walking before he managed "passably bipedal." also how long did it take him to manage something that resembled a hand enough to write or did he just get fed up and settle for the nearest graspy pincer Thing he could manage? does trying to learn how to work his new form too fast come back to bite him later? these are my burning questions. also this is wonderful thank you for coming up with it!!

[takes your face gently between my two hands] anon……..thank you for loving my disgusting S O N

under the cut to spare everyone’s dashes! tl;dr - Alex skitters! Alex does Hands! Alex…has some trouble with his face.

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well fuck, I guess my stressed out business has finally caught the attention of my professors.

Again with terrible luck

So once again I’ve gotten myself in a bad situation. I got double charged for a recent purchase, and am now $50 short for another payment. I need this BY TOMORROW because of the appointment time.

Please.. I’m not asking for donations per say.. But please at least consider commissioning me. If you want to donate to me, I definitely appreciate it. I’d prefer google wallet for this, since paypal takes several days to process it.

My commissions start at $5 for a sketch, all the way to $25 for a full shaded piece. Backgrounds cost extra. Any other questions, please dont hesitate to ask.

My gmail is

Please send anything via google wallet. It’s far more efficient for such a last minute problem.

A brief rundown of everything that has happened over the last month and a half:

Both the mirrors on my boyfriend’s car got broken, so we had to spend 150 dollars to replace them.

Not long after this, thanks to the bullshit parking policies at our apartment, his car was towed. Getting it back cost us about 500 dollars.

My job is going into the toilet financially so they’re just continually cutting everyone’s hours. I took on a bunch of commissions to try to offset some of our costs, but commission work is INCREDIBLY stressful for me and I’m making about $4 an hour doing it. My chronic sinus infections and nerve injuries have been getting worse, making it hard for me to do much of anything, and I’ve lost about 20 pounds just in the month of September because of stress and not eating.

On labor day, three days after we got my boyfriend’s car back from the towing company, he totalled it!

In the meantime, we’ve been borrowing his sister’s car. We found someone who was going to sell us a car for 1800 dollars but today, the day we were supposed to get the car, they backed out and they still have our down payment and we don’t know when we’re getting it back. And last night my boyfriend’s sister hit an elk with her other car, so she might need the one we’re borrowing back. My boyfriend works 2 hours away from where we live so he needs the car in order to work.

Both of us are applying for jobs but neither of us has gotten so much as an interview.

Oh, also, my rent check bounced at the beginning of this month because the apartments check scanner wasn’t working correctly. So I got charged an extra 50 dollars in late fees.

My boyfriend is exhausted from his work so he hasn’t been much help in terms of comforting me and talking me through this situation.

And I have commissions to do! So I can’t relax and get stress out by drawing because I have so much work I need to be doing.

I have no idea what I’m going to do. I can’t take things being this stressful anymore.

To those of you who self-diagnose

If you feel like there is something wrong with you, go to a professional and get a proper diagnosis.  If you don’t like what you hear the first time, seek a second opinion.  Self diagnosis isn’t treating or curing yourself.  And for all you know there could be something really bad wrong with you that mimics the symptoms of whatever it is you think you have.  

If it turns out you do have ADHD or Bipolar Disorder or whatever, there are treatments that will improve your quality of life, and make things so much easier for yourself.  It’s okay to be scared, but your mental health is top priority! Do what is best for you, and don’t wait until you have done harm to yourself or someone else. 

If it turns out that you don’t have a mental illness, then kindly fuck off because you are an attention seeking asshole who is doing more harm than good. 

Domestic abuse is not just physical.

I recently just got out of a relationship that I thought was healthy at the time. but now that I look back at the things this person would say and do to me, I am so glad I got out of it. 

This person would constantly judge me for the things I did, the things I liked, and the things I didn’t like. Such as my music taste, the movies and shows I watched, etc.

This person would make promises and know that they wouldn’t be able to keep them, later blaming it on me for trusting them.

This person would judge me for my sexuality. This person told me that they wouldn’t care if I was genderfluid, but later on told me that this was the reason they wanted me out of their life.

This person would turn everything bad around on me. They would tell me that I didn’t care about them enough, even though they were the only thing I cared about. They got mad about the littlest things I did, and they always expected me to care about everything good that they did even though they barely praised me for my little accomplishments. 

They manipulated me and twisted my words around in my own mouth to make me seem like I was the bad person in the situation.

This person was very controlling. They would get mad at me if I wanted to hang out with my friends. They would control who I could or couldn’t talk to. They made me cut a very strong friendship out of my life because they got jealous over nothing.

This person always made me apologize for things I did not do. 

They made me feel like absolute shit about myself for 4 whole months. 

If this sounds like a relationship that you’re in or that someone that you know is in, get out of the relationship, or help the person that you know get out of it. You will feel so much better knowing that you can be free and yourself again.

Domestic abuse is not just physical.

Don’t let your partner be your bully.


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