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baileyandcallie  asked:

I am so angry today! I am a firm believer that people should be allowed their own opinions even if I do not agree with them. If I do not agree, I just do not bother reading their tweets, blogs or FB page. I do not harrass them and dox them. How are you handling this?

I’m angry, too. The growing societal climate of bullies getting emboldened by and rewarded with power and attention has leached into online communities. Those displaying abhorrent, vile behavior that would have been met with distain and someone being driven out on their ass in the past is now perceived as having strength and anyone that stands up to it is seen as weak. The trend of getting even, pointing fingers, gaslighting, manipulation and a hive mentality to do harm and punish what should be innocuous behaviors (i.e. shipping) is growing.

Escalating to personal threats is dangerous and should be seen as morally reprehensible and unacceptable. Using the familiarity those within this community have built to glean personal information such as names, locations, employers, etc. and then use it for nefarious purposes is disgusting. The egos and lack of personal accountability anyone who would stoop to those levels are out of control. Sadly, they will never see it that way because their glee born from a false sense of righteousness and a warped savior complex blinds any ability to see the hypocrisy of what they are doing. 

They have convinced themselves that there is an Us vs. Them that, in their minds, equals right vs. wrong. They have adopted an eat-or-be-eaten mentality and have clearly selected a few members of the pack they see as the most threatening and have decided to systematically pick them off one by one in a misguided attempt to preserve something they see as being tainted by shipping. There is a bizarre hierarchy they’ve created in their minds and their insistence on reiterating it heightens the more they worry they may be wrong.

It’s classic manipulation but the fact that it’s textbook doesn’t make it less intimidating to those they are targeting. It breaks my heart that lovely ladies who have gifted this fandom with their presence are fearful in their offline lives to the point where they are considering withdrawing from us, but I also understand it completely. “It’s not that serious” is a nice motto but someone is forcing their hands and making it “that serious.” And while I don’t want to see anyone leave, I support Lauren (@balfeheughlywed) and the other girls wholeheartedly for doing what they need to not have this affect every moment and every facet of their lives. 

Dear Journal,

That was it. Our days of school are over. Today we had our last day at Hogwarts. I felt happy to start my new life but I also felt sad. This place was my second home. I loved it. After our last exam, all the last years were screaming and throwing papers around. Everyone was happy. I tried to find Johnny to tell him goodbye. He was in the library with Freddie, his boyfriend. A few weeks ago, he gave me one of his books. It was about a little boy that always felt alone, that always wanted a brother. He said that I was like his big brother and it made me happy. I wanted to hand him back his book but he wanted me to keep it.

“I want you to have it. You changed my life Remus. You helped me get over bullies and you helped me accepting who i truly was. I want you to keep it.” He said with his cute little voice.

“Ok. But I want you to have this one. It’s about two brothers who go on adventures. Since you’re like my brother now, I think you should have it…” i said, handing him my book.

“Have you taken notes in it?” He asked, smiling.

“Of course I did, you can read them and think of me okay?” I said, my hand in his small back.

“You won’t forget about me?” He asked with teary eyes.

“I will never forget about you. I promise. We are like brothers after all!” I said, hugging his small figure.

“Will you write to me?”

“Of course I will! And maybe you can come to my book shop? I can give you some free books.. but don’t tell anyone!” I said and he giggled.

“I will visit it with mummy in the summer. Thank you for everything Remus. You will always be my big brother.” He said.

“I’ll see you soon okay? Now the train is leaving soon, you should go get your boyfriend and leave for Hogsmeade.” I smiled.

“I will. Bye Remus..” He said, hugging me one last time and leaving with my book in his arms.

“Bye Johnny, I’ll see you soon..” i said, letting a tear fall down my cheek.

I walked up to the dorm to pack the rest of my stuff. All the boys were there. I sat next to them and we looked at our room in silence.

“We’re leaving.” James said.

“Yeah..” Sirius sighted.

“I’ll miss this place..” i said.

“Me too.” Petter agreed.

We decided to mark our marauder names on the wall under our beds. That way we could always be here. We packed everything and left the now clean and empty room. We looked back for a second just to keep a memory… and left for the hogsmeade train station.

“I talked to Regulus. He’s going to Sophie’s and he’ll eventually go home when mother forgives him. She will. She likes him. He said he’ll visit soon.” Sirius said, sitting in our train cabin.

I sat next to him, letting my head fall on his shoulder. Lily was by the window next to James who talked with Peter and Mary. Marlene and Dorcas were braiding eachothers hair beside us. We were all there. Just like the begining. During the train ride, we talked about our Hogwarts memories. We all laughed even though it made me want to cry. I felt nostalgic. We opened the train window and felt the air on our faces. We were together.

When the train arrived we all said our goodbyes, even though we would all see them in a week for our housewarming party. Lily was crying but at least she stayed with James. I’m glad she had him. Then, Sirius and I walked home. Hand in hand. Arriving to our new home sweet home, we layed down on our bed matress. It was the only thing that wasn’t in a box.

“I don’t feel like unpacking.” Sirius giggled.

“How about we make ourselves a box table and we order pizza?” I asked, kissing his lips.

“Pizza sounds amazing!” He kissed back.

We were laying on our matress dropped on the direct wooden floor, boxes surounding us.

“I always imagined myself moving away from home.. But not even in my craziest dreams It would’ve been with you. I love you Remus. I will love you forever.” He said.

“I love you Sirius.” I smiled.

We were together.

-Remus
March 23rd 1976

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@myrrahthescotch is such a lovely dog especially with other dogs. She grew up around Kilo so is used to him being a bully (they get along super well now though) and was so good when meeting Lola. She is very gentle and wants no confrontation and is very nurturing. Lola seems to get along with her so far, as long as they aren’t in a high energy/excitable setting

anonymous asked:

why be ashamed of still loving your ex ? why pretend like you don't love him anymore but you do ? why get bullied for loving him still ? why get in trouble from others for still loving him? You love him . He knows that. And you know that. Only you two know that . Others don't ...others don't know how deeply inlove you are with each other .You love each other get over it and face the fact that nothing can ever change that.

👏👏👏👏

Iron Fist

Is anyone else watching “Iron Fist” on Netflix? I’m in love with a trash character and I’m really hoping he doesn’t die by the end, because he’s kind of getting bullied by the universe at this point lmao

Anyway his name is Ward Meachum and he’s kind of a POS trash man but he rolls his eyes every 5 minutes and he’s an adorable hot mess.

anonymous asked:

This fandom is just so gross overall like people blatantly whitewashing characters and refusing to take responsibility for it, people sending each other death threats over ships, having to constantly walk on eggshells for fear of doing something problematic and getting bullied by people like, everything about it makes me so, so uncomfortable. And I hate that it's affected my view of the show because now it just reminds me of all the negative feelings and anxiety instead of being an escape....

i feel the exact same way. i can’t even watch the show without think about all the bullshit that goes on here

I just finished the final ep 500 of Naruto shippuden and words cannot describe how happy/sad I was while watching the conclusion of an 11 year long journey.

It feels like only yesterday when I first watched Naruto on Toonami. I was only a 12 year old kid who would constantly get bullied at school, and was treated like a pest or an outcast. I didn’t have any friends and felt like day in and day out was a living hell. Loneliness too over my life and depression hit me real hard.

Then I saw the first EP of Natuto on Toonami. A story about a boy who who faced loneliness and despair, and was ridiculed by his entire village ll the while not having a single friend. Similar to how I was during that time.

It was then that the 11 year long journey would start. Watching him grow, stumble, waver, and perceiver helped me during the most darkest moments of my life. The fact that I was able to follow him in his long journey helped me tremendously and made me the person I am today. And because of that, similar to how Naruto made so many friend and cultivated so many bonds, I was able to meet some great people who I’ve called my best friends, and if your reading this you know who you are.

This series has meant so much to me and has helped me so much when I needed it. And just to see everything come full circle, after 11 years of laughter and tears, all I have to say is this…

Thank you Naruto. For everything.

skyanimefun76  asked:

Dear Jeff lately I've been dealing with bullying at school and online I try to ignore it but I can't take it anymore I tried getting help but they won't do anything to stop the bullying i have no friends what do I do?

Ooh I’m sorry about you getting bullied, I know how it feels. Though I think maybe @inkydevotee could help you.

But if you want my advice, then here. How about you turn all of those nasty comments into something like…funny? And tell your parents too, maybe they would understand (unlike mine) and help you.

If this bully keeps making nasty comments about you, maybe you can just act as if you are? Because all the bullies would think you’re weird and probably wouldn’t mess with you anymore. But if they hurt you physically then, that’s not okay. You gotta get thE FUCKING POLICE (or your relatives)

or maybe you could go on a killing spree and get rid of them all-

Does that help? Because if you want more, maybe just beat them up like what I did. There’s a lot of solutions.

anonymous asked:

sorren fey is honestly a dick. me and my friend communicate with gentle bullying and teasing. i get a board warning from fey, so i tried to clear it up. then, fey literally fucking coppas me, tells me to "get [my] shitty bullying ass off the site" then gives me another board warning, followed by a temporary ban. how in the fuck is that fair? my friend literally messaged fey explaining it too!

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anonymous asked:

just stopped by to say how amazing it is that you're always sticking up for other people when they get bullied/trolled. It's like you're the Bucky Barnes of fandom, and it's very much appreciated! ♡ ♡ ♡

Awww, thank you for that, Nonny!  Here’s the thing about writing and posting fic online. (at least for me)  It’s like running around naked up and down the street and shouting HERE I AM!  THIS IS ME!!!!  I WORKED REALLY HARD ON ME JUST TO SHOW YOU!!!!  

And then you have some person, sitting there behind a keyboard with something to prove, or some ax to grind, or simply no idea what constitutes constructive criticism, thinking they need to add their two cents about why you aren’t measuring up to their standards for how naked you (in the form of your fic) should be.  So they lay into an author about how they write, or where their story is going, or a narrative decision that is wholly at the discretion of the author - not them.  

Some authors can take this, but a lot them can’t, and now you’ve got this author who put their writing out there, feeling completely flattened while the person who left the rude, unnecessary comment gets to flit away unscathed to flatten someone else.

I’m a big, big, big fan of DL:DR, or even just having a little patience/courtesy with a story you DO like when the author makes a decision you DON’T like…because it’s their story, and they have a plan for how things are going to go.  I’m also a big fan of mutual respect when it comes to shipping, fandom, character preference etc.  

I don’t like bullies, and I never have.  So when I see someone getting flattened simply because they are doing something they love, and putting themselves out there?  I find it impossible to look the other way.  It’s just kinda how I’m built as a person.  That’s all.  <3<3<3

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Stop scrolling for a minute.

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Your existence matters. 

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You being here makes the world a better place. 

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You deserve good things.

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You’ll be okay.

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I love you very much.

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MooMaw’s kitchen is always filled with light.

It’s pouring through the windows above the sink and filtering through the blue and white checked curtains that hang above it.

Eric sits on the counter, right in the middle of a sun beam, and swings his little feet against the cabinets below as he licks brownie batter off a wooden spoon.

MooMaw has the phone tucked between her shoulder and her ear as she uses a spatula to scrape the last of the batter into the pan.

The cord stretches from the wall and Eric extends a sock covered foot out towards it and tries to touch it with his toes.

It sags before he can get to it as she steps forward and takes the spoon from him.

He only has a second to pout before she’s putting the spatula in the bowl and the bowl in his lap and ruffling his hair.

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Something about Danny Phantom that bothers me is how the show deals with bullying in regards to Danny himself, particularly in episodes like ‘Splitting Images’ and ‘Reign Storm’.

In both those episodes, Danny finally gets sick of how Dash pushes him around and uses his powers to exact revenge. He then gets taught a lesson about abusing his powers and that doing so makes him no better than any other bully. And while I can appreciate the message, the writers seem to miss one important thing: That Danny has no other way to deal with being bullied.

He can’t fight back against Dash as a human because he’ll either get beat up or punished by the teachers, or both. He can’t go to the teachers because they have blind spots for the A-listers and constantly let them get away with this shit.

He can’t go to his parents because their only choices would be to go to the teachers (which, again, doesn’t work) or transfer Danny to another school, which they would never do because Plot. So the only option left to him is using his powers against Dash, which we’re repeatedly told is wrong.

Now I’m not saying that Danny using his powers to torment Dash is right, what I’m saying is that when it comes to defending himself he’s left with no better options. And while Danny does ultimately take the high road, Dash never does, he just continues on bullying Danny until it gets to be too much and Danny snaps again and takes revenge.

The whole thing turns into a vicious cycle because the writers only deal with a symptom of the problem in Danny’s “ghostly get-backs” rather than the source, Dash’s abuse. It doesn’t matter if Danny decides not to use his powers against Dash if Dash is going to keep coming after him anyway. So the only way to break the cycle would be for Dash to get some character development and realize he was being a creep, or for Danny to settle things as a human outside of school where he couldn’t be punished for fighting Dash (although he could still get the shit beat out of him).

But for whatever reason, most likely the good ol’ Status Quo, that never happens. We just end up on the same rickety hamster wheel where Danny is the only one being held accountable for his violent relationship with Dash. And while this certainly isn’t as bad as some botched bullying stories I’ve seen (like the entirety of Severus Snape’s character in Harry Potter, where Harry is apparently supposed to be the mature one and let a grownass man in his thirties take his issues out on him), it’s still incredibly flawed.

In case you need it right now: There are 8 BILLION people on this planet, so what if Chad from algebra doesn’t like you? You will find people who do.

There are a mere couple hundred in your grade, probably fewer. It’s not even a discernable percentage of what is out there awaiting you. It gets better and you’ll be okay.

You will grow up and leave that place, surrounding yourself with people who care about you deeply. People who share more in common with you than proximity.

There’s nothing confirmed on this but basically what it says is that:

Samuel allegedly gets bullied in school which includes some of his classmates pushing him around and once when he was carrying some books down the stairs a group of boys came and said ‘woah its Punch’ and hit the books off him and also hitting him. When Samuel used to be absent due to his 1Punch schedules and the teacher would ask where he was during registration (roll call) they’d shout out that he quit school cuz they didn’t want to see him. Plus, they would play his VApp lives and MV’s at school and mock him by mimicking him. Recently they would play his introduction video for Produce 101 and also mock him with that. But Samuel being the angel that he is doesn’t argue back so they presume hes kinda dumb or they thinks that Samuel thinks he’s being trendy. 

I swear to God if any of this shit turns out to be true these people better be ready to catch these hands cuz I’ll be ready to fight these ugly hoes who thinks its ok to bother/ bully Samuel who hasn’t done shit except work hard. It reminds me of when Taemin used to get bullied as well ughghghghh everyones salty hes gonna get famous. Bye