Hi I'm a lesbian but I was raped by a man. Does this mean I'm not a gold star lesbian? I mean technically I've had sexual contact with a man but it wasn't by choice. I'd appreciate your thoughts thank you :)
For one thing the term “gold star” is meant to be facetious, not the strict hierarchy of the gaystapo that straight “queer” kids on tumblr seem to think it is.
Also no one in their right mind would tell you that rape counts as any kind of sex and if someone has they’re pretty much a monster.