What she means:
Brendon Boyd Urie has literally kissed Dallon James Weekes on stage and said "and I'd do it again" and the stage gay was the best thing that ever graced this shit hole of a planet and stupid ass fans kept bringing it up to the band members and drove a wedge between The Forehead Man and The Stilts Man and got the stage gay taken away from the rest of us good fans simply aching for a gay fix of gayness
being a panic stan is so morally testing like are you a hardcore ryan stan? a hardcore brendon stan? in the grey middleground? do you believe that panic! is brendon’s or that he needs to back down? do you think he has the right to sing camisado? pre-split or post split? was ryden real? is fanfic okay? is the milk fic okay? is stage gay queerbaiting? what the fuck is this fandom.
Do band members sit down and like talk about stage gay before they do it? Like, “…so would it be okay if I grabbed your crotch while we’re on stage?” Or do they just pounce on each other like SUPRISE I’M GONNA ALMOST MAKE OUT WITH YOU SO EVERYONE THINKS WE’RE GAY!