gay culture

cisgender gay guy blog:

  • *picture of a topless white cis man with unrealistic body standards*
  • *ass-eating gif*
  • “this is a selfie of me in the gym, i go to the gym, guys i’m at the gym, i work out, i lift weights, guys, i go to the gym, look, look i’m at the gym, the gym is a SWEATY PALACE OF EMPTY MASCULINE VANITY, where am i? of course the answer is the gym, i am at the gym”
  • *another picture of a topless white cis man with unrealistic body standards* #goals
  • *7 consecutive anonymous asks about power topping and creampies*
  • *ass-eating gif*
  • *picture of a topless white cis man who very obviously abuses steroids*
  • *5-piece gif set of a dick slapping against a gaping ass*
  • “just a casual reminder that i go to the gym, here is what i did today at the gym because i go to the gym, listen to my story it’s about the gym”
  • *picture of a dog* #see, i told you my blog wasn’t one-dimensional
  • *arrested development gif about drinking neat vodka at 9am*
  • *ass-eating gif*
  • #instagay #homo #BROmo #gaybro
  • *picture of a topless white cis man with unrealistic body standards* 
  • “insecure? me? listen buddy, just because i spend 90% of my waking life trying to prove to others that i am 1) not emotionally vulnerable in any way whatsoever and 2) have never acted feminine in my entire life, does NOT make me insecure, you campy twink bottom cunt” #tea

trans* gay guy blog:

  • “hey guys, here is a post about my personal interests”
  • *tries to raise awareness of trans erasure in gay male spaces but only other trans people reblog it so minimal awareness is raised*
  • *post addressing the negative impact of toxic masculinity*
  • *picture of man with realistic body standards* “you’re cute! yes you! i’m addressing the person in the picture directly to show support and appreciation because they are a human being!”
  • *a meme*
  • *7 consecutive anonymous asks about personal interests*
  • *post about own experiences of being trans* “i’m aware that sharing my story could help others!”
  • “here’s some more personal interests - does anybody else share these interests? let’s be friends!”
  • “i want/have a boyfriend and i realize there’s no weakness in admitting that! i would love to/am proud to have a multi-faceted relationship with somebody!”
  • *picture of something that relates to personal interests*
  • *post acknowledging and directly addressing the issue of mental illness in gay men*
  • *post about the influence of western politics on systematic racism*
  • “even though i’m a man who likes men, i not only acknowledge the existence of, but publically support, women’s rights!”
  • “i may have been discriminated against for being LGBT+, but i’m still able to express myself! i can recognize and communicate my own insecurities without surrendering to the fear of not fitting in! i’m comfortable enough with my masculinity not to hide behind an oversexualized and defensive projected self!” #tea

on one hand the get down was probably one of the most expensive shows netflix was producing, but on another hand the fact that its the only one not to get a second season is absolutely bullshit and I’m skeptical of it just being about directing conflict. It seems more likely that the real reason it’s getting scrapped is how undervalued its subject matter and story is. Like sense8 is EXTREMELY expensive AND had a director walk out half way through AND had to replace an actor and its probably gonna go on to get a season 3. But it stuck to every stereotype in the book about the poc represented and gay men (and even resurrected the “f*g hag” which is regressive as shit) and drowned its story in orgies so it gets play but not a legitimately well done, well told story about the influence of black/gay culture on artistic movements because. obviously.

snicker-snaps  asked:

Did you do that thing where you made your video game character gay "for the lulz" before you came out? Cus I did that in skyrim and lived happily married to Farkus and my family still thinks I'm straight. I don't even know how I thought I was straight after doing that.

storytime so before i realized i was bi i would only write stories with girl characters. all girl casts. there would be like 2 token dudes and they would exist just to be love interests. and even when i was still figuring out my sexuality i would write f/f content because “i think representation is important!” lmao @ past me ur such a dumbass