gay bigot



1) Venue hire costs
2) Who to invite
3) The complete and total incineration of society
4) Cake

Honestly, LGBT+ people want allies, BUT we don’t want them so much that we’ll settle for people:

  • who call us f*ggots
  • think misgendering is funny
  • still use “gay” as a slur
  • think “you need us, we don’t need you.”

We’re not desperate, deary. We just want respect.

#nameapencemusical is my new favorite hashtag.

Racism tends to attract attention when it’s flagrant and filled with invective. But like all bigotry, the most potent component of racism is frame-flipping – positioning the bigot as the actual victim. So the gay do not simply want to marry; they want to convert our children into sin. The Jews do not merely want to be left in peace; they actually are plotting world take-over. And the blacks are not actually victims of American power, but beneficiaries of the war against hard-working whites. This is a respectable, more sensible bigotry, one that does not seek to name-call, preferring instead change the subject and straw man.
—  Ta-Nehisi Coates, writer and journalist

And I cannot stress this enough, back in 2013, when the last gay survivor passed and a couple ace people either reblogged the memorial post or made their own saying “Do not exclude asexuals from the holocaust we would have theoretically been included because there’s a popular theory that a couple lesbians were put in the work shy camps”… even other ace bloggers thought this was in extremely poor taste… but then more ace people decided that was the perfect time to lash out at gay men for being uppity and controlling the lgbt community and holding the keys and trying to make everything about them, and these bloggers seethed about how much they hated the selfish privileged mean bigoted gay men…


Ace tumblr has always been viciously and irredeemably evil. And no, we haven’t fucking forgotten. 

  • Person who knows no asexuals and has never once looked into asexual oppression and does not know shit about L.G.B.T.+ history or its pointless divisions as it has grown: "Asexuals don't belong in the L.G.B.T.+ community because ace problems aren't gay problems!"
  • Me: "Hey, that's the same thing with which gay people booed trans people off the stage! 'Trans problems aren't gay problems!' Also, L.G.B.T.+ leaders have an obligation to know the oppression that afflicts ALL non-cis/het identities. The Ace community has been your comrade in arms. We've been fighting for L.G.B.T.+ representation as hard as you have, and we haven't just been fighting for ace representation. We've been fighting for gays and lesbians and pansexuals and bisexuals and transgenders and genderqueers and all non-cis/het identities and accepting victories in stride, even if those victories don't include representing us. We've been on your side since the beginning, and we've always seen ourselves as part of the community. You'll be making a big mistake if you decide to kick one of your biggest allies to the curb. And if you still don't believe we're part of our community, that we don't suffer from oppression (which, I promise you, we do), then you're throwing away one of your supporting allies and utilizing the same divisionary bigotry and elitism that gay people used to use against trans people, that homophobes still use against gay people. You are making a huge mistake."
So this happened today
  • Me: There's nothing wrong with being gay.
  • Teacher: It's not natural.
  • Me: It fucking occurs in nature. Therefore it's natural.
  • Teacher: So is cruelty.
  • Me: Well homosexuality isn't harming anybody. But bigotry is. THAT is cruelty.
  • Teacher: What about kids who see them? They'll grow to be gays!
  • Me: They won't. And if they do, so what? Being gay is not a crime. It's not some sort of reprehensible act.
  • Teacher: Still, what about kids adopted by gays? They might grow up thinking it's OK.
  • Me: It IS OK.
  • Teacher: They'll get bullied because their parents, Juan. How can you wish that for a child?
  • Me: If they are bullied, then society needs to change, not gays. Are you seriously blaming the victim? Pull your shit together.
  • Teacher: Well my God doesn't approve of it.
  • Me: Well I don't approve of your god.

If I hear it one more time, I’ll probably smack that person. 

You elected a racist, sexist, homophobic bigot who is going to create a ton of problems for people ALL OVER THE WORLD!

People are genuinely concerned about this guy actually winning the election, and all you can say is “calm down”?!

Stop patronizing. 


Please… just watch this


So Ernie (my boyfriend) was invited to Montreal this past weekend by an online friend of his for a video game concert, and I was invited along sans any expenses to enjoy the city while they were gone.
Seriously, this dude paid for everything, and we got to stay in a hella hotel suite.

The only problem?
My GOD, this guy (we’ll call him Nick) was the most racist, bigoted, hypocritical gay man I have ever had the misfortune of meeting. He used offensive language and slurs casually, he defended the travel ban and the Trump administration, and he full out denied that white privilege is even a thing that exists.

The ONLY reason I didn’t go off on his ass was because of Ernie. That, and we were in the city on his dime, and I didn’t particularly like the idea of getting stranded.
So my solution?

Petty revenge.

While he and Ernie were at the concert, Nick gave me free reign of the hotel guest services. So! I got the jacuzzi going, and then ordered myself the salmon entree off the room service menu, complete with a side salad, cherry cheesecake, and a rum and coke. Tipped the waiter $5 to boot (^:
I then ate and drank said $60 meal in the bath while blasting Toto and generally feeling quite fabulous while living the high life on the dime of an asshole.

Now, you may be wondering, “Li, don’t you feel even a bit bad for all that?”
Admittedly, I was on the verge of feeling an inkling of remorse! …Until he and Ernie walked back in, and dear Nick misgendered me within 5 seconds of coming through the door.
My petty ass went “LMAO NOPE”

I’ve been riding high on a wave of power and spite all morning.
It’s the little things, lads 💕

i make this post every time i’m about to get a haircut but

i can’t ever find pictures of how i want my hair to look because i am a Gay and i get distracted looking at all the beautiful girls with pixie cuts