The One Thing No One Tells You About Sugaring : The Gamble
When you sit on your computer at home and see constant money, fashion and luxury posts, you fail to remove your rose colored glasses in reality. For some of you, you just made your SA profile, have gone on POT dates and maybe are in a very happy relationship with someone. But what happens when reality starts to hit? When your emotions start to play a part. When seeing young happy couples start to make you upset?
Many will make a front to conceal the emotions that they once had or have but suppress them for followers.
“Pfft, I’d rather date a ugly rich guy for money, not be some broke ass!”
“4k in my account! Thanks daddy!!”
Recently my best friend and I have hit a block or two when it comes to sugaring, we began to think as two wonderful vanilla men came into our lives. Both of which we would have happily been broke for, but what happens when they find out? What happens when there comes a chance when you have to be honest when you accidentally post something that you wouldn’t think they would see?
This dears, is the gamble of sugaring. You really have to think about your time frame.
You’re gambling your safety, identity, job security, friendships and potentially anything real outside of your sugar life until you decide to end it. It sucks.
What bothers me more on social media in general is that girls, especially on this post (guaranteed) will make you feel about about having feelings, to tell you not to sugar because you failed in one way or another. Yes, I agree sugaring isn’t for the feint of heart but the greatest success comes from the worst part of failure.
Here’s what I have to say to those girls FUCK YOU AND DON’T FOLLOW ME.
You don’t get heartbroken from the Sugaring men or life you have, you get broken from the vanilla men and life you don’t have.
My tips for you if you encounter this problem.
Weigh your options out, remember why you sugar and ask yourself is it worth the risk?
Be careful. Research him, give out a burn number, manage both sugaring life and personal life accordingly and intelligently.
Hope this helps