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EMERGENCY | important

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hey guys, its miles && i still need help.

those that don’t know me && are just now
seeing this post floating because your mutual
reblogged it ( or something ) i am mentally
&& physically disabled
that makes it hard for
me to work certain jobs ( if at all ).

i moved from Australia && in with my partners
because of my emotionally abusive && toxic
home environment.  

i am trying to find jobs with little avail && i’m
on the determination end of disability as i have
a physical eval on the 13th of feb.

this new post is to explain what i need and basic
figures of my side of things, and its as follows &&
this is all due real soon;

$40 AUS ( $28 USD ) - It’s a negative balance
with my Australian Bank because I used it in an
emergency && i need to pay it.

$22.50 USD - Internet

$17.50 USD - Electricity

$15.00 USD - Gas.

$50??? USD - Half of Food per week ( it changes
in lieu of how much we buy )

$??? - Extra donations for things that come up. 

if anyone can help it is much appreciated but if not
&& you can only boost this, that is the best i can
ask for && i will make icons for those who donate

my paypal that is only useful as its american is
megatronofficial@hotmail.com.

DO NOT USE meg.pie23137@hotmail.com for its
a nightmare to get it to my new paypal && into my
account – i found this out the hard way a few
days ago.

Majority is due this first week of February

please help me out, i wouldn’t be asking
for help if it wasn’t vital, && this is as vital
as the day before when things were due
back when i was at the motel.

Sugar Sweet Success

Hi my loves, here are the things I live by to be a successful SB.

  1. You have to make him fall in love with you. Period. That’s honestly what keeps them coming back. What I do every time I encounter a POT is figure out what kind of girls he likes\ the kind of girl he wants. If I can’t figure it out I straight up ask, “Whats your fantasy?” then I become it.
  2.  Always look good. Tell yourself you’re never at a 10, there’s always something to make yourself look better. Amp your makeup game, go to the gym more, get those extensions, whatever you need to do.
  3. Have a style icon. Someone you mirror your outfits, hair, and makeup after. Mine is Kim K and an assortment of girls on Instagram. 
  4. Have dreams and aspirations. These all could be fake honestly. Tell him you want to open a boutique, own a lingerie line, go to medical school. Whatever. Bring it up sometimes, but not a lot. It’s just helps shape the image that you are the full package. Beautiful, smart, and driven. Tell him you’ve traveled, lie about the places you’ve been too. Guys like to fuck and stay around interesting girls. Remember. 
  5. Also, don’t just fuck him on your dates. And don’t always just get together just to fuck. Suggest other things. Look up cool places to eat and bars in your area. He has to see that other men crave you and in order for that to happen you guys have to go out.
  6. Cancel sometimes when he really wants it, but follow up with a cute snap of you in lingerie. Don’t always be available. My personal thing is I never answer those, “I want to see you tonight” texts. Ever. I need 48 hours notice. 
  7. Watch porn. Up your sex game. Try something new with him.
  8. Make sure he knows that he can confide in you. Shoulder rubs while you talk quietly to him, ask him how his day was. You have to be soft. Never really raise your voice. Always always sweet.
  9. Remember, you’re a business woman. You are your product. Invest in it and the results will show. 
emergency skele update

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💀 : //

hey guys, its miles && i still need help

those that don’t know me && are just now
seeing this post floating because your mutual
reblogged it ( or something ) i am mentally
&& physically disabled that makes it hard for
me to work certain jobs ( if at all ).

i moved from Australia && in with my partners
because of my emotionally abusive && toxic
home environment.  

i am trying to find jobs with little avail && i’m
on the determination end of disability as i have
 a physical eval on the 13th of feb.

this new post is to explain what i need and basic
figures of my side of things, and its as follows &&
this is all due real soon;

$40 AUS ( $28 USD ) - It’s a negative balance
with my Australian Bank because I used it in an
emergency && i need to pay it. 

$22.50 USD - Internet

$17.50 USD - Electricity

$15.00 USD - Gas. 

$50??? USD - Half of Food per week ( it changes
in lieu of how much we buy )

if anyone can help it is much appreciated but if not
&& you can only boost this, that is the best i can
ask for.

my paypal that is only useful as its american is
megatronofficial@hotmail.com. 

DO NOT USE meg.pie23137@hotmail.com for its
a nightmare to get it to my new paypal && into my
account – i found this out the hard way a few
days ago. 

I know so many girls that quit SA because of the salt, and I’ve run into some guys that are obviously salt or Splenda BUT I’ve also had some success there.

1.) Go to sugaracademy’s Tumblr and check to see if the guy talking to you is in the blacklist tag, or just search their tagged/guysname. I think they’re new so there aren’t a lot of guys there yet but it’s a start.

If you run into a salt daddy just tag sugaracademy and they’ll add their name to the tag. Seriously, if we help this could be a super useful database for sugar babies everywhere.

2.) Check the “salt daddy” and “SB blacklist” tags on Tumblr.

3.) This is not a sure shot, but if they’re Premium or background checked you have a better chance. At worst, these guys are usually just a touch better than Splenda Daddies. At worst. Sure, some guys that aren’t premium or background checked might be genuine, but I still don’t waste my time with them.

4.) I don’t reply to anyone that just sends a photo request. This should be obvious.

5.) I do reply to guys that automatically send me their photos. Usually, this means they’re serious, but check out their photos. Are they deep sea fishing or posing in front of an international landmark? Generally, good signs. Selfie in a Chevy? Not so great. Still, a quick conversation can usually weed out the salt.

6.) Obviously use True caller or search their email address. Do whatever you can to verify them.

7.) Trust your instincts. When you think, “Well, maybe he’s better in person,” or “Well, I’m not happy with this plan’s frequency, etc.” MOVE ON. SA is not the place that you waste time with maybes. This will save you from getting frustrated quickly.

I Respect Your Hustle

Last night at my vanilla job, I came across a fellow SB with who appeared to be with a POT. Based on their interactions, I could tell it was something rather new. The way he kissed her - it seemed undesired. As I greeted them both, she pulled her eyes away from me. And, I knew that reaction so well - it’s what I too do to evade judgement. If you ever stumble across this post, I want you to know that I look at you with only respect.

Towards the end of their evening, the gentleman returned to me to retrieve his and her coat. As she stood nearby at their table awaiting him, he capitalized on the opportunity to start conversation with me as I searched in the dark closet. She could hear every word of our conversation. He asked me where I was from and why I was working. He complimented me. Even with their coats in his hand, he continued. He told he would come back for me and that I would never have to work here. As he walked out with her hand in his, he turned back to look at me and repeated himself - “I’m coming back for you.”

I give zero fucks about his substance-less words. It is the lack of respect he had for his date. I understand that for many of us, we are sinners in secret. That being said, we too deserve respect. No woman should ever watch her date - who she was clearly too attractive for - blatantly disrespect her. It infuriated me. It reminded me of the self confidence and erected back that is so crucial for this lifestyle.  It reminded me that at the core, these men are just that, they are men. 

I understand this sugar bowl can at times be catty. And if you ever see this post, I would like to apologize if it seemed as though I was entertaining him. This isn’t the Hunger Games, they’re just men. I can only speak for myself but I want all SBs to know that this lifestyle is not a competition. I respect each person’s hustle. 

This is why I need some real ass sugar friends

My vanilla dating anti-feminist friends have reached a new level of disrespect. Like the shit they say is unreal:

“You’re basically selling yourself. That’s prostitution 😐”…to which I respond “Im doing the same thing you’re doing for 2 for $20 dinners and mixed securities. It’s just AT WORSE I eat at places you’ve never heard of, get compensated for my time and I sleep well at night.”

“CAN YOU GET HIM TO BUY ME SOMETHING?! 😁”…uh no bitch. You ain’t putting in work getting dressed up, making a boring ass nigga interesting, practicing dick sucking skills. Get your own Daddy.

“Omg. Ew. I would NEVER do that. Besides I got my man. Well next time he takes you shopping go to (insert store) and i want ( insert item, size, color, model) 😌”…..bitch


So not only have you HIGHKEY passive aggressively shamed me, but you wanna benefit from what im doing to survive?! Bitch if you don’t go ask your “MAN” for whatever you want. Tf? Its so disrespectful on many levels. And closed minded. And the bitch is my best friend. So as you can imagine, my trust issues are a 50 ft tall wall and I need new friends. I would say some hoe friends but can you believe that some hoe bitches will really be uppity about SB’s? Like bitch you suck a dick on the first night after texting for a week and going through the Zaxby’s drive through!! I’ve really had enough.

EMERGENCY | important

💀 : //

hey guys, its miles ( again ) with a updated post
( since the other was getting swamped ) && lo
&& behold i still need help.

those that don’t know me && are just now
seeing this post floating because your mutual
reblogged it ( or something ) i am mentally
&& physically disabled
which makes it hard
for me to work certain jobs ( if at all ) due to
them. 

i moved from Australia && in with my partners
because of my emotionally abusive && toxic
home environment.  

i am trying to find jobs with little luck as all jobs
i apply to seem to be denied because i either
don’t have the skills required or god knows
what else. i have a physical eval with the
disability determination service on the 13th
of feb ( this weekend )

this new post is to explain what help i still need
&& basic figures: 

$70-100 USD - To try && fix the pain to my back
with Massage Therapy, I suffer from major back
issues
( due to the curvature of my spine ) &&
not having gone to a therapist or a chiropractor
for it has caused significant pain that i can’t put off
any longer. 

??? USD - Alternatively I can go to a doctor for
pain medication to subside the pain though it
doesn’t fix the problem, && I’d likely be sent to a
chiropractor which would probably be expensive. 

$22.50 USD - Internet ( For March )

$17.50 USD - Electricity  ( For March )

$15.00 USD - Gas ( For March )

$50??? USD - Half of Food per week ( it changes
in lieu of how much we buy )

$230 USD - Rent for March 

$??? - Extra donations for things that come up.

if anyone can help it is much appreciated but if not
&& you can only boost this, that is the best i can
ask for.

my paypal that is only useful as its american is
megatronofficial@hotmail.com.

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