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I found peace in solitude. *mostly plus sizes*

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Dear Anyone In/Going Into/Wanting To Be In A Relationship,

I’m going to give some advice of things of what not to do in a relationship. I’m basing this off things I have personally experienced and/or saw through other relationships.

First off, don’t try and force them to kiss you. Under any circumstance, don’t do it. If you ask for a kiss, and they say ‘no’, don’t. My ex did this at a pool party we were at, and he tried to push me from holding onto the ledge so I would drown and him to kiss me.

This goes for physical contact as well. Don’t touch someone, if they don’t want physical contact. No, means no regardless of what you mean to them. My ex used to touch my shoulder a lot, and get way too close for comfort. I would get very uncomfortable, and he wouldn’t care.

Don’t use ‘But I’m your boy/girlfriend’ to get what you want. That’s being a manipulative little shit, and they won’t want to be with you. I’ve had people use, “But I’m your friend” to justify things, and it’s toxic.

Don’t change yourself for a relationship and don’t make someone else change to live up to your ridiculous standards. Relationships are supposed to be, being who you are. Don’t change someone because you want them to fit this mold, and don’t change yourself if you’re in that situation. If you have to change who you are, they aren’t worth it.

Don’t track their every move. With technology this shit is easy. I’m going to give an example. My father and his girlfriend have their iPhone products on the same iCloud account. Most of the time my father will check the iCloud for her phone to see where she is. I asked him about it once and he was like, “To make sure she’s where she’s supposed to be.” (And it’s usually her at work and when she’s coming home.) I know snapchat can do this as well if they have it set up that way. Don’t be that person who forced their SO to have their location on so you know where they are at. Trust them.

Don’t check their social media and read every conversation they have. Going to use my dad and his GF once again. My father has Facebook and Messenger on his phone, and he has her account always logged in. He doesn’t have a Facebook himself. Sometimes I’ll catch my dad reading conversations she has with other people and he’ll call her on it. Just today he was saying, “You’re leaving a trail.” And, “This is the type of thing that can end you up in court.” (There’s backstory behind this, but it’s not important. Just related to her job.)

Don’t demand them to text you every single waking moment. My one friend told me, and others in our group, that his girlfriend would text him. One time she called him and she was crying because she thought he was dead. Only because he didn’t text her back. I’m not even his girlfriend and I know he’s shit at texting sometimes. Usually because he doesn’t know what to say.

Don’t get jealous if your SO is hanging out with someone else. I can’t stress this enough. Your SO WILL have other friends besides you, but they picked you to be their SO not them. Don’t be a prick and get pissed off they hang out with others. My ex would get so pissed off at my one friend for hanging out with her girlfriends. (He even pushed my one other friend to get a girl’s attention.) He’d get pissed off if I said another boy’s name around him.

Don’t try and take control of your SO. You are not the boss of them, they can do whatever they want. (Well not whatever but you get my point.) If you feel that you SO shouldn’t do something, explain to them why you feel that way. It depends on the context. Like if you think it’s bad for them, sure speak up and tell them you feel this is a bad decision. But you can’t force them not to do it.

Don’t yell to win an argument/disagreement/etc. This is more of a personal one for me. Personally I get panic attacks from unnecessary yelling, loud noises, etc. My father yelled over the phone to his girlfriend once when we were in Florida. It was a whole debacle of my older brother getting her to the airport on time. If you find yourself getting ready to yell, take a step back and come back to what you two disagree on once both of you have cooled off.

Don’t hound your SO for sex if they don’t want it. I haven’t actually experienced this one, or know anyone dealing with this. But it could be a pretty big issue. Going back to my 'physical touch’ thing. “No, means no.” Don’t push it. If your SO doesn’t want to have sex yet, that means no. If you can’t control yourself, get the fuck out of that relationship. Your SO doesn’t need someone who can’t control themselves like an adult. (Regardless what age you are, but if you’re having sex I’d assuming you’re mature enough to act like an adult.)

Don’t like someone solely based on looks. Sure looks can be nice, but they aren’t everything. I’m a girl who only wears makeup for formal occasions. Like a wedding, dances, graduation, etc. If someone doesn’t like me because I don’t wear makeup or because I’m not 'pretty’ then that’s their loss. I don’t even keep my long hair down that often, because I’m not trying to draw attention to myself. Like someone for who they are. If you like someone based on their looks, their personality could be shit.

If you get don’t want to be with your SO anymore, break up with them. Don’t fucking cheat. Let’s get to my example shall I? My father cheated on my mother before my older sister passed away, and a couple years before I was born. My oldest sister, oldest brother, and older brother were kids when this happened. It tore my family apart. I grew up with my mother and stepfather telling me to hate my dad. (My dad ended up getting custody of us.) I never grew up with two loving parents. Sure my mother was in a relationship and so was my father, but I never came from a nuclear family. (Is that the right phrase?)

I may have missed some things you shouldn’t do, but these are just the major ones that I know of.

I would like to point out something. I didn’t learn until I got older how a relationship should be. My neighbor has been in a relationship with our friend since 7th grade and all of us are going to college this coming fall. (We’re not all exactly close, but good enough that his relationship is what I want my future one to be.)

My sister is married to someone she was in a relationship with through college. (Which based on facebook was 2010 they got together.) They’ve been married for almost two years now. Sure my sister can sometimes be a bitch, and most of the time I hate being around her. But their relationship is what I’d like to have when I get older.

But who am I to talk? I haven’t been in a /real/ relationship with going out on dates and what not. My first was a technicality because we acted like a couple at school, but we didn’t talk outside school. (Due to me not having a phone and him not having social media.) And my other relationship was strictly online because I never saw her. Hell, we haven’t seen each other since we graduated 8th grade.

So yea… If anyone has anything else to add comment or write me back? I would do a 'things you should do in a relationship’ but I think that’s a given. Be a good person basically.

~AB

TL;DR: ….don’t be a shit person. If you are, save people the trouble and stay out of relationships.

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Sleep tight and let the bats bite. PART I

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Yesterday I hit 10k and I am still in shock. Originally I wasn’t planning on making a follow forever, but I decided I would at the last minute, so here it is! I just want to take the time to thank everyone who is following me. I am so appreciative of every single one of you, both new followers and ones who have been with me since the start. I have made so many friends along the way and I honestly have no idea what I would be doing right now if I didn’t have this account. So thank you again and here are some of the lovely people that I met along the way (and most of the people I follow):

a, b, c, d

alfiesugg, alfiexdeyes, alfpacas, alfslittleone, awzoella, aflyingfinn, alltheseyoutubers, allthingszalfie, arianasugg, atomicmarzia, awchummybanananaslut, cheekyjackharries, connnorfranta, casparsugg, casparleave, connor-frantas, cheekyzoellaadanscrotch, dylanharries

e, f, g, h

fuckyeaharriestwins, fuckyeszoella, finnfinnthetwin, finnthefabulous, finnfaketwin, finncredlble, finneigh, finnysbutt, finny-n-jack, finnsmaoams, finnskella, finnsflipflops, finnharriess, finharriesharriestbh, h-is-for-harries, harriestwins, howlle

i, j, k, l

itsniomi, inventite, jaccksgap, jack-sex-on-legs, jackfuckmygap, jackgapp, jackhaarries, jackharrius, jacks-abs, jacksap, jacksgappies, jacksgaptwins, jacksidthedragon, jackspinkshorts, joesuphsugg, josephgsugg, kingjoes, kingtroye, louisezoella, lovelyharriestwins, lovetwinsjackandfinn, lustforharries

m, n, o, p

marcsbutler, marcusbumler, morezoe, mycheekyfinn, naughtyharriestwins, niomibutler, niomismarts, ohharries, ourcheekymaoams, petitezoella, pointless-zoella, pointlesszoella

q, r, s, t, u

queenzoesugg, queenharries, queenzoella, schoee, schoeedeyes, sexyyoutubeboys, stopitzalfie, sugglet, swiftsugg, tanyachapman, thatchingjoe, thetwinsharries, theyoutubewriter, troye-sugg, troyeisqueen, troyesivan18, twins-with-cheeky-grins, twinsfab

v, w, x, y, z, #

zeezobo, z-o-e-l-l-a, zoellagifs, zoellahelbig, 2-cheeky-twins

So sorry if I forgot anyone!

Heya everyone! So not only did I just turn 23 on friday, and change my url (GOODBYE FOREVER HYPHEN!), but it’s been five months since I made my 1k back around christmas, and man have I gained a heap more wonderful followers! I’ve made new friends in the process - Some I can’t imagine being without now! 

So far this year has had some major lows and highs, but the fandoms i’m part of and friends I have here have always got me through. Thank you all so much ;3;

And as alwaYS! THANK YOU for putting up with my crackship leaku, my shit posting, my off topic rants - and rants in general. For being wonderful people that have changed me for the better since I made my blog around 1 year ago. 

Let’s see what the next year has in store, and keep our fingers crossed for KH3! 

Note: Mutuals if I’ve forgotten you or you’ve had a url change i’ve missed let me know! ILY all! 

★ Mutuals and Favs ★ 

1- C

@3wayfinders ★  @a-keyblade-master@axeltheviii ★  @aerialslam@akua-no-mizu@al-chimiste@alone-in-my-little-infinity@apiegohome ★  @artofvio ★ @bayonettaton ★ @c-l-o-c-k-t-o-w-e-r@cactuarqueen@cameoamalthea@cinnamonchurro@complicatedandclean@chosenxbyxetro

D - I

@datamarluxia@datanamines@dianakingdomhearts@didsomeonesayventus@disneysora@eraqus@ephemra
 @flickrxsh@g-entiana@fission-firaga@fakekeyblade ★   @galleryavocado@gladiolvs@heather-l-wood@heavymetalchocobo@igniedelfuego


J - N

@jeremiahdaveyjones@kexell@keybladefantasy@khdecoded@khsora@khvanitas@kingdomheartsnyctophiliac@kurooes@lazykuro@lex-haru@marluxiaredux@masterxehanxrt@masteraqua  ★ @maybethispage ★ @mickeyblades  ★@mrsbananadragon@mydreamstoyou ★ @naminegg@noctis-ouji@noelsbooty

O - S 


★  @princessofheart@projectdestati@promptis  ★  @radiantgarden@rainbowd00dles@rikirey@roxas-has-the-stick@savaage-nymph @scottyyy77@seasaltsitar@skyward-hearts@sleepysylveon@slykylar@snarkbomb@sora-donald-goofy@sorasprincess@soraspromise@sorasventus@kettsuper ★  @sperrens@sunpeachx@swordingering@sylvermyth

T - Z

@tetoucha​ ★ @thefuturedoesntscareme@thekingdomofourhearts@thingsinlifeyoujustdo@thundera@tinyienzo@tinyshoopuf@traversedheart@vanit-abs@wakeupventus@xekytumbles@xioned@yamaguchi-12@yespeon@yunalesca@yuniebrows@zelos-wilders

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Hey everyone! I just wanted to thank you guys for 4k! That is just absolutely incredible and I could not have done it without all of my wonderful followers. I have had this blog for nearly 1 year and it has been so much fun being able to talk to you guys. I hope that you have all had a great start to 2014 and continue to have an amazing year. Here are some lovely blogs you should definitely check out.

a,b,c,d,e,f

alfiesugg ♥ banananaslut ♥ cheekyjackharries ♥ eyesexwithfinn ♥ finnharrios ♥ finnfinnthetwin ♥ finnthefabulous ♥ finnsflipflops ♥ fuckyeaharriestwins ♥ finnwithacutegrin

g,h,i,j,k,l

iwantfinnharries ♥  jackgapp ♥ jaccksgap ♥ jackella ♥ jacksinfinnity ♥ jackfuckmygap ♥ jacksfab ♥ jacksgaq ♥ jacks-abs ♥ jackgap ♥ jack-sex-on-legs ♥ lovelyharriestwins ♥ lovableharriestwins

m,n,o,p,q,r

mycheekyfinn ♥ ourcheekymaoams ♥ ohharries ♥ perfectharriestwins ♥ queenzoesugg ♥ queenharries 

s,t,u,v,w,x,y,z

schoeedeyes ♥ thetwinfinn ♥ twins-with-cheeky-grins ♥ the-sexy-harries-twins ♥ ughtwins 

I’m sorry if I forgot anyone and just because you aren’t listed doesn’t mean I don’t love you :)

the 100 season 2 episode 15

  • just a reminder in case you missed the end of episode 4: anya is not dead
  • omg bellamy is gonna save his girlfriend i am so here for this 
  • “i told you i’d come back for you” SHIP IT LIKE FEDEX
  • yikes the young president is talking float this bitch
  • “thank you” ECHO AND BELLAMY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • MY GROUNDERS!!!! TRIGEDAKRU
  • where is octavia where is clarke where is raven where are my babes
  • omFG GOGGLES…..um y i k e s rip you were good mountain people you didn’t deserve to be floated
  • “welcome skaikru..join us” lexa welcomes the sky people yet clarke is alrEADY STANDING WITH THE GROUNDERS IM EMOTIONAL
  • THEY’RE DELIVERING THE SPEECH TOGETHER WHY ARE THEY LIKE THIS IM IN LOVE 
  • O C T A V I A !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • CLARKE IS SO HOT KILL ME
  • omfg r a VEN B ABE 
  • one m in uTE????? FU CK
  • INGRID AND OCTAVIA I M JUST F UC KF UKC 
  • h oly  shit lexa is about to say he r speech im weak
  • Jus daun jus drein  FUC K IM S O READY TO GO INTO B ATTLE !!!!!!!
  • N O  NOT MAYA’S DAD!!! O H BELLAMY Y AS !!!!!!!!
  • “YOUR MOTHER WOULD BE SO PROUD” RIP ME W TF 
  • I L OV E OCT A VIA SO MUCH H O LY SHIT 
  • O HMY  FUCK ING FGOD TELL MEIS S THAT ARE MY EYES DECEIVING ME
  • my heart is racing WAS THAT ANYA OR ARE MY EYES PLAYING TRICKS ON ME
  • I DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT JUST HAPPENED I THINK SOMETHING WITH LINCOLN AND NOW SOMETHINGWITH RAVEN BUT ALL I CAN SEE IS ANYA IN MY M I ND F UC K
  • oh fuck something is fucking up  with the power
  • but for real is anya alive im laughing on the inside and my heart is still racing 
  • “it wasn’t the commander it was clarke” YOOOOOOO
  • tfw you’re president for 0.2 seconds and you manage to fuck up a century of your people’s work this guy fucked up so bad
  • RAVEN IS SO GREAT I LOVE HER
  • LEXA IS BASICALLY ASKING CLARKE OUT BABE THROW HER A BONE
  • “YOU SHOULD COME WITH ME TO THE CAPITOL” K ILL ME!!!!!!!!
  • “YOU ALREADY HAVE” KILL ME AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • “actually i can go faster” omg wick im starting to like you
  • TO THOSE WE’VE LOST AND THOSE WE’LL SOON FIND 
  • THEY’RE PRESSING THE BUTTON TOGETHER W HY ARE THEY LIKE THIS 
  • FUC K LINCOLN IS SUCH A BADASS
  • O H  MY FU CKING GOD INDRA JUST CALLED HER ‘OCTAVIA KOM TRI KRU’ I MA OS EMOTTOINAL 'YOU’RE ONE OF US NOW’ !!!!!!!!!!
  • UM??? L EX A WHAT T HE  FUCK WHY W OULD YOU DO T HIS
  • THIS BETTER B E SOM E SORT OF ELABORAT E PLA N
  • FUCKING LEXA W HAT THE FUCK  W HY  WHY  HWY 
  • OMFG LINCOLN FI GHTING IM SO E MOT IONAL L INCOLN I LOVE YOU S O MUCH 
  • omfg i hope octavia goes rogue babe you can do this 
  • “im not going anywhere without my brother” RIP ME F CUK “you are no longer my second” f UCK FUCK FUC K
  • “I HAVE NO HOME” I AM A  SHE LL OF A GIRL
  • omfg r ave n BABE!!!!! if you could please stop getting injured that would be great 
  • “please don’t leave me here” im so emo
  • oh fuck clar ke b abe she looks so determined she’s g onna fuc kshit up
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I just want to thank everyone so much for 8,000 followers! That’s just absolutely amazing! I am so grateful for every single one of my followers, both the ones who have been with me from the start and those who have just started following me. Here are some lovely blogs for you to check out:

a,b,c,d

alfiesugg ♥ alfiexdeyes ♥ awzoella ♥ aflyingfinn ♥ banananaslut ♥ cheekyjackharries ♥ cheekyzoellaa ♥ cheeky-munchkin ♥ casparleave

e,f,g,h

eyesexwithfinn ♥ fuckyeaharriestwins ♥ finnfinnthetwin ♥ finnfaketwin ♥ finny-n-jack ♥ finnharriess ♥ finnsmaoams ♥ finnsrevenge ♥ finnthefabulous ♥ finncredlble ♥ finnsflipflops ♥ finnskella ♥ harriestbh 

i,j,k,l

itstheharriestwins ♥ inventite ♥ jaccksgap ♥ jacksgapupdates ♥ jack-sex-on-legs ♥ jackgapp ♥ jackfuckmygap ♥ jackella ♥ jacks-abs ♥ jackspinkshorts ♥ jackharrius ♥ jackhaarries ♥ kingsivanlustforharries ♥ lovelyharriestwins  

m,n,o,p

mycheekyfinn ♥ naughtyharriestwins ♥ niomibutler ♥ ohharries ♥ ourcheekymaoams 

q,r,s,t,u

queenzoesugg ♥ queenharries ♥ schoeedeyes ♥ thetwinsharries ♥ twins-with-cheeky-grins ♥ the-sexy-harries-twins ♥ thatchingjoe 

v,w,x,y,z,#

z-o-e-l-l-a ♥ 2-cheeky-twins 

I’m sorry if I forgot anyone!