One thing I’ve learned about heartache is that deep down inside we all want the people who hurt us to regret it. We want them to come to their senses and recognize what they had. We want them to be sorry for causing us pain. It’s a fair desire. However, the quicker we can disengage from that “want” the quicker we can move on with our lives. If we keep that “one day he or she will pay” mentality tucked in the very back of our noggins we will stay in it way longer than we need to. Until then, we’re just victims. Because the truth is… we did it to ourselves.