i think i’ve gotten better at passing, though. people call me sir a lot at work, an employee at the laser tag course called me “buddy,” one of my friend’s friends told him that i reminded him of the new spiderman guy. someone on the other laser tag team told me that my real name was a girl’s name [ it’s unisex ] in an effort to make fun of me. even my coworkers have been calling me son / boy / dude / etc. i’m not sure if i’m doing anything different, maybe it’s because i’m beginning to hold myself more confidently? but it’s nice.