friendly-advice

friendly advice: if you read fanfictions or enjoy someone’s fanart, it will take you only a minute to leave a comment for the writer or the artist to see. They work hard and share with the fans. They work hours for your few minutes enjoyment, and trust me, nothing feels better than seeing people’s reactions. So people, leave comments, tag or visit writer’s/artist’s asbox and make their day.  

You Don't Owe Anyone Your Friendship

Do not allow people who are anything less than positive, supportive or encouraging to occupy space in your life that could be used for people that genuinely care about you. People treat you how you allow them to treat you; if you feel like the friend that is always compromising, always reaching out to the other, always apologizing when you’ve done nothing wrong, you need to let your “friend” know how much this bothers you. And although no one deserves to be treated like crap, you are enabling their shitty behavior by not speaking up. Do not allow yourself to avoid “confrontation” because you are afraid of being alone or losing your “friend”. If they are your real friend, when you speak up about your hurt feelings, they will apologize and change. And if they do not apologize or change, but walk out of your life, then really they weren’t your friend in the first place.

Do not allow people to walk all over you. This doesn’t mean you have to be mean or rude or unkind; it just means standing firm in understanding your value and your worth as a good friend. You are caring and kind, almost to a fault; spend that time on people who are worth it. Do not feel pressured into silencing yourself. Your feelings are real and your concerns are valid. Speak up because you deserve to be heard.

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These harmonies send shivers down my spine.

WHOA THERE!

DASH POLICE- I’m gonna need you to pull over, pal. Do you know how fast you were scrolling? You were going a solid twenty posts per minute in a strictly ten posts per minute zone. That’s no good, buddy, no good at all.

Now I’m gonna let you off with a warning, but remember to slow it down, take some time to reblog, like a few posts, maybe add your opinion on something. Just remember not to tag your hate, and don’t go being an asshole. Think before you talk out your ass. Stop and smell those hipster posts now and again, and take a break to use the bathroom, get a snack, stretch, maybe go outside and get some fresh air.

Oh and, one more thing, before you keep scrolling.

You look great, and if I wasn’t a strict professional, I’d ask to touch your butt.

Carry on, friend.

You’re Smart!

I absolutely hate it when people think that just because someone is smart they can get good grades. Not everyone is capable of getting straight A’s and grades have noting to do with actual intelligence anyways. If you’re smart, you’re smart, no matter what your grades are! 

So yeah, I made this one for all those teens out there who are tired of getting judged based on their grades, or having people try to force them to improve where its not possible. If you’re already doing your best then you have nothing to be ashamed of!

Reblog if you feel the same way, or if you want to support those who do! Spread this message around. Don’t get discouraged if your grades are low, guys!! <3