for... very bad reasons

Imagine Woozi trying his best to help you sleep better when he finds out that you haven’t been sleeping well lately.

To anyone who says that they are "glorifying obesity"

Your rolls are not “glorious”

Sweat trapped under rolls is not good.

Stretch marks are natural, but when they are bold purple, and painful and tearing, its because your skin was not meant to expand so much, so quickly.

Neither are chafed thighs, red and raw just because of walking around too much, without coverings. Maybe because it’s summer and you got a new bathing suit. Maybe a dress or skirt. Its uncomfortable for a reason.

A bad diet very often will give you bad acne, which means that when you sweat, it stings badly.

Your knees hurting because you have trouble carrying the extra weight on your body, which was not meant to be there, is also for a reason.


Take time to notice that none of this is created by a “fat phobic” society.
This is your body telling you to STOP.
Stop eating so much .
To lose weight , you don’t need a gym or expensive foods.
Just think about what you put into your body.
Don’t treat your body like a trash bin.

Unhealthy foods aren’t “bad”, its just that they are treats, which you don’t need every day.

Drink water regularly, count the soda as a treat, because it’s not free of calories.


Lastly, stop pushing this shitty mentality that its OKAY TO GIVE UP ON YOURSELF TO CHILDREN.
A decent percentage of users on here are children!
This site is 13+

They have enough to deal with without fucking ADULTS telling them to inflict this pain on themselves.

Because they were “meant to be fat”.

Because they can not change it.

Cut that crap out.

They deserve better than living like that.

two thoughts on "rogue one: a star wars story"...

one, i couldn’t help but feel REALLY bad for orson krennic for one very specific reason: his story is that of every series creator who ever had a show taken away by some asshole showrunner hired against their will. he literally dies watching his life’s work succeed from afar, wondering why the other guy was more “qualified” than him. to me, he is the real tragic figure of the film, and the one with whom i felt the most empathy.

second, a good two thirds into the movie, i found myself choking up with emotion… during the scene in which diego luna and felicity jones have a big argument about heroism, mission, and morality. while the scene was a good scene on its own, that was not the sole reason it resonated so much with me that it brought me to tears… but rather that here was a “star wars” film in which a latino man with an accent got to have the big heroic conversation with the other lead.

because my skin is light - and most people just assume i’m “white” - the one thing that always gave me away as “other” was always my accent: and i worked very hard to mitigate it as a ten year old who had just moved from puerto rico to the united states. i thought at my age - and a life lived in learned resignation to the the depredations of popular culture on minorities (and a professional life in which i have sometimes been an enabler of those insults) - i would be pretty much immune to the revelation that it feels good to see yourself on the screen.

whatever greatness or flaws “rogue one” may possess, that one moment gave me a glimpse of how much more “star wars” could have meant to me as a child (and for those of you who know me well, i know, it’s hard to imagine it could have meant more) had it deigned to reflect the world a little more accurately and perhaps made me feel that i could have been a hero without regard to, and not in spite of, the sound of my true voice.

Oh shit Lapis is doing some water magic.

But what? 

WAIT IS SHE TRYING TO REPAIR THE WARP.

LAPIS THAT IS A VERY BAD IDEA FOR A NUMBER OF REASONS OKAY?

WHOA HOLY SHIT.

Okay… first that scared the crap out of me and it looks amazing.

Second, she’s not trying to repair it, she’s just using the surface as a mirror which tells us that the mirror power is something she had before being trapepd in that tool

interesting.

A short visit eh? Like for example, if your Diamond were to visit the Earth to check on the colony with a Sapphire who ended up joining the rebellion?

anonymous asked:

one of my best friends has been really awful towards me in regards to one of my stressors (which has been contributing to my intrusive thoughts, no less) and hasn't listened at all and i'm scared that she won't let up. it's all making me feel really inadequate and like my feelings don't matter at all, especially since it's over something so small that everyone thinks i'm overreacting. it's been eating at me for a long time and i just want to give up here...

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so i have a friend, and we’re really close, but lately she’s been going through hard times, but she’s creating a lot drama, and it’s all very stressful on me. i always feel like i do things wrong in the friendship, and she can be hypocritical, manipulative… i think she might be a toxic friend, but i go to a super small school, so cutting her off would be hard. plus i don’t want to hurt her, and i love her, i just feel so stressed at trapped. advice?


I’m not sure if it was the same person who sent both of these, but they were pretty similar so I thought I’d answer them together.

Bottom line here - friends shouldn’t be a source of stress. While all friendships go through tough times, there is a line that must be drawn between “they were just having a bad day” and “they do this to me all the time”. If a friend is consistently making you feel bad/inadequate/stressed, then you need to address that with them. I say that knowing that talking to your friends about something like this might be one of the most difficult conversations you ever have, but it is necessary. If you truly care about this person and want to make an effort to keep them in your life then you need to bring it up with them; otherwise your friendship will only go downhill from here. A behavior can easily become toxic if it is never addressed. And if they truly care about you and want to remain your friend, then they’ll address the behavior and stop doing it once they know how you feel about it.

If they don’t, then it might be time to look for new friends.

This obviously depends on your judgement and the situation - in the second message you said your friend was going through something, so it’s possible that when she moves on from that, your friendship will go back to normal. However, I think that communication is important in every relationship and that includes friendships. If you have a healthy friendship then you should be able to have conversations like this, so that you can continue to be friends.

Hope this helps!

anonymous asked:

Do you mind telling us your first language? And how long it took you to learn the other ones? Did you immerse yourself in an environment with the language or learn it (with classes or other)? It took me less than 1 year for English (2nd) because I was immersed but french classes for 2 years and I can understand it (written & spoken) but still can't speak it. And now my 3rd language attempt is decent despite no classes or immersion. Find it interesting how time differs for languages and ppl

the 2nd language i learned is english, since it’s a compulsory subject in the education system, which puts english as an official subject from 1st grade all the way until the last year of high school, and english is actually one of the subjects for entrance exam too. so i have been learning english ever since i started going to school, but i was just so-so until middle school, since i have no desire nor interest with languages. i got to know kpop when i went to middle school, and as a result i got more engaged with english for idols stuffs. after about few months or a year of liking kpop and reading lots of fics (and twitter lol), i became more familiar with english and now, i feel like i’m even better at english than my native lang ;; things come out of my mouth in english more naturally than my native lang ;;

the 3rd language i learned is chinese, it’s one of the subjects for my class in middle school, but i had absolutely no interest towards it then. when i moved up to high school, i suddenly became interested in chinese dramas and started liking chinese idols. i picked up chinese again by myself and learned it again using my old textbooks and lots of help from weibo. i also used to be a staff for a fanbase and they occasionally asked me to translate things from chinese so that was how i practiced chinese back then.

the 4th language is korean. i actually wanted to learn korean since a long time ago, and learned the basic things like the alphabet and basic grammars back then, but i didn’t have time to pursue it until 2015. it’s ironic how when i started properly learning korean, i wasn’t interested in any korean idols, i was all about chinese idols then ;; after learning it for about 4 5 months, i got the grammars but still couldn’t speak or generally use korean naturally at all. then i got to know about bts and started stanning them, that’s when i started using my korean knowledge to catch up on things faster.

every language i learned starts by classes but it’s the social networks that helped me getting to know and use it more naturally. the classes only help me with grammars and i figure out the rest and practical use of languages by myself, mostly through google. it’s definitely a big help if you’re immersed in something related to the language, be it idols, the culture or the language itself. it keeps you from being bored and also provides you with constant exposure to the language. i got a various amount of english vocabulary from reading cooking blogs and recipes because i’m into cooking and baking ;;

currently i’m challenging myself with learning japanese, i got a friend who’s working as a japanese teacher to help me, but the main reason i’m learning japanese is because of bts’ japanese schedules. i can’t stand looking at something i’m interested in without knowing what it means, so i decided to learn japanese. i’m praying by the time i can properly learn japanese bts will have schedules in japan again, so i can practice it regularly 🙏

Saeran Headcanons
  • It takes a long time for Saeran to trust anyone, specially females because of the abuse from childhood, and the trauma from what Rika did to him.

  • Flinches around loud noises, like angry yelling, even if its not directed to him.

  • Whenever he makes even a small mistake, he gets afraid that he will get punished.

  • He has PTSD, and sees a lot of nightmares from him childhood, and his time at MintEye.

  • Saeran craves for positive physical contact, like hugs, but is same time afraid.

  • He has a trouble to look people in the eyes when speaking.

  • Whenever he feels anxious, or nervous he plays with hem / sleeve of his shirt.

  • He doesn’t like to be around places which has a lot of people. It makes him anxious, and he feels like he is suffocating.

  • He feels very uncomfortable around drunk people, since he brings back bad memories from his childhood. This is also very reason why he doesn’t drink any alcohol; even the smell makes him feel sick to the stomach.

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To my friends who ship johnlock

Your emotions right now are very real. Please don’t let anyone try to belittle them: grief and loss are a BIG deal. I hope you have someone to work through your feelings with, because finding the right support when you’re hurting is incredibly important.

But…

Hateposting is NOT the right support.

I saw some really disturbing stuff in this fandom after the episode 3 preview screening: one person threatened to “kick (Mark Gatiss’s) gay ass” if we didn’t get johnlock. Someone else told Arwel Wyn-Jones he was going to die.

Guys…is that who we are? Really? People who post death threats when we don’t get our own way?

(And yes, btw, saying you’re going to kill yourself counts as a death threat. Shaddup that noise; we need you here.)

I think in the heat of emotion, it’s easy to forget one very important thing:

Disappointment does NOT excuse bad behaviour.

There’s a reason why ‘Malicious Speech’ is at the top of Tumblr’s community guidelines list: it’s harmful, it’s toxic, and it spreads.

If you post hateful speech, or speech that could incite violence (“We’ll show them they can’t get away with this!” “We’ll go to their houses and MAKE them give us an answer!”)…then that is grounds to have your Tumblr account taken away. It doesn’t matter if you were “just kidding” or if you’re gay yourself, so “it couldn’t possibly be hate speech”…

If you post it, then you are responsible for it.

Right now, it is HUGELY important that we all support each other. People aren’t just grieving johnlock, remember; we’re ALL mourning the loss of the show…the end of series 4, yes, but maybe (though I really hope not) the end of Sherlock entirely. The one thing that will help us all get through it is our fandom community. And please remember that right now, one angry post could cost you your whole means of accessing all that support.

tl;dr - Please think before you post. We need everyone together in this fandom right now.

me, having too bad of a pain day to attend a women’s march: it’s okay, i helped some friends create signs and care bags, so i don’t feel too guilty about not being able to go.

some cis het white girl: if you’re not at the women’s march, you’re complacent! there’s no other way around it! either you’re here with us or you’re against us!

me: ah, yes. of course. how could i have been so blind.

anonymous asked:

How many relationships did each of them have before they got together?

That’s a tough one, and depends on how you define relationship.

John had a college boyfriend, Francis, that he was with for a few years. He had at least 2 other bfs, less than a year each. 

Alex dated Angelica, then Eliza his freshman year. Laf was his first serious boyfriend. He had several bfs and gfs throughout his relationship with Laf, but John was the only one that became part of the trio.

CW for Laf’s back story, has…dub con elements:

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pancakeryan  asked:

lowkey excited for sherlock to be over forever even though I love it a lot just so I can enjoy the very good television programme without hearing the very bad discourse. same reason I am kinda thrilled moffat's dw era is ending even though it's my absolute favourite because it means I get to watch and enjoy it sound in the knowledge that fewer dummies are discussing it. I mean I am mostly joking but also sort of not at all. I'm think I'm just tired and need a lie down.

I feel that. The discourse is just so toxic around these brilliant shows, it’s be nice to have a cleaner space to enjoy it in.

My hope is wherever Moffat goes next in his career, things won’t be quite so hectic in fan communities. Because it’s just been ridiculous. So much anger and hatred and entitlement.

WHY DOES EVERYONE IN THIS SERIES SO EASILY DEVELOP MASSIVE GRUDGES AGAINST HIGHLY SPECIFIC LAW PROFESSIONS FOR STUPID, ARBITRARY REASONS

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the 100 Socialmedia au: Clarke is trying to get Wells to change his generic icon

(and succeeds)

billy wiggins is a knockoff jesse pinkman let’s be real

Gone Girl Starter Sentences

○ “What have we done to each other? What will we do?”
○ “You think you’d be happy with a nice girl? No way, baby! I’m it.”
○ “I killed for you; who else can say that?”
○ “I swear, you two are the most fucked up people I’ve ever known and I specialise in fucked up.”
○ “We’re so cute. I wanna punch us in the face.”
○ “You ever hear the expression the simplest answer is often the correct one?”
○ “Everyone knows that ‘complicated’ is a code word for bitch.”
○ “He took and took from me until I no longer existed. That’s murder.”
○ “Whatever they found, I think it’s safe to assume that it is very bad.”
○ “You’re my voice of reason. I need you with me on this.”
○ “I love tests.”
○ “Come home. I dare you.”
○ “I’m so much happier now that I’m dead.”
○ “Life. I don’t remember the point.”
○ “You fucking idiot.”
○ “You’re probably the most hated man in America right now.”
○ “My God, this place literally smells like feces.”
○ “Do you really want to be the couple that has a baby to save their marriage?”
○ “Well, we have our first clue.”
○ “For Valentine’s Day, I thought I’d buy a gun.”
○ “Let the punishment fit the crime.”
○ “Grown-ups work for things. Grown-ups pay. Grown-ups suffer consequences.”
○ “Men always say that as the defining compliment, don’t they? She’s a cool girl.”
○ “There’s something disturbing about recalling a warm memory and feeling utterly cold.”
○ “There’s a difference between really loving someone and loving the idea of her.”
○ “Tampon commercial, detergent commercial, maxi pad commercial, windex commercial - you’d think all women do is clean and bleed.”
○ “But maybe love, real love, also gives you permission to just be the person you are.”
○ “A lot of people lacked that gift: knowing when to fuck off.”
○ “I carry on an inner monologue, but the words often don’t reach my lips.”
○ “I feel sorry for you. Because every morning you have to wake up and be you.”
○ “If you’re about to do something, and you want to know if it’s a bad idea, imagine seeing it printed in the paper for all the world to see.”
○ “I often don’t say things out loud, even when I should. I contain and compartmentalise to a disturbing degree.”
○ “It’s humbling, to become the very thing you once mocked.”
○ “I don’t understand the point of being together if you’re not the happiest.”
○ “Give me someone with a little fight in them, someone who calls me on my bullshit. (But who also kind of likes my bullshit.)”
○ “You’re easy to like. I’ve never understood why that’s considered a compliment - that just anyone could like you.”
○ “There’s no app for a bourbon buzz on a warm day in a cool, dark bar. The world will always want a drink.”
○ “You are a man. You are an average, lazy, boring, cowardly, woman-fearing man.”