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Typical Traits of Venus in the Signs

Where is Venus placed by zodiacal sign in your chart? Learn what Venus, the planet of luck, love, vision, expansion, and plenty, means in each sign of the zodiac.

ARIES:

  • flirt by being up-front, direct, and even daring 
  • aura of innocent charm, even when they are being childish and impatient
  • addicted to the chase and the intense passions of the moment


TAURUS:

  • possessive in love, and threatened by fast-paced, high-energy situations in the context of relationships
  • very physical lovers, with a great appreciation for scents, sounds, feels, and pleasing form
  • harmony and peace are important factors in the art and music they are attracted to


GEMINI:

  • their tastes change often, and it can be hard to know what to expect from one day to the next 
  • playful — some might even call them a tease
  • attractions often begin with words, as they tend to bond more readily on a mental level, but can keep a distance emotionally


CANCER:

  • predictable, sensitive, their egos are a little underdeveloped when it comes to love, but they have a lot to give in return: namely, security, comfort, and care 
  • they pay more attention to your feelings than your words, and observe you carefully
  • always worried they’ll be left high and dry, if you’ve hurt them, they’ll have a hard time forgetting


LEO:

  • they need to feel special, love is very important even in their physical expressions 
  • loyal and thrive on romantic attention
  • high expectation about every relationship, threatened by indifferent or impersonal behaviour on their partner’s part


VIRGO:

  • quite sensitive in love — even insecure — and this reserved, loner-like quality is part of their appeal 
  • very observant towards their partner, pointing out the flaws and  analysing every detail of their relationship
  • express their love through practical means and gestures


LIBRA:

  • have a polished manner in love, which sometimes makes them appear insincere or superficial 
  • have idealised images of how their relationship is supposed to be, always marriage-oriented
  • tend to seek balance in their personal environment, are quite picky


SCORPIO:

  • they possess you, and somehow make it seem attractive to be possessed
  • their emotion and intensity may seem overdone to those looking for a more lighthearted relationship
  • can be jealous of all of your attachments, but few will admit it


SAGITTARIUS:

  • idealistic lovers who want you to appreciate their beliefs, visions, and ideals 
  • when the going gets tough in their relationship, they have an overwhelming need to run away
  • romantic adventures, as well as a straightforward, even blunt, approach to love


CAPRICORN:

  • their loner-like behaviour can be attractive, dark realists
  • conservative and willing to commit, ready to give and gain support
  • faithful to a fault, even after a separation they will have a hard time moving on, constant lovers


AQUARIUS:

  • unique, rebellious, and  provocative, attracted to everyone unusual
  • understanding is the most important component in a relationship, value lovers who are also their best friends
  • like to choose their terms when involved in a relationship, and this can be challenging for a partner, as their terms can be changeable, but nevertheless some of the most unselfish people in love, rarely clinging or controlling


PISCES:

  • sweetly playful, a little moody, and perhaps a little irregular, you  won’t always be able to count on them
  • their sensitivity can be misleading at times, since they seem to enjoy it
  • they can be unreasonably attracted to states of suffering and martyrdom, so they easily get into the role of saving someone, or being saved. 

“You will never win if you never begin.” – Helen Rowland

“You can’t wait for inspiration. You have to go after it with a club.” – Jack London

“A somebody was once a nobody who wanted to and did.” – John Burroughs

“If you can dream it, you can do it.” —Walt Disney

“Do not wait; the time will never be ‘just right.’ Start where you stand, and work with whatever tools you may have at your command, and better tools will be found as you go along.” — George Herbert

“Step by step and the thing is done.” – Charles Atlas

“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.” — Eleanor Roosevelt

“If you don’t ask, you don’t get.” – Stevie Wonder

“There will be obstacles. There will be doubters. There will be mistakes. But with hard work, there are no limits.” — Michael Phelps

“One way to keep momentum going is to have constantly greater goals.” — Michael Korda

“Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.” – Saint Theresa of Avila

“You just can’t beat the person who never gives up.” —Babe Ruth

“The world breaks everyone, and afterward, some are strong at the broken places.” — Ernest Hemingway

“Things do not happen. Things are made to happen.” – John F. Kennedy

“He who believes is strong; he who doubts is weak. Strong convictions precede great actions.” — Louisa May Alcott

“Without discipline, there’s no life at all.” – Katharine Hepburn

“That which does not kill us makes us stronger.” —Friedrich Nietzsche

“Sometimes you don’t realize your own strength until you come face to face with your greatest weakness.” — Susan Gale

“Do you want to know who you are? Don’t ask. Act! Action will delineate and define you.” — Thomas Jefferson

“There is only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that’s your own self.“ – Aldous Huxley

“Doing the best at this moment puts you in the best place for the next moment.” – Oprah Winfrey

“From my tribe I take nothing, I am the maker of my own fortune.” – Tecumseh

See Part 1 for more motivation!

The Astral Body

Disclaimer: Everyone’s astral experiences are different. While the astralling community may agree for the most part on the following things, you may still experience and believe different things. And that’s okay! ;D *musical flourish*

Originally posted by dimensao7

Your astral body can be wildly different from your physical body:

  • Sexual and romantic tastes can differ between astral and physical.
  • Gender and sex can differ between astral and physical.
  • Shapeshifting is possible with the astral body.
  • Even throughout different lives and forms, your being has a core that remains unchanged. This could be known as a “soul”.

There are different kinds of astral bodies/astral experiences:

  • Some astralling is not permanent; you make a body to astral temporarily and it vanishes/dissolves when you’re done.
  • Some astralling is semi-permanent; you have an astral self that’s “stored” in your physical body.
  • Then there’s physical semi-permanent where, on physical realms, you form a physical body but it’s only active when you use it.
  • Then there’s permanent-permanent when you’re “tuning into” another body/consciousness with its own life that does its own thing even when not in use.

Your astral body and physical body can influence each other:

  • Injury/sickness in astral can affect physical. For example, many people who have been in astral fights wake up the next morning with pains where they were hurt in battle.
  • Injury/sickness in the physical can affect the astral, but not as much as the reverse (as limbs can be regrown, the body is very “fluid”, etc.). For example, if you are sick in the physical, parasites may show up in your astral body, it may be harder for you to connect to your astral body, your astral vision may become blurry, etc.
  • You can get used to being one way in astral and then feel “off” when returning to the physical. You can have wings in the astral and then feel like you’re missing something when you return to your physical body.
  • If the astral body is killed or destroyed, it can regenerate using the physical body’s energy.

Your astral body can change depending on where you are:

  • You can remember some things better in the astral (past lives, astral experiences) than in the physical. They may be weakened, lost, or harder to recall when returning to the physical.
  • This is applicable to specific realms as well. If you have a fae-touched soul, for example, you may recall past lives while travelling to fae realms.
  • You may also experience shifts in your astral form depending on location. Some fae-touched people’s forms change when they are in their fae homeworlds.
  • Different astral realms differ in their effects on one’s astral body. Some things may be possible in one realm but not another. This can also be tied to one’s energetic makeup. For example, someone with angelic energies might have a hard time shapeshifting when in Hell.

Thank you to everyone who helped with the information!~

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As we've gotten a couple of asks from young teens (13/14) this one goes to my lgbtqipa+ kids

🌸 you’re never too young to start thinking about your gender and sexuality.

🌸 But don’t stress yourself out about it. It’s not a race. There’s no time limit.

🌸 There’s nothing wrong with you I promise. I know your family or religion may say otherwise but please trust me.

🌸 I know it’s hard but please remember you’re not alone. You’re not alone among your peers. And those of us who have gone before you are here to help you along the way.

🌸 There will be people who cannot stand you. I’m sorry. The world is changing but so very slowly.

🌸 Support one another. Spread love and acceptance. Don’t fall into the traps of division in the community. We’re stronger together.

🌸 It gets better. It does. It gets better. Please don’t give up yourself.

🌸 We love you.

anonymous asked:

personally i don't like willhell because he's abusive and violent. but go ahead and invalidate my reasons. as someone who has actually suffered from abuse i find his behavior disgusting and manipulative and violent. grow up and see that your perfect guy is a disgusting fuckboy loser.

Oh wow, this should be fun. Thanks for your kind message. 

So let me start first by saying, Willliam is in no way perfect. Skam is not about perfect people. No one is perfect. Not Noora, not Isak, not Eva, not Sana (gasp she said it). No one. Every single character on this show has done something they aren’t proud of, something they are ashamed of…wait isn’t that the name of this show in fact? So don’t come off trying to make it seem like I idolize William, because I don’t. 

But also, as a human being with a soul and a pair of eyes, I can see the difference between a unrepentant, abusive, asshole and someone who is struggling in life. 

I’m going to try and be clear about this because no one else wants to see it, but it’s fun and I want to so let’s get rolling.

1. Abuse: William, a teenage boy with crush on a girl, goes about getting her attention in a game as old as time. Does he manipulate Vilde in order to get to Noora? Ya a little but in fairly harmless ways. He calls Vilde to talk to Noora. He snaps Vilde to ask if their bus is coming to his party. 

Ya but he is a dick to Vilde. He treated her like trash. So yes, well done on using your eyes in this one and only scene. He does talk down to Vilde and later explains to Noora that he did so to try and get Vilde to dislike him. He doesn’t want Vilde or her obsessive affections and was pretty clear that they were just a hook-up. Vilde even says that when she has sex with William, that he was very sweet and kind to her. (doesn’t quite sound like abuse).

When Noora goes on her date with William in order to fulfill their bargain, she says (after the date has come to an end) “I don’t owe you anything now” and William says “no you don’t owe me anything”. William obviously likes this girl and tried to do something sweet by taking her out and talking about his past and trying to explain a little about why he says the things that he says. At this point, Noora gives off the impression that she has done her duty and gone on this date, but then she does show signs of being interested in William after.

I’m still not sure where the abuse is coming from, but I’ll continue.

William teases her, tries to get her to come to his parties, tries to get her attention and despite Noora’s outward protests to the idea of hanging out with William, there is definitely interest and she is trying to fight that because of Vile (who, mind you, isn’t dating William so he has no obligation to this girl he slept with among several others). Obviously, Noora doesn’t want Vilde finding out so she becomes paranoid that William is going to tell Vilde about what happened (or didn’t happen) between them.

Despite all of this, and all of William’s teasing, he doesn’t ever tell Vilde anything. He goes along with Noora’s wishes for privacy and to keep what happened between them a secret.

When they start dating/seeing each other, William is completely interested in Noora. She is again paranoid because of his past behavior with sleeping around, that he is going to cheat on her or sleep around during Russ time. William seems insulted by this because it’s clear to him that he is only interested in Noora. He expresses this several times and even has several kind things to say about her when she opens up about her family.

“BUT HE LIED ABOUT HIS BROTHER”

As someone who has had some dark things in my past and in my family, I don’t necessarily open up about those right away or ever. It’s hard to talk about having a fucked up family. It’s hard to admit that your - in William’s case - brother is a psychopath, or that your sister is dead, or that your family is broken. Not exactly easy conversation for a girl who may or may not be invested in getting to know you and keeps pushing you away.

William has a dark past and while yes he acts like a prick a lot, it is a natural coping mechanism. He has a fucked up family life - none at all really - and so let’s shame him for trying to push himself as far away from that as he can. 

2. Violence - saying William is an awful person because of his anger issues is pretty demeaning. Not everyone can cope with anger in a sweet and calm demeanor. William gets into fights, just like Isak,Jonas, PChris, Boy Squad v Balloon Squad s4. It’s part of the way he defends himself and his friends. Is smashing a bottle over your enemies head a good way to solve an issue? Hell no. But this is someone who was anxiously trying to help his friends and defend his friends (as he explains to Noora) about what the Yakuza guys were doing to all of them. Again, was it right? No. But did he go around smashing bottles on everyone’s heads? Also no. People say he didn’t have remorse about this but it was very clear to me that he was ashamed of this anger and this side of him because he asked Noora to stay on the bus. He was concerned about what she might see and how it might affect her opinion of him.

Now, when it comes to the talk about ‘killing’ his brother: William was so angry with his brother for what he did to Noora, for taking advantage of her, that he probably wanted to kill the guy. That is not a ‘strange’ reaction. It’s a coping mechanism for people who would do anything to protect the people they love. Note, he didn’t kill his brother. I don’t think he even beat the shit out of him even though Niko would have deserved it for what he did. I think that’s called…….character development?

3. He victim blamed Noora when she thought she’d been raped: bullshit. This goes back to the anger issues and coping mechanisms. Not everyone knows how to respond when it comes to news that your brother may have raped your girlfriend, or in the initial situation, your girlfriend who you finally let your walls down for and love deeply, may have slept with your brother. Naturally, instead of beating the shit out of his brother (which old William might have done) or putting himself in a situation where he might have said cruel things to Noora when blinded by anger, he pushed himself away. It’s called self-preservation. He wasn’t shaming her for what happened. But it looked as though he felt that he failed her and himself and that he wasn’t going to let his walls down again.

Obviously that wasn’t the case.

I could list a thousand other moments where William was actually kind and tender to Noora when she was having an anxiety attack, when she was lonely. William’s reaction to Noora admitting she lied and didn’t testify against Niko is once again another reaction that shows he was sad and confused about a situation that caused so much tension between them. He hates his brother and hates what he has done to William’s relationship with Noora, and to Noora directly. Obviously, that news would mean he needed time to process.

Noora is a runner, as I’ve said before, and when she feels unloved (like she feels about her parents, or how she felt likely when Sana was being cold to her about Yousef) she runs, she steps away.


If you don’t believe me, just listen to Sana talk to Noora about half of the same shit above in S2. 

So please don’t try and come at me that you’re a victim of abuse so you’re the expert on William Magnusson. I’ve been verbally abused most of my life in a not so great family situation. My father is a manic-depressive and I have been scared for my mother on countless occasions. I have been verbally manipulated into making me feel as though I am to blame for things that I have not done. It has scarred me so much to this day that I still get anxiety during family get togethers.

I am in no way invalidating your abuse or your past. But looking at William, I don’t see a terrible person, a nasty person, an abuser, a toxic white man. I see him as a man who very much cares for Noora Amalie and would do anything to protect her, anything that she asked of him. A man who is kind, silly, goofy, loving, and understanding, but with a past who he also has to overcome, and has been for the last several years.

So please don’t leave nasty comments on my page.

Thanks.

Hunk and Lance Appreciation Meta: On the Importance of Support

(I’m crying because I lost the first version of this post, but here we go again)

I have never written something as long as this before, but I had rambled on some time ago about my precious boys Hunk and Lance and their importance on/to the team, especially the role they play in the team dynamic in relation to their bayards and their being Voltron’s legs. I might miss a lot of things as I admittedly didn’t have the time to focus hard on all the eps and comics, so if I gloss over anything, please feel free to point it out. (Also, fair warning as this is long, and may be image heavy. Also, I don’t pride myself on cohesive thinking, but I try my best.)

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Ok guys, Spencer was not actually begging Marco to drop the case, she’s not stupid and she knows him well enough to know he wouldn’t risk his job or his integrity for a girl he just met. She is incriminating him. She knows he is the only guy in Rosewood police departemnt that has any chance at all on pinning her and the liars for murder. She is making it seem like he might have known who she was when he started flirting with her at the bar and was just using her to get information. And I mean, I kinda have a hard time believing he didn’t know, with the liars already being questioned about Charlottes murder. Don’t forget whose house Spencer grew up in! She’s def using those Hastings lawyer skills. Their sexual relationship compromises his credibility and may force him to recuse himself from the case. I’m sure she is actually really upset about losing him, and I think Marco really does like her, but Spencer’s loyalties lie soley with the girls and now that shes backed into a corner she’ll do what she must to keep them out of prison.

I couldn’t resist making Echo an Orochi High student! She’s my weirdest child, so I had to draw her. @orochihigh there needs to be a huffy grounds keeper who throws things every time the arboreal or fossorial snakes have too much fun.


Echo is an odd sand boa. She can frequently be found climbing all of the school signs and trees just because she can. She may be small and getting to those bottom limbs may be hard, but it’s worth it to be a tall tree snake. She truly believes that should have been born a tree boa. An Amazon tree boa probably. They’re pretty cool.  It doesn’t matter that she’s better at falling than climbing. She dreams big for a baby worm!

But at the end of the day, nothing beats burrowing into the ground and making tunnels everywhere. Except knocking things down as she goes. That’s the best part about burrowing.

Echo’s favorite marking is the dinosaur on the top of her head. She can never decide which dinosaur it is, so she rotates through all of her favorite dinosaurs, but on Monday, it’s always a velociraptor. Next to Amazon tree boas, dinosaurs are Echo’s favorite things.

During dinner time, Echo likes to poke her food a few times. Maybe five just to be sure it’s food. She’ll pick it up and drop it in a new place just for good measure too. Once she’s ready to eat, it’s down the hatch–after doing a back bend, that is! Yes, Echo is one of those enlightened snakes that figured out how to use the ground to her advantage. Once dinner is in place, she bends over backwards and shoves her food into the ground so she can eat it faster. There’s no time to waste when there’s dirt to burrow in and things to climb!

sebastianshoe  asked:

☾ ψ ϟ ♚ ♒ for Sebastian?

Hello, fam, thank you for asking those! The questions you picked are the music to my ears, honestly. AndIloveyourblogespeciallythematchupyouwroteforme


Sebastian:

☾ What is their favorite and least favorite thing about the night?

His favourite part of the night is the fact that people are sleeping then and he can finally stop acting. He doesn’t have to smile all the time (even though he still does, his moods are generally rather positive), he doesn’t have to fulfill any orders and he can have some time for himself - in peace and silence. There was a single part in the manga where he has been shown in the middle of the night - sitting alone by the desk with a pile of huge books surrounding him and this is literally the best thing ever, one of the very rare moments when we could see him actually being himself. I often look at it, it’s so adorable, Sebastian secretly being a bookworm.

When it comes to least favourite aspect of the nights, I’d say it could be that so they easily bring melancholy, remind about mistakes, make us question lots of things and since Sebastian doesn’t sleep at all such thoughts can be intrusive for him so sometimes it is better to find an occupation.

ψ Do they think they deserve punishment for their wrongdoings? 

If someone whould ever ask him this question, his answer would most likely be ‘yes’ but the thing is, he doesn’t think of it, ever. Partly because he is so full of pride that he doubts any kind of punishment will reach him anytime soon, partly because he is aware of his immortality and partly because he spent so much time in hell that he isn’t concerned about such things anymore. He has already seen so many terrible, horrifying things that he kind of grew immune to them even if they were going to be made for him, so it is impossible to scare him this way.

ϟ Have they ever gotten pleasure from causing others pain?

He always experiences pleasure form causing pain to the others, not a physical one but mentally he feels the greatest when people are dying from his hands, when they scream from pain, when they beg for mercy, when they cower in fear, it can be such an ecstatic sensation for him that sometimes he lets himself get lost in it and loses his composure.

♚ Do they consider themselves to be evil? 

Sebastian cosiders himself more evil than he indeed is. There are moments where he visibly seems more to want to be evil than actually being evil, such as the incident in the end of Circus Arc where he clearly had doubts for Ciel’s orders. He was also moved when Agni called him his friend, surprised that someone could see him as such but not offended by it. It was canonically stated that he likes being a butler; he enjoys cooking, loves admiration and attention he is receiving, he likes impressing the others and taking care of the household is his pride, those aren’t aspects of someone who is evil to the bone and nothing more. Thinking about all of it, sometimes it is even hard to remember who he truly is and I have a feeling that he may be forgetting about it, too, from time to time.

♒ If they could choose how to die, how would they want to go? 

He doesn’t have any particular method chosen because he doesn’t think about it, since after death there would be nothing more for him; being a demon, he would disappear both from hell and earth, on the contrary to humans - not being able to be reborn or to get a new body. The lack of the soul makes it all impossible so if his physical form would be completely destroyed, he would simply stop existing and such perspective isn’t something he likes to contemplate about. However, if he had to chose, I’m almost sure that he would want to go with a boom, not literally but surely in some huge, impressive way.

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Taurus sun, Gemini moon, Scorpio rising aesthetic & decription

requested by @chocobrody

You are a well grounded person and a shoulder for all of your friends to cry on. In addition to that, you’re a fun and pleasant person to hang out with, and you are very interesting. People who know you well may say that you’re a bit irritable at times, but they stick with you anyway because they value your mixture of stability and charisma in a friend. You spend a lot of your time trying to mold yourself into an acceptable person, and this may often consume you. You bore very easily and you’re never not doing something. People who don’t know you want to get to know you because you appear mysterious and in control, and people usually are attracted to that, whether they know it or not. When people do get to know you, they are refreshed by how warm your presence is. You always have something to talk about and you most likely are known for being very friendly, but to those who don’t know you, you may appear cold at times. Sometimes, on a bad day, you may feel a bit lonely and act a little distant because of how hard you’ve been trying to fit in, but most days, you bring everyone together and are a wonderful friend to all.

So, I’ve been reading Love Is a Dog From Hell by Charles Bukowski to try to understand better what Harry’s going on about. And I think I get it, though I haven’t finished yet – man who feels unsatisfied tries to fill the hole with women who define themselves through men and justifies these baser indulgences as expressions of love or art, though always knowing that he’s using them to stave off his terror of mortality and loneliness and meaninglessness. And I think I get how that informs some of the songs on the Pink Album. But what I don’t understand is what drew Harry to this in the first place? What is he getting from Bukowski that I clearly am not? I don’t think Harry thinks of women (or anyone) this way. I do think he romanticizes the tortured artist, but there are plenty of other tortured artists who would seem to speak more directly to him. I understand that Harry is a complex person and that he is not just the soft romantic nor just the disillusioned pop star nor just any of the sides we see. And he’s likely a lot of what we don’t see. But what is it about Bukowski that speaks to him, because I’m having a hard time reconciling those poems with the person I think I know? (I mean, clearly, that could be the answer: we just don’t know this side of him. But it seems to be in opposition to much of what we do know). Any Bukowski scholars out there who could shed some light on the parts I’m not getting that may be what interests Harry?

I suspect it is hard to understand a nurse. We get up early and don’t have time to drink coffee over the newspaper. We come home late and are too tired to cook We work extra because we know there are sick people who need us. We don’t get too excited over your minor “boo-boo”. We have seen far worse. We don’t want to talk when we come home. We have talked all day. We don’t want to move when we come home. We have moved all day. It may seem, that we have left all our caring, our heart, and our love at work, then come home empty. We probably have.

But we don’t tell you that many times at work we are scared. Scared we are missing something. Scared we will let our patient down. Have to deal with angry families and yelled at by doctors. I suspect it is hard to understand a nurse, but know this: Your nurse needs your love. Needs your understanding. Needs to know that you “get it”. Needs to feel needed, Needs you to do the hardest work you may ever do, which is to love, appreciate and understand a nurse.
I would like to thank those of you out there who love us and let us do this work, this calling, this life: Nursing.

Copy and paste if you are nurse or love a nurse!!!

anonymous asked:

Hi, Hannah. Been watching/loving your videos for 6 years. Here's my Q: How to break out of a cycle of being alone>not wanting to be around people>being alone? How do I break the cycle if there's nobody to help. And even if someone wanted to help me, they wouldn't want me around for long, because I'm not good around people. I'm not even sure I want out, sometimes I'm not unhappy. But being around people seems harder as time goes by as does a chance to get in a relationship. Sorry for the hard Q.

Thank you for this question! Frankly, it’s tough. I’m currently grappling with that cycle myself right now. It’s funny how we can feel both lonely and crave solitude.

The best thing we can do during those moments (IMHO) is make a bunch of plans and then cancel them. Haha. JUST KIDDING.

One step at a time, maybe try reaching out to someone who understands you, someone you don’t have to perform for, talking to them about how you’re feeling may fill both needs. It’s wonderful to have a friend who feels similarly and can remind you that no feeling will last forever. 

Hang in there, you’re doing great. <3 

anonymous asked:

Hi!! I'm kind of new to the fandom and I'm having trouble really getting to know the members personalities. If it's not too much, could you write a little blurb about each of there personalities? If you don't want to do all the members (because dear god there's so many, rest in pieces Taeyong for having 10,000 kids), then could you do just the NCT 127 members? Thank you and I love you so much❤❤❤❤❤

aw welcome to the nctzen fandom!! hehe i hope this helps though ahh, if you want to know more go watch their nct life seasons, it’s help a lot or message me!! xoxo

Taeil:

- awkward bun since debut but he’s much comfortable now!!
- quietly looks over and takes care of the younger members
- he’s not good with expressing himself and through words (same bro) so he tries to make up for that by always joking around and teasing the other members
- his random outbursts are weird but cute
- dances randomly in public one moment
- and making owl impersonations
- gets aggressive when playing games
- won’t hesitate to do the things the others call him to do
- voice of an angel
- ravenclaw (stated in nct life)

Hansol:

- really really quiet
- awkward man 2.0
- but still jokes around with the members too!
- especially johnny & yuta
- more of a listener than a talker
- man from busan who forgot his busan accent
- similar to taeil he isnt that good at expressing himself
- which is why he probably loves dancing so much (damn his moves are always ON POINT)
- i miss him sm please bring him back i can only say this much about him im sorry dnndnd

Johnny:

- every member’s no.1 supporter
- very encouraging and loves to compliment them but when gets complimented he becomes extremely shy
- jokes around a lot to make the others laugh
- actual sweetheart who’d make your heart throb
- on stage he’s all manly and tough
- but off stage he’s actually really soft and sweet
- takes care of the members too
- one of the talkers in nct
- man who can speak many languages
- english, chinese, korean & spanish (there’s more but i forgot ksms)
- moodmaker of the group!

Taeyong:

- mom material
- nags a lot at them and takes care of them like they’re his real children
- gets really soft towards them too
- dont get fooled by his rapping deep voice because when he talks to them his voice gets all high and cute
- another one who looks so intimidating on stage but off stage is a literal ball of softness
- cherishes the members a lot
- claims to be doyoung’s enemy when in fact they’re like best friends
- acts like a 5 year old
- randomly breaks into dances, jumps around excitedly and making weird faces
- thinks a lot but doesnt show it because he doesn’t want the members to worry about him
- Hufflepuff (stated in nct life)

Yuta:

- king of being extra
- really proud of himself and would take any chance to compliment himself possible
- which we’re not denying tho
- winwin’s biggest fan and supporter
- loves to roast the other members
- but also take care of them too
- gets jealous easily
- really straightforward and honest
- he says anything that’s on his mind
- but can be a sweetheart too
- kissing the camera 24/7 to melt out hearts
- and giving that smile wow
- sexy dance is his forte
- Slytherin (stated in nct life)

Kun:

- looks out for the other members
- really polite
- laughs at everything they say
- an angel
- vocals that could sing you to sleep
- i feel like he’s actually very competitive if he needs to be? (nct life in seoul)
- man i need more videos of him dkdkd sm wyd

Doyoung:

- 24/7 done with the older members
- but acts like the mom towards dreamies
- mark’s his ultimate bias (high five bunny)
- nags and complains A LOT
- whining is his thing ↑
- but it’s cute so-
- very intelligent and quick to react
- really really good speaker
- another one of the talkers in nct
- loves the group with all his heart
- supportive of every member too
- tries his best to get nct’s name out there as much as he can
- Slytherin (stated in nct life)

Ten:

- actually clueless and unsure of what the members are talking about most of the time
- really funny
- makes weird faces too
- laughs at everything they say or do
- even though he doesnt show it he cares about the rest a lot!
- really polite and is an angel too
- king of predebut photos and videos
- one of the moodmakers too
- best friends with johnny
- super smol
- gets shy easily

Jaehyun:

- smile and laughter could kill you
- really supportive of the members too
- takes care of them especially dreamies
- also a really good speaker
- he knows what to say and not
- listens to the other members well
- confident in what he does but still gets shy when complimented
- another one who can make your heart throb at anything he does
- cherishes friendship a lot
- and is apparently mark’s soulmate (and winwin’s too hmm make up your mind jae)

WinWin:

- the actual baby of the group
- doesnt even need to put in effort to look cute
- does the cutest things
- clueless too
- but can be a savage if he feels like it
- quiet but can be talkative if he needs to be
- especially when he’s nervous or scared
- does aegyo just to get food
- seems awkward but it’d take him some time to fully open up
- and when he does he can get really affectionate and talkative
- gives an awkward shy laugh whenever he doesn’t know what to say
- all the members of 127 treats him like the maknae
- chinaline’s older brother
- gryffindor (stated in nct life)

Mark:

- golden boy with endless talents
- gets nervous and shy really really easily
- stutters on his words and repeats them
- hesitates for a while when you ask him to do things but still does it perfectly how??
- is bad at receiving compliments (same bby same)
- king of reaction who laughs at everything
- weird kid
- when his wild side appears it’s hard to control and deal with
- spills out random english words
- and probably jumps around like crazy
- seems to always have energy
- always spreading positive vibes
- really easy to get along with but because he’s shy it may take him time to open up

Renjun:

- always smiling
- an angel
- but towards jisung and chenle he can get aggressive
- because he probably had enough of those two
- looks up to the older members
- gets shy easily too but doesnt make it obvious
- a good speaker too
- moomin’s biggest fan
- smol
- loves teasing the other members too especially mark

Jeno:

- really calm and quiet
- boring (according to jisung)
- doesn’t need effort to look good
- more of a listener too
- in charge of giving reactions too
- isnt that good with his words too but he tries his best
- really polite and nice
- supportive of all the members
- loves roasting jisung & haechan
- jaemin’s best friend but in mfal it was renjun hmm
- sunshine who gives off positive vibes too

Haechan:

- is always teasing the other members
- but it’s his way of showing his love to them
- mark’s best friend
- moodmaker of the group
- always trying his best
- competitive
- loves it when people compliments him but lowkey acts shy
- actually really soft
- wants the members’ attention and can get really clingy
- whiny too
- endless jokes and weird antics just to make the members laugh
- sunshine

Jaemin:

- meme material 101
- w i l d
- loves teasing the other members and making them laugh too
- haechan’s sidekick
- but when he smiles it’s a different story because wow an angel??
- another moodmaker too
- can be loud
- and can also be really chill
- very easy to get along with and is extremely friendly
- tries his best to show off his talents
- i miss him sm please give updates thank you

Chenle:

- iconic dolpin laughter
- extremely wild and loud
- seems to be happy 24/7
- laughs at everything too
- jisung’s number one hypeman
- takes every moment to compliment himself too
- can be a savage too
- loves teasing mark
- looks up to the older members
- open minded and easy to communicate with
- fun to be with too
- gets shy but always laughs it off

Jisung:

- clueless and gets flustered and scared of/at the littlest things
- still shy when he talks but it’s better now
- good with his words
- especially making fun if the older members
- yaja time’s his favourite time
- chenle’s best friend
- looks up to the other members too
- quiet too but when asked to do things he would do it
- pure child
- grows very quickly
- is pretty laidback and relaxed most of the time

oh my this is so long im sorry

Typical Traits of Venus in the Signs

Where is Venus placed by zodiacal sign in your chart? Learn what Venus, the planet of luck, love, vision, expansion, and plenty, means in each sign of the zodiac.

ARIES:

  • flirt by being up-front, direct, and even daring
  • aura of innocent charm, even when they are being childish and impatient
  • addicted to the chase and the intense passions of the moment


TAURUS:

  • possessive in love, and threatened by fast-paced, high-energy situations in the context of relationships
  • very physical lovers, with a great appreciation for scents, sounds, feels, and pleasing form
  • harmony and peace are important factors in the art and music they are attracted to

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HAPPY BiRTHDAY TECHi  ♡

There is so much I want to say about this little angel, but I’ll try to keep it short. Techi is my kami and it’s been a pretty amazing experience since she’s debuted. She’s so young yet so freaking talented. Techi can sing, dance, and act so good. And she can be pretty funny when she wants to. What I really love about Techi is her love for Keyakizaka46. She puts the group/members before herself. This is my opinion (and probably others too) but she posts on her blog very rarely and I think this is likely because she wants the others to shine. She also likes to turn the attention on to the other members too. I also find it so easy to follow Techi. Since she is pretty inactive in blogs I can focus on my other favorites and not worry too much on her. But I do hope she takes care of herself and have some fun. Techi works so hard and has a lot of pressure on her shoulders being the center. To those who may not be crazy about Techi, please don’t be hard on her.. she doesn’t ask to be center each time and whatever she gets. Even though I love her as center I do wish sometimes someone else can take the the weight off her shoulders. Techi is an amazing girl who shines so bright and has a heart of gold. I will always support her and cherish whatever she does. Everyone please lets wish Hirate Yurina a very special happy birthday. Please never change my dear sweet Techi. You are so very very precious to me  🍓

Yamato and Yuu have fused to become: Ichigo-senpai!

Known more casually as: Coworker Senpai

Ichigo-senpai works at the cafe with you, usually filling in for when you can’t make it or just sharing the load. You hardly work together unless its a particularly busy day. He visits often though, to check up on you and entertain you when the cafe is empty. He’s got a bit of a chip on his shoulder that’s incredibly transparent but unfortunately volatile. He tries so hard to appeal ‘cool’ and ‘masculine’ though his interests dip into territory some would think are nothing close to those words. He gets into trouble from time to time, fighting or misbehaving and it’s worrying to see him so lost. Part of the reason why he has the job with you is to keep him in check and give him a nice atmosphere where he doesn’t have to put up a front. You may also be a great influence on him. He’s fairly popular, being a good looking man who a lot of women feel they can relate to but Ichigo usually harshly rejects any female advances towards him because of one unintentionally offensive comment they made or an impression they gave him. He’s usually very sweet and friendly, the kind of guy who could lift your spirits with a funny impression or a lopsided grin but that temper of his keeps anyone from getting too close, or wanting to.

His favourite items are: Stuffed Bear, Big Chick Chair, Guitar

Time for a hiatus

Has it been 6 years? Somehow seems like longer, but at the same time seems like yesterday. Saturday is the 6th anniversary of my boyfriend Ryan’s suicide, and knowing it will be a challenge to get through without having a complete breakdown, I am going to take a few days off of Tumblr so that I don’t bring y'all down with me. I may drive up to the mountains and spend the night camping out, or head to the beach and see the ocean for the first time, I’m not sure yet, but I am going to take some time to myself. I’ll be fine after the weekend, so there is no need to worry. For those of you who have followed me this whole time, you know how hard this whole process has been, and I know it will be a long time before I even come close to shedding the guilt, but I am in a much better place than I have ever been before so I will get through this day too. Thank you all so much for understanding, for sending me your well wishes, and I love you all. Take care over the next few days and always remember my words: Be proud, be strong, be brave, and never forget; It gets better.

Originally posted by desingyouruniverse

anonymous asked:

Is it okay to request some Dabi headcanons to having grown a crush on his childhood friend s/o who is a hero?

Dabi

  • Would probably need to have some time to come to terms with it
  • Cause on the one hand it’s his childhood friend so he is like hell yah
  • But on the other hand they are a hero so he is like hell nah
  • So he is gonna fight it so hard at first
  • But then he sees them on TV from time to time doing their hero work and he still can’t shake those feelings
  • May even try talking to them first to maybe try and sway their feelings to get them to see his side of things
  • If that doesn’t work then he is going to try and set those feelings aside because they conflict with his view of the world
  • How can he hate heroes and love one too???
Alright babes, settle in

Now, I don’t normally do this shit, one because it’s my personal blog and I dont really get into this type of stuff super obviously all the time on here, and two because I try really hard to let bullshit go. No. I’m serious, I really do try.

HOWEVER, it’s like 2am here and I’m feeling salty so let’s go.

I’m a kinky person. I know this, and only those of you who have paid attention or have followed me for a long while may know this (sorry sfw blogs that follow me, but hey; tis the hazard of following personals). This fact means I’m part of the scene. Now I may avoid the more hardcore bits of it, a combo of me being on the ace spectrum as well as my general unease with most porn blogs, but I’m still in IN IT. 

I follow kink based blogs, I occasionally reblog kink related stuff, I’ve even been known to create original shit. That just comes with the territory of me knowing that I’m a switch for several years now. I’ve done a shit ton of research, I’ve participated in scenes, and I even have books on my kindle all related to kink. And I’ll be the first to tell you: the scene ISN’T a safe space. It’s just not. Especially for beginners. 

As much as we like to put our blind folds on (and I’m a biiig fan of blind folds), kink can often be a great cover for abuse. There’s a power exchange in even the mildest of scenes and that means there is an opportunity for an abuse of power in even the MILDEST OF SCENES. 

That’s just the way it is. Now please allow me to be your resident fairy kink mother and give you some facts.

**Dominants don’t own you. No, I’m serious. I don’t give a shit what those black&white caption-y porn daddies say: DOMINANTS DON’T OWN SUBMISSIVES. Yeah sure, it can be a wordplay of some relationships, but any true dominant would let their submissive know they are their own person and no one can own them. Believing you can own someone, or someone can own you isn’t healthy and yes, it is a sign of abusive behaviour(speaking from experience here, it isn’t cute or sweet…not in the long run).

**You can say no. In fact, if you think about entering any type of relationship, kink or otherwise, make sure they respect your NO. We’re all guilty of wanting to push limits, I’m guilty of it and I catch myself all the time telling myself to respect a no in even the most innocent of situations. But honestly, despite “consensual” being written in the damn acronym, no’s are so often disregarded when you start to explore the scene. And let me tell you this babes, if someone doesn’t respect your no, they don’t respect you. And this goes BOTH WAYS in the power dynamic. 

**If there is “discourse” about someone, or someone warns you about someone PAY ATTENTION. This goes for beginners in the scene, but also to those of us who think we know what we’re doing. Sure we want to believe the best in people sometimes, but kink is dangerous. It can be fun (oh can it be fun *dreamy sigh*), but ultimately it’s dangerous and you need to put yourself first. And putting yourself first means looking into the fire and deciding if you feel flames or if it’s all just smoke. 

If someone warns you about someone else, or someplace, or anything really, take a moment and remove yourself from the situation. Step back from your emotions for a little bit and look critically. Is this person/place/thing safe for you? Are you blinded by something else? Did you consider all the risks, or did you just rush through to the good part? 

People are charming, and abusers are often great manipulators. It never hurts to step back sometimes, I promise.

**Finally, and this may just be the Ravenclaw in me, but please please please for all that is good and pure and cinnamon rollesque in this world, DO YOUR RESEARCH. There is a lot you can learn from good, solid sources on the web. Yeah, you can’t trust everything (looking at you black&white porn blogs), but with a critical eye a lot can be learned. 

Start with a kink/limits checklist, look into power dynamics, read some good (or shitty, I’m not judging here) erotica, explore what interests you. But do it on your own first. Don’t expect someone in the scene to mentor you right off the bat: That’s a dangerous thought to have. Sad as it is, beginners are an easy target for the fakers in the scene, and part of that is simply lack of knowledge. When you only know a little of something, some pretty words can spin a nice tale.


Alright. I’m done. I put on my glasses and busted out my actual keyboard for this rant (slash informative guide!) and I think I’ve written away most of the salt from my wounds. Now I know, it’s hard to take something like this seriously when it seems like it stemmed from a salty place. But I’m going to let y’all know something…I give a shit, okay? I’ve seen a lot of bullshit make the rounds in my small circle of the scene lately and I really really just want y’all to be safe. That’s the truth of this post.