for those who don't know that's me

I don’t understand people who are really baffled by other languages like “wAit!!!! This letter…. makes a DiFfereNt sound in ThAt lanUuuauuage wAT???! The rulEs for garammmer and spilling is diFfrrfrent???” like yes Sharon those things are what make it…. a different language

popular tumblr post: don’t date or be friends with people who [trait i have because of my personality disorder]

me: :-)

“You would not believe your eyes…” 

I saw my first fireflies for the year, and it made me want to try and paint something :’>

  • Friend : Why are you always so tried?
  • Me : You know, studding and all that stuff...
  • Inner me : looking at my gay OTP, reading the gay smut, crying at the fluff, reblogging the fan art, writing the gay fanfic and disappointing my family with saving the smutty art to my laptop
  • Friend : Well that's dedication.
  • Me : *mumbles* You don't know the half of the dedication I have to those men who will one day see they are as gay as a rainbow and will be in love

Johndave week - Day 4: Hurt/Comfort

Haha shit I’m late?? I haven’t done comics in literal years soooo. Yeah, this is something I think about in terms of John quite a lot. I can’t help but think it might bug him a lot now and then, even if he fixed a timeline, and when confronted he might lash out. Also, bonus pic;

For those who don't read the pages' description

First of all, read the pages’ description. It’s healthy, quick and informative. It also avoids misunderstandings.

Second. The Snowdin Arc is finished. Yay! It was a wild ride and there’s still a lot to come, so be prepared!

Third. I will take a week off, or so, to wrap up Waterfall, remember dialogues and characters, take references and make lots of sketches. Those sketches will be posted on my patron, but I will upload some drawings here too I guess.

Just to keep you informed!

it’s my last day at church tomorrow and apparently everyone wants to pray for me so I’m gonna have to go up in the center of the sanctuary and be Paid Attention To and pretend that any of this moves me emotionally (it never has which is part of why i felt so guilty before), all of which I hate, but it’ll be my last time so it’s endurable

anyway they wanted to “lay hands on me” bc that’s extremely standard when praying for someone in this type of Christianity, but i said no to that because that many people touching me for that long is like……a Nightmare so now Mom’s going to touch me and they’re going to touch Mom, but I don’t actually get why touching is necessary? 

like if it comforts the person you’re praying for, sure that’s a good thing, but like, it clearly doesn’t me, so why bother with the circumlocution? surely if God is all-powerful, He has the capability to hear and understand prayers without the pray-ers being in physical contact with the subject of the prayer?

I’m not mocking here, it’s just weird to me that Mom’s response to “I don’t want to be touched by strangers” is “okay, the strangers will touch me on your behalf while I touch you to pass it on” and not “okay, touching isn’t necessary”.

Creeper Starters
  • "You won't suspect a thing."
  • "You'll never see me coming."
  • "I can see you."
  • "I can hurt you from inside."
  • "I will break you."
  • "Leave me alone."
  • "I'll follow you anywhere."
  • "I am the demon you fear."
  • "You'll never know what hit you."
  • "You are never alone."
  • "I must have you."
  • "Who were you with last night?"
  • "That's not fair."
  • "Stop following me!"
  • "Someone needs to be punished."."
  • "You looked magnificent last night
  • "I wouldn't do that if I were you..."
  • "I know what you fear."
  • "You are the only reason I exist."
  • "I was born sick."
  • "I worship you."
  • "Will you really do all those things?"
  • "I don't need this."
  • "Even in the darkest nights I can see."
  • "I'm in an open relationship, you know."
  • "All you need is me."
  • "All I have is unpure thoughts of you."
  • "You must be mine."
  • "I will be with no other."
  • "Get away from me, you freak!"
  • "No matter where you go I will find you."
  • "No one will touch you. You have my word."
  • "I dream of you every night."
  • "I'm tired of this tete-a-tete."

anonymous asked:

Gypsy isn't a slur. Besides there are more groups than just Romani. only sjws think that's a slur and actual gypsies are not offended by that word.

i know there are more groups than just Romani (which is an umbrella term for numerous sub-groups btw)…they are treated appallingly here in Europe so don’t condescend to me (esp. since you don’t even live here)

but anyways i think i’ll continue listen to actual Romani mutuals who’ve taken the time to educate me on why it’s a derogatory term rather than some faceless anon who most likely doesn’t even belong to that ethnic group

like how dare you dismiss Romani ppl who might object to that term as “sjws”…just piss off mate -_-

When the war in Narnia ended, they honored the veterans. They honored those who fought for what they believed in. They were celebrated. They were war heroes. And for every single day, Lucy despised it. They honored those who had been better killers, or those who avoided the killing all together. People on the streets thanked them. Offered their gratitude. Said that without them no one would be alive. And Lucy met them. And she thanked them too. Because she knew they had fought for something she believed in. The fight wasn’t won by her brothers alone. Nor all the lieutenants. It was the citizens. The people of Narnia who had won. But in war no one wins. Everyone loses. The question is only about who lost more. Every day she met with widows. With kids that had lost both of their parents. With single fathers who had no idea how to raise their kids, and single mothers who knew as little as the single fathers. She met with grandmothers who were the sole survivors of their families. She felt the grief. and grieved with them. When the second Spring in Narnia rolled around she declared for anyone that would like to hear it.

“Today we honor those we have lost. Those who have family left that grieve every single day. We honor those who gave the highest price for all others freedom. We honor the fallen. We honor their family. For the memory of those lost will never be forgotten.”

Narnia celebrated that day ever since.

Right, okay! So marsupial angara headcanon.

(as requested by @servantofclio and @thornhands)

(please note: I am a sociology and religion major who now works in government finance, and all of my marsupial knowledge comes from a Wikipedia article on kangaroos I read once at 2:00 in the morning)

They carry their young inside of them for a fraction of their gestational period. Once the baby is born, it stays inside its mother’s pouch to finish developing outside the womb. Even though they’re technically “born,” they are very very small, cannot survive on their own, and don’t actually poke their heads out of the pouch until much later.

They stay there for several months even after they’re technically viable - leaving for a few hours and returning for safety/sleep/comfort and continued development.

Once they’re developed enough to survive for short periods outside their mother’s pouch, baby angara can be - and are - carried by anyone with a pouch, regardless of who actually gave birth to them. This is part of their communal child-rearing, and leads to their large and complex familial structures. A mother is someone who carried you, your siblings are anyone you shared a pouch with, etc., so your siblings may not have the same mothers as you, nor even the same siblings.

The “true” label is given to actual blood relations, though generally for parental lineage and siblings only. Sometimes you’ll hear “true uncle” or “true niece,” but you’ll hardly ever hear “true cousin” because those family tree branches get pretty difficult to track.

But mostly, please imagine baby Jaal peeking out of Sahuna’s pouch.

ryuumw  asked:

Hello, i'll make it quick. I've been on your blog since... forever. And there wasn't one time when i felt like you're biased on one member. You do an amazing job and i'm always amazed by your hard work. You stay up to the name: got7 updates. I love got7 and i love you. Also I always feel how impartial you are, and objective. And one more thing: no one should be told to kill himself/herself. That's harsh and we don't know what kind of impact will have on the person. Have a wonderful day! Love you

Thank you for your comment and following me. I never knew if other could feel that I was biased when looking at my posts - after all only our followers can see that.

Maybe for others comments like ‘Kill yourself’ don’t mean much, but for those who suffered from depression or are under a lot of pressure it means more. If ever someone spams one of GOT7 members with comments like this one, please let me know. Sometimes I can miss updates, I can’t check everything, so I need your help.

anonymous asked:

Hi! Uh, I know you got a lot of awful anons, and I really don't want to be one of those people, but I have a question that's been really worrying me. So ever since I started paying attention to Tumblr SJ, I think I've actually gotten less tolerant. Whenever I see people with a different background, I keep thinking about all their privileges and oppressions and how we can never relate to each other because we obviously see the world differently. [cont]

I just get so worried that I’m hurting people who are black and gay and Muslim and stuff when I’m around them. So I just kind of… Avoid them? I know. It’s really terrible. But I just don’t know what to do. I could be hurting them in ways that wouldn’t even occur to me due to my privilege. So I’m just scared all the time that I’m awful. I know that I have no reason to be scared, because my pain is nothing compared to the pain of people who are actually marginalized, but it still happens. [cont]

Of course I never tried to talk about it with someone before because I don’t want to be the type of person who goes up to black people who are actually hurting and asks them to reassure her that she’s a good ally. That would be really crappy of me to do. But then I’ve been reading you’re blog and you are super duper marginalized but you seem to not be very into SJ? You have a really different perspective and you seem to invite people to not be perfectly PC with you. [cont]

So I was wondering: Do you think there’s a way to become more comfortable around marginalized people without being oppressive? I think it must be possible. I feel less scared talking to you than I would expect for someone as marginalized as you are but it might be that I think you’re less likely to call me out if I’m oppressive? It would be really bad if that’s the reason why. IDK any more. I’m rambling. I’m sorry and I understand if you don’t answer or don’t understand or can’t help. [fin]

Firstly, you probably need a hug.

Your description of being really scared that you’re going to accidentally hurt marginalised people sounds like it might be scrupulosity-related. Scrupulosity is an anxiety problem where you’re constantly worried that you’ve done something wrong. Even if you have no particular reason to believe you have, you worry and worry and worry that maybe you missed something, maybe there’s more to it, maybe there are rules you don’t know yet, maybe the rules are insufficiently precise, etc.

Scrupulosity isn’t good for you. Being anxious all the time isn’t good for you. It also isn’t good for social justice. You said it yourself: It makes it harder for you to be an ally. For all these reasons, I would like to give you unconditional permission to not worry. Stress and guilt and pain don’t make you a better person. If you haven’t been trying to deal the scrupulosity directly because you thought you needed it to be moral, I hope you now understand that that’s not the case. I hope this will give you the support you need to make your happiness a priority here. If so, here are some good tips.

wrt becoming more comfortable around marginalised people, I’m not entirely sure what you can do. The best possible thing here would be for you to spend a lot of time around marginalised people who don’t mind if you slip up in good faith. I don’t actually believe you’re at much risk of a hurtful slip up, but you clearly feel like you are. As such, you would probably feel safest around people who you can be confident won’t be worried by it.

Over time, after you’ve been around them long enough, you’ll probably start feeling like they’re just like everyone else. You won’t see oppression lists floating over people’s heads when you try interacting with them. Instead of “Ahmed, the gay Muslim immigrant” you’ll see “Ahmed, the guy who likes slow jazz and makes excellent brownies”. Over time, I would expect this to generalise, until marginalised people just seem like people. I would be happy to be one such safe person to practice with, to whatever extent this can be achieved via the internet.

However, I understand if you’re hesitant to ask people outright if they can be wont-be-offended practice partners. Sorry. I’m not sure what other methods there are for dealing with this, other than gentle, gradual exposure. At the very least, I can offer some reassurance:

You aren’t a bad person for not being able to follow every rule of social justice. You aren’t a bad person if you accidentally offend someone. You aren’t a bad person if you’re scared to be around marginalised people. You are way less likely to slip up and hurt someone than you think you are. Anxiety disorders lie to you. You are a decent person who is being fed a bunch of rotten propaganda by your brain. What’s important is that it isn’t true.

But maybe those reassurances didn’t make you any more comfortable around marginalised people. Maybe the soft landing approach didn’t work for you, or you can’t actually try it. That’s OK. If interacting with marginalised people is making you stressed out and unhappy, then don’t do it. You have every right to avoid people who make you miserable, to the extent that you are capable of doing so.

No, it doesn’t mean marginalised people are bad or are doing anything wrong. No, it doesn’t mean you’re bad or you’re doing anything wrong. Sometimes people just can’t be around each other, and it’s no one’s fault, and that’s OK. You may feel like it’s *ist or *phobic of you to do this, but that doesn’t matter. You need your space. You need your comfort zone. No one - not a single person in the world - has a right to make you miserable. You always have a right to distance yourself from anything or anyone that’s hurting you. The sacredness of your boundaries, and everyone else’s, is the hill that I die on.

So, as the Empress of Oppression, I hereby absolve you of any and all responsibility to interact with me or anyone else who might make you uncomfortable. Go forth with joy and peace of mind.

the signs as things my girlfriend has said to me
  • Aries: "okay have fun, make good choices, don't do drugs with the other furries."
  • Taurus: "it's me, your Uber. your Duber."
  • Gemini: "that's a mountain, dear."
  • Cancer: "you know who i love more than len? you. and that says a lot."
  • Leo: "SQUARE THE FUCK UP! 1V1 ME!"
  • Virgo: "you know those art styles that just scream 'i draw porn on Patreon'? that's what i strive to have."
  • Libra: "está fucking lit, mijo."
  • Scorpio: "you come into MY Arizona, and you FUCKING JAYWALK... how dare you."
  • Sagittarius: "if i can like pineapple on pizza, you can like yandere simulator. i think that's a fair trade."
  • Capricorn: "ARIN NOT THE BEES!"
  • Aquarius: "you got it, bitch."
  • Pisces: "i'm como se dice, fucking dying."

anonymous asked:

i'm not trying to offend you or anything but i'm curious about your opinion in the boys. do you ACTUALLY believe that Jikook is real? like they are gay? i'm an army but whenever i see ppl talking about ships i don't get it cuz the group's relationships look to me as relationship between close friends who are used to each other after living years together. that's it!

i mean, idk tbh. i think that all of bts could be a part of the lgbt community, they could be gay, bi, pan, ace, or they could just be straight. who knows. i don’t. i don’t like to assume people’s sexuality, especially when those people come from a country where lgbt isn’t openly accepted yet, and where being lgbt could legit leave you without a job. but saying that, it’s legit statistically impossible for there to be no gay kpop idol. so one of those kpop idols could very well be jimin or jungkook or someone in bts. and i mean, yes all of bts are close, i’m not denying that, and they do act like close friends. but as i’ve said multiple times before, it’s all up to personal opinion and how that person views things. and the way i see it, jikook could very well be real. i’m not saying that they are, because i don’t know. but they could be real. when i look at jikook, and i see them interacting they give me a different vibe than the other members do, one that’s more intimate, like that of a relationship. the way they act, the things they do, the subtle ways they show us how close they are, the things they don’t mean to be seen, etc. etc. all lead me to have this assumption that they could be together. again, it’s just personal opinion but that’s just how i view it. like idk how else to describe. 

conclusion: i don’t like to assume sexualities (but im like….. 68% sure jungkook is a gay little man (jk this is a joke lol)). i think that jikook could very well be real because that’s the feelings that i get from them. everyone views ships differently. and i view that jikook could be real.  

You know what I love about the foxhole court?

It features a canon lgbt relationship between a gay boy and a demisexual boy, a relationship that isn’t even a main focus of the books but still manages to contribute to both the plot and the character development.

A same-sex relationship that doesn’t end tragically, that shows these two characters staying together for years to come and leading a healthy domestic life with two cats, an apartment and a joint career.

A relationship that may not start out well, that is anything but love at first sight, but grows so much through personal struggles and mutual respect, and results in something worthwhile.

A relationship that places heavy emphasis not only on mutual consent, on learning and supporting, on protection and respect, but also on individual independence.

A relationship that doesn’t cast other characters to the sidelines, that isn’t the main character’s only source of happiness, because it takes more than romance to develop a character.

A relationship with a goddamn happy ending that feels entirely deserving for both characters because this is how they love, this is how they overcome their past, this is how they grow, not dependent on each other but side-by-side.

Just a goddamn happy same-sex relationship that doesn’t end in death or separation and that involves characters actually learning to respect and love each other basically???