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Vince Staples Performs “Love Can Be” with Damon Albarn (on the screen), Kilo Kish, Ray J on Fallon

You and I are examples of how synonyms
are not always interchangeable

You and I are soft.
You are soft like a favorite pair of jeans, worn threadbare over the years. The vague threat of a tear is present at the knees, but they’re intact for now; perfect.
I am soft like rot, the flesh of a fruit giving way under the lightest touch. The evidence of things forgotten, stems of dead flowers left too long in murky water.

You and I are proof of how what is said
is less important than how it is said

You and I are tragedies.
You are a tragedy in that you are exposed to this world, innocence and purity so much like the throat of a rabbit exposed to the wolves. It is tragic that you will someday die and leave the world that much darker for your absence.
I am a tragedy of the traditional sort, a walking disaster barely fit to bear the title of human. Something to pity, something to loathe, something to consider an example - the embodiment of a cautionary tale.

You and I are the difference between doing what is right
and doing what needs to be done

We are like liquor, you and I.
You go down soft and smooth, vintage wine in crystal glasses. The pleasant buzz that travels along your nerves and sets everything afloat, brain foggy but filled with nothing but satisfaction. 
I’m more like cheap vodka, bottom-shelf poison useful for nothing more than forgetting the day, hangover starting the moment it touches your lips. There is no god at the bottom of this bottle. There never will be.


Love & Hip Hop’s Hollywood Has A New Cast Member

Love and Hip Hop Hollywood’s 🆕 cast member, Milan Christopher, is being shunned upon because he is an openly gay rapper. 

He has only been filming🎥 for about 3⃣ weeks and a majority of rappers on the show, Ray J, Soulja Boy, Omarion and Mally Mal are already shunning him and are mad at producers for hiring him. They claim its not because he’s “gay” but because he has no cred in the rap game😒🎤. They believe he was just hired as a “sideshow” to goose the ratings📈.

Milan labels himself as a rapper and a model. He has worked with big rappers🎤 but mostly as a writer📝. 

At least 3⃣ of the rappers on the show have told producers that they do not🙅🏾 want to film scenes with Milan. They won’t even show up to parties or events if Milan is there. #PETTY

They claim Milan is nothing but a joke and they don’t want anything to do with him. 

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I’m tired of people. 😒 There’s multiple problems here, but I’m gonna focus on three.

Bare with me

First off: let’s just take the time to acknowledge the fact that whoever posted this or had the idea is a sick individual. Let’s acknowledge the fact that this person SEXUALIZED a TWO-YEAR-OLD! A baby! No matter who this baby is the child of, a baby is a freaking baby! The fact that this person saw anything besides a baby with a lollipop is worthy of being registered as a sex offender. Tomorrow is Halloween for goodness sake and apparently this person does not need to be around kids with lollipops. For a second, let’s forget about North, Kim, RayJ, Kanye, the Kardashians, etc., let’s forget all of that and look at this picture for what is really is- a mother smiling and her daughter with a lollipop. Would this reference still be okay/funny?
Second: Must we start the slut shaming so early? I mean my goodness, does this little girl even know what pronouns to use yet? Kim Kardashian has a past, North does not… Like literally, she does not have a past because she is a BABY! Why is her life already being devalued? Why is she already being told what she will amount to? Why are these even your expectations!?!? How freaking dare you! And we wonder why little girls are all messed up! Imagine when 15-year-old North sees that some douchebag classmate posts this picture on whatever social media is relevant with the tag #tbt. Imagine what that will do to her self-worth! It’s enough that we slut shame women for satisfying their needs, but slut shaming a baby for being… a baby? Huh, what? Does that even make sense? Apparently the people of Billboard think so.
Third: Because there’s always that person that thinks discussing the obvious is being too sensitive or “blowing things out of proportion,” let’s just look at this post as a post. So we have the caption, a link for the article, and the picture. Now every writer/reporter (and anyone with a brain) realizes that there runs the very high and probable risk that no one will even click the link to the article. So it’s probably a really good idea that the caption/headline and picture actually has to do with the article (which is about North telling paparazzi “I said no pictures.”) For example, off the top of my head I already know the better picture to use for this article would’ve been the picture Kim posted a while back of her and North with serious faces and then laughing faces. Cause when I think about the phrase used, a baby mimicking her mom’s exact pose kinda gives that apple not falling far from the tree vibe, ya know. Let’s be real, this person knew EXACTLY what he/she was doing! And for those of you that are so stuck on this being an oblivious mistake, it does not take a mass communications or journalism degree to realize that this picture and caption would trigger the reference to Kim’s infamous blowjob picture with RayJ. Duh! Let’s call it for what it is, a person attacking a baby- not the Kardashians. Regardless of your opinions about the Kardashians, our opinions about this situation should be to a solid agreement to PROTECT CHILDREN.



For the love of all that is HOLY big hit get on your job make this happen. 

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