It’s funny, a few months ago i had dramatic dip in notes and people interacting with my blog, despite continuing to get more followers, so let’s look at what happened back then:
1. I gained some weight and was not skinny anymore.
2. I started being more open about my ethnic background and stopped hiding behind being white-passing out of fear of racists.
3. I stopped identifying as a lesbian, because i realized that i wasn’t not attracted to men, but my abuse at the hands of my cis ex-boyfriends made me uncomfortable around cis men specifically.
4. I started opening up and being more comfortable talking about my abuse and mental health problems and how i cope with it.
And tbh, i don’t know which of these making me and my blog less appealing to y’all makes me the most disappointed.