So I’m currently waiting for my results from 23andMe to find out what my ancestry is. The process is in it’s final step and the closer it gets to completion the more anxious I get. My biological mother (who I cut out of my life over five years ago) always said that my biological dad was hispanic. I never really bought it because I’m the whitest thing since white bread. My sisters from my adopted family say that’s a lie and my real father was some white guy that was in the army and stationed somewhere else before bio mom could tell him she was pregnant. They are totally the type to lie about that just because they don’t like bio mom and the guy she claims is bio dad. Bio mom is a compulsive liar and has told me many contradicting stories about the short time she was with me as a child (she left when I wasn’t even 2 and came back in my life right before I turned 21). She once said that my father (hispanic guy) was the only man she was every with and then later said she actually was with an army guy but that was after I was born.
So now, I wait to see who the liar in this situation is. If it’s my bio mom that’s not a big deal to me at the moment because I already know that she’s a huge liar. If it’s my sisters though, that changes a lot. I’m already on the verge of cutting one of them off because she’s fucking psychotic. She’s no longer allowed to be around my kids unless I’m there too. The other sister is just a bitch. We get along great when we’re together but she’s so jealous of my life that she can’t help but take it out on me. I’m not saying that because I have the greatest life on earth, she just can’t accept responsibility for anything bad that’s ever happened to her.
So this is a longer post than I usually share but if you got this far then thanks for reading. If anyone’s interested I’ll share what I find out once I deal with it myself.