If you want me to tag/trigger warn something: Tell me and send the link and I’ll do it
If you want me to answer something privately: Either message me directly or send me an ask with an ^ at the start. (I can’t not answer something privately on anon, so I will ignore it so it stays private)
If you want me to stop following you: Tell me
If you want me to block you: Tell me
If you want me to stop contacting you: Tell me straight away
If you want me to untag you in a post: Tell me, and send the link
If I send in an ask that makes you uncomfortable: Either delete it, ignore that part of the ask or use direct message to ask me to resend it without the part that makes you uncomfortable.
If you want me to delete a post: Tell me, I may do it if I find it offensive or problematic. This is the only case were I may not do as you ask. I’m sorry for that.
If I misgender you: Tell me
If I use the wrong pronouns: Tell me
If I reply to an ask that I clearly didn’t answer the question: I didn’t answer it for a reason, the reasons for not answering an ask properly or answering it at all will vary.
If I say something that offends you or hurts you in any way: I am deeply sorry that my words have hurt you.
If I say something racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic etc or discriminate: Please tell me, and whats wrong with what I said so I can learn and grow from my mistake.
If I tag you in a tag game: It is totally up to you if you want to do it or not
If you want to unfollow me: Just do it, I won’t get offended
If you want to block me: Just do it, I wont get offended.
I use bro, dude, man, girl, gurl, bruh, woman, lady, mate and more all gender neutrally: but if I call you any of these and it makes you uncomfortable, please tell me and I will change it.
Trigger Warnings: If you have a trigger, please tell me (send an ask or message me privately) and I will try my hardest to tag any posts. I’ll use food as an example to show you how I tag my posts. #food tw, #tw food, #tw. I already tag people with #body image tw and a few others that don’t come up very often, like abuse, death, knife, guns and food.
If I reblog something that wasn’t meant for me: Please let me know. Also by this I mean if I reblog a post about bpd, it wasn’t created for me to reblog as I don’t have bpd.
If you think that there should be something one this list: Please tell me as I want you to be comfortable and different people have different experiences meaning that they each have different things that make them uncomfortable.
A little side note: I edit this post a lot, I re-word stuff and add more to the list as well as other things. So please, every once and a while have a look to see if I’ve adding things. Also if the link in my description isn’t working, direct message me straight away please.
You being comfortable is very very important to me, do not be scared to tell me or do something that will make you feel better.
Has anyone of you read the Mortal Instruments books, if yes, are the books great? I’m reading at the moment Inkheart trilogy and now I searching for a new book series which I can read after Inkdeath. So, should I buy the Mortal Instruments books, or rather not?