SJW, you are the best!! The other day a work colleague (yes, a cishetwhiteman) asked me to hang out with him (I am cisqueerPOCwoman). I did, but then he shocked me, by arguing with me about about how feminism doesn't address "male-oppression" and is therefore incomplete/invalid. I exhausted myself trying to explain the problem with his views as best as I could, as gently as possible. Now he wants to hang-out more, but I don't want to, yet I also work with him. Do you have any advice? Thank u!