first time trying this im sorry ugh

Exo Reacting To You Being Worried About Them

SUHO

You were both laying down in bed and you thought he was sleep so you slowly cuddled closer to him and whispered “ Please stay healthy Jagi.”

Once he heard those words, he then pulled you as close as you can be and whispered back “ I’ll be healthy because I have you.”

Originally posted by asstheticsuho

XIUMIN

You were both walking along the streets late at night when he accidentally tripped on the uneven pavement. 

“ Are you okay ?” you ask him, slightly panicked.

“Im okay babe, I only tripped on the sidewalk. Nothing big” he said, brushing it off.

“Yeah, nothing big until you fall and hurt yourself really bad. What if you fell and broke your arm? Or your ankle? Then what? What if you then couldn’t ma-” you said, ranting 

“ Jagi,” he said cutting you off, “ Im going to be fine. don’t worry your pretty little head over me.” 

Originally posted by exo-umin


LAY

He was sitting with you on a bench over looking a pond when you asked the question

“ Yixing, if you were to get seriously hurt, would you end it all?”

“What do you mean by end it all?” he asked, gazing over at you, realizing that you had tears flowing down your face. 

“ If your waist…. if it gives out, would you stop performing or would you keep going?” you asked, turning to him. 

“ If my waist gave out and there was still a possibility to perform, I would. Not for me, but for my fans. Im sure they would understand why I would stop but I couldn’t give up like that.” 

“ I just… I just don’t want you to get hurt. I don’t want you to end….the love of your life like that. It’ll always be a bittersweet ending” you said, looking down at you hands.

“ Jagi, look at me..” he said, pulling your face up with his index finger. “ I understand how worried you are for me but you don’t need to be. I know that an injury could possibly take me out of performing, but you need to understand that the more we think of what horrible things can happen, we can’t enjoy the good things that have happened. Its okay to be worried but jagi, lets just enjoy it while it lasts, okay?” 

Originally posted by ygyixing

CHEN 

You were sitting around on the couch when Chen decided to pop out of nowhere and scare you. 

“ KIM JONGDAE, that shit isn’t funny.” you screamed at him once you  calmed down. 

“Haha, It was so funny babe, you should have seen your face. It was like you saw a ghost.” he said, holding his stomach as he laughs

“ I swear you’re gonna do one of those jokes and get hurt one day. It inst funny. “ you said, grabbing your phone as you get up from your seat. You start to make your way towards the stairs when you feel his hands go around your waist. 

“ C’mon babe, you cant be that angry over this. Why are you so worried?” he asked into the side of your neck. 

“ Im not worried.” you said, as you turn your head away from him, trying to hide your face. 

“ I can tell that you’re worried but babe, its okay to play around. Don’t stress so much. Lets live a little. “

Originally posted by fandomseykpop

CHANYEOL

You and Channie were both laying down in the park, staring at the stars when you finally tell Im things you were worrying about. 

“ Channie, i want you to know that I really care for you and I will always support you but, are you sure being an idol is where you should be?” you asked 

He turns his head towards you and gazes at the side of your face.

“Why do you ask that? Do you not like what I do?” he asked softly

“ Its not that , its just that… with your job comes side affects. I just don’t want you being an idol and you’re constantly hurting or sick.” 

“ Every job comes with ‘side affects’ babe and I understand that being an idol worries you but its what I love. I try to make sure i don’t do anything to crazy that could threaten my well being and health but… Its what I love and I just learned to take the good with the bad.” 

“ Maybe I should start doing that.” you said, lowly

“We can do it together,” 

Originally posted by ayoalons-y

KAI

Kai was resting from his ankle injury 

“ Jagi, can you get me some water?” he asked you

“ Sure” you said, making your way into the kitchen. 

Once you’re in the kitchen, you grab a bottle of water and make your way to get  a cup. Along the way, you start to think of all the pain he has been going through for the past 5 years and you feel yourself tearing up. 

“Why can’t he just be safe?” you cry to yourself 

What you didn’t know was that Kai walked in behind you because he forgot to tell you something and he sees you breaking down. 

He slowly walks behind you and wraps his arms around your waist. 

“ I know you worry about me baby and from now on Im going to try everything I can to make sure I don’t get hurt again.” he whispered into your ear.

“ Im sorry” 

Originally posted by jonginorjongout

Kyungsoo

“ Ugh, I Think I hurt my arms doing the choreo this time around” he says, rubbing his upper arms. 

“Are you okay Kyungie? DO you need anything? I can get you some heating pads! What about…” you said, rambling off helpful tips to him.

“ First off calm down hone, You don’t need to be so… attentive. Im okay, just a slight ache. Calm down.” he said, grabbing your hand. 

“ I know Im sorry, Im just worried that you will get hurt really bad one day.” you said, gazing towards the ground, 

“Well. If i do, I know exactly who to go to. My beautiful attentive girlfriend”

Originally posted by exoplathot


BAEKHYUN


Baekhyun and you were eating out at a restaurant when he brought up his curiosity towards your motherly instincts. 

“ Sooo, why do you get so worried when I get hurt?” He asked, taking a drink of his wine. 

“ I just feel like if you get hurt, we get hurt. I cant always catch you when you fall babe” you said, twirling pasta around on your fork. 

“ Well, thats good because then I can show you that i can catch myself. You don’t have to be worried.”

“ If thats what you think then okay.” you said, laughing. 

Originally posted by grinding-on-baek


SEHUN


“ You’re worried” he said, picking on you 

“ No Im not” you said, pushing him away from you in the bed.

“But I heard you say it. You’re worried” he continues as he tries to see your face

“ I thought you were asleep though.” you said, face palming 

“ Asleep or not, you still said it.” he jokes, now reaching to tickle your sides

“Sehunnn-a , stop it,” you laugh out loud “ Okay okay, I may have said that I’m worried about you.” you said, finally getting his hands off you. 

“ Thats all I wanted to hear you say.”

“ Fine, are you happy now?” you asked. 

“Ecstatic” 

Originally posted by sehunicorne

Guys…. Yesterday I lashed out a tiny bit and my ask box was getting heavy and I was so afraid to even open it. So I asked my friend to take a look at the messages for me and she told me it was safe to look because pretty much every single message and comment of all those dozens that I received yesterday were the most heartwarming. So I went ahead and read them all and broke down weeping uncontrollably because you are all so so so sweet and wonderful and kind, I cannot even explain it… thank you so much with all my heart for being so understanding and supportive. Whenever I feel like I’m getting overwhelmed or begin feeling pressured, you help me remember how amazing it is to be part of this community, and my gratefulness is not only brought back to the surface but also multiplies a million times. Really. I’m just some random sad nerd who fell in love with a fictional world and wants to recreate it out of my imagination, and you are here being with me and loving it. Thank you so so so SOOOoooosnsdsfehgu much. Really. Truly. Love you all, even if you don’t really care that much, I still love you and am grateful for you. You don’t have to be here, but you are, and you appreciate whatever I manage to give. Thank you ❤

P.S. I’ll try to respond to the off-anon messages as soon as I have time!!

anonymous asked:

I came out to my mum this summer and it didnt go well at all. But i still got my haircut, came out to friends and got clothes i want anyways. I go back to school but its like the collage connected to school so im not in the main school anymore but i dont know what bathroom to use and i haven't spoken to my school like i had planned cuz of my mums poor reaction. Also im not ready for people to use my shit name and pronouns. My friends are doing good its just ugh back to school man 1/2

Hey friend,

First things first, I’m sorry that coming out to your mom didn’t go well. That always sucks, but unfortunately this is one of those things that almost never happens without a little friction, so try not to get too disheartened about it. There’s still plenty of time for it to get a little easier or better. As for the school thing, I feel for you because the confusion on what to do with yourself when you’re closeted is incredibly difficult, but I’ll be the first to admit that I have absolutely no valuable feedback to offer on this one.

I haven’t been in school since 2012 and even then it was at a U.S. university. I’m really not familiar enough with non-U.S. schooling systems to offer good advice. The most I can really do is commiserate and maybe offer a bit of my own experience in the hopes that it helps? I’m out to a handful of people at my office - my immediate boss, my HR representative, etc. - because I wanted to make sure I had them in my corner if and when I decided I was ready to make a statement to the office at large, but I’m honestly not rushing to come out to a bunch of people who don’t know me and whose opinions don’t matter, particularly when I’m incredibly averse to tacitly inviting them to butt into my business when that’s the last thing that I want.

If there’s a name that you prefer to be called by, I’m sure that you can ask your teachers/classmates to use that name for you, or at the very least that you can ask for them to use a more palatable nickname than the one that’s causing you distress. It doesn’t mean that they’ll respect it, necessarily, but you don’t have to get into the specifics of why you prefer to be called a certain thing. You don’t have to air your business to everyone just to ask them to respect the way you prefer to be referred to.

As to the bathroom thing, again, I’m not really sure what to say. I use the ladies’ at work, mostly because I don’t want to start shit with any of the men in the men’s room and because I’m personally not ready to be out to that level yet. I also don’t experience a lot of dysphoria in regards to which bathroom I’m using, though. To me, personally, it’s just a bathroom at the end of the day. If I have to shit bad enough I’ll drop trou and pull off to the side of the road if there isn’t a more secure and expedient option, so sitting on a toilet in one room isn’t really any different to me than it would be in another room with a different sign on the door. (I also don’t use STPs for a few reasons, but even if that’s something you do there’s always the option to do so in a stall for privacy reasons, which may be a sort of mental workaround that could help alleviate some of that.)

I’m only about halfway out of the closet on a good day and far from passing/living stealth. I also have no idea how your school system works or what laws look like where you live or how much longer your going to be there, etc. etc. However, I will say that if you think that coming out at school will put you into a position where you’re no longer welcome in your home, or you’re in some kind of immediate danger, it may be better in the long run to only be out to your friends and try to shoulder through the rest. If that’s not the case - or, really, even if it is - there’s also probably a teacher/adult responsible for your wellbeing while you’re at school that you know and trust who you might be able to talk to and get a second, better, more informed opinion from.

I’m sorry I’m not able to be more helpful on this one, and I wish you all the best!

- Oz