Hey can i talk to you about this? :( Im honestly so scared because i feel like one of my friends comitted suicide. She messaged me her thank yous and sorrys for her problems and she said goodbye. I was trying to contact her but she isnt responding anymore, this morning she deactivated her accounts and im worried idk what to do
Okay, first of all hon. I’m so very sorry! I’m so very sorry you have to deal with this, I truly am. All my positive thoughts goes to you.
I know you want to help your friend and I know you worry about her a lot, but please do remember, her life is not on you. You cannot be responsable for her life, you cannot be the one to make her problems go away and it without a doubt isn’t a fair move of her to do this. You need to know that, I need you to know that.
Putting her life on you like that, is not something anyone should ever have to go through (and I know this from personal experience) but you can’t make her better, you can’t do anything to change her mind. You couldn’t have been a better friend, you couldn’t have loved her more than you already did. You couldn’t have done anything any different than you already did. You were a lovely friend.
I need you to know, this is not your fault. This is not yours to carry. This is does not make you responsable for what she did or didn’t do.
It’s so unfair of her to make this move, so so so unfair because she is breaking you from the inside, she is filling you with worry and she probably doesn’t even realize because she only sees her pain, not the pain she gives you.
I do hope she is alright and just needed a little time and a little space. I’m sending my prayers your way and hoping you somehow will be able to stay strong. Message me anytime, talk to me anytime, let me be there for you. Let me know how you’re feeling and if you hear from.
All the love and the hugs in the entire world.<3