Hiii do you know anything I can do to attract a job? I've been applying like crazy but it's a year now and I'm using all the help I could get! Thank you x
Great question and I would be happy to help. A bunch of my friends joke around about me being able to find jobs in a snap. It is one of my “magic” powers.
Before we get to any magic, might I advise a couple of different routes you may not be considering? I always like to take a real world approach before handing out any spells. I am not an old lady by any means, but I have learned a thing or two, and I think I might be able to help. (Whether you like this type of advice is entirely up to you, but take it from me: the job market can be tough to navigate and sometimes it helps hearing this kind of advice from someone who has been down that road.)
1. Have you recently updated/revised your resume and cover letter? Seriously, sometimes people do not hire you based on the content in your cover letter. The wording could be off-putting, it could be too long (or too short), it could be not informative enough. Cultivating your cover letter and resume is like crafting a spell; it needs to be worded correctly, express who you are as an employee in a concise manner, and make you seem as hireable as possible. (You could also put a sigil on your cover letter and resume without anyone ever knowing using invisible ink or printing in white.) . A great website for formatting your cover letter and resume to make it look like THE BOMB DOT COM is CVMKR.
2. Have you applied for every available job, including the ones that you may think you are “above”? Listen, I have a BFA in Photographic Imagery; I didn’t exactly choose the most profitable and available field in the world. I loved every bit of time I spent in college learning about art (and other various topics) and I am incredibly proud of what I accomplished. I am still very passionate about my work, but the fact of the matter is that dream jobs are incredibly hard to come by. There were plenty of times I had to suck up my pride and apply at places I thought I was too good for. That includes fast food chains and restaurants, data entry, and even sales positions for companies I knew were absolute bullshit (the sales companies, not everything else.) It took me years of gaining experience, freelancing, working for next to absolutely nothing, and busting my ass to get to where I am today. So, if you haven’t gone down to McDonald’s or Walmart, you might want to lace up your boots and get to walking. Money is money anyway you slice it, even if it means working at a place you aren’t necessarily are proud of. I know that seems like tough love, but it is true.
My dad once told me, “You only get out of life what you put into it.” I put in hours upon hours of literal blood, sweat, and tears, sleepless nights, going hungry and almost being homeless, paying thousands upon thousands of dollars back to student loans, and I have only JUST gotten what I would consider to be a dream job. I believed in what I was doing every day. I got up even when I didn’t want to. You just have to keep trying, even when things seem grim.
3. There are quite a few spells involving careers and money. I am going to refer you to @urbanspellcraft and @flowing-to-the-ocean’s spells. I trust their work to help you along the way, but just know that magic can only take you so far. In the amount of time you would spend working during an average work day (8+ hours), you need searching and applying for jobs, calling employers for interviews, and going to temp agencies. If not, you won’t find a job. Take it from me, as someone who spent the better part of a decade struggling to find a career and finally–FINALLY–got her dream job. You can do it, you just have to try.
“You’re at sort of a crossroads now. Things are going to change,” my mom assured me over the phone. I was bawling. You know, the ugly crying that makes your face puffy and your eyes bloodshot and your sinuses full of snot. I cry once or twice a year, and rarely do I ever have one of these ugly cries.
I had just hung up with Dr. S, my mentor whose job I took over in 2015. It was a really awkward conversation in which I just blurted out, “I don’t really know how to get into this, but I need you to know that I’m really not happy here.” I told her I was very grateful for the opportunity to take over for her and for everything she had done for me, but this job is killing me and I need to leave. We ended up having a lengthy conversation where I outlined all the reasons why I could not stay.
The next day I talked my other partner. He seemed angry, though he wasn’t entirely surprised. I wondered: if neither of them was surprised that I was unhappy, why had neither of them addressed it with me before? Why had neither of them asked me how I was doing or asked what could be done to make the job better?
Both of them were understanding, but they were both patronizing in their responses to me. I think they both think that I’m still in the naive pre-med mindset and that I don’t realize that this job is hard. They both even implied that my loneliness here was entirely my fault and that I wasn’t participating in community events (you know, because going to funerals, visitations, local restaurants, church services, civic club meetings, festivals, and freaking pig shows don’t count as participating in community events). I was also told, “don’t think any other job is going to be any easier,” and “family doctors don’t make much money anywhere in this country,” as if working 60 hours a week with no support for a bottom 5% salary is the norm… It has also been suggested that my goal of practicing full spectrum family medicine (which I did in residency) is really unrealistic.
“You need to focus on you now. Don’t worry about them. Find a job you love and move as soon as you can. I don’t like seeing you like this.” I know my depression and dissatisfaction over the last year have really worried my mom. I think my ugly cry that day was really the release of a great burden. I already feel more free knowing that I have more options than staying here.
I came here believing God put me here for a reason. I still believe that. I have come to realize that God’s reasons aren’t always to make us happy in the short term. But by bringing me here, he has certainly taught me to depend on him more in my loneliness and sadness, and he is continually teaching me to work on my boundaries. I think this experience is going to make me a better doctor and stronger person in the long run, even if it was a miserable desert of a year.
“Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.”
This is for Ankoro-san who beautifully translated one of my other RenRuki fanarts so I was able to upload it on pixiv. Again, thank you so much!
Maybe Rukia was the one who found that spot where they buried their friends? I would love to know their names.
EDIT: Okay because this was mentioned: The last picture *wasn’t* drawn with the intention that they are disrespectful to their friends. I just wanted to make them look happy which was the goal all five of them had. I am sorry if the last image holds the possibility of an ambigious interpretation.
this fandom is filled with such talented people, i hope people take time to read their work! this list will be updated whenever i read another certain amount of fic to add to it! all fics are complete unless stated otherwise.