Okay guys, I recently had an idea but for it to work I would need moderators who are able to check in on a discord at least once or every couple of days.
I want to make a discord where antis and shippers can actually have a calm discussion. No name calling or any other toxic language. There would be two servers, one with articles supporting fiction =/= reality argument, and the other one being the fiction can impact reality.
There would also be a server for the actual discussion. I want to make this a very unstressful experience for everyone. The rules will be strict and all kink/sex talk will be explicitly clinical in conversation.
Also, the chat will be 16+ only, nobody under that age allowed due to the seriousness and sexual content spoken of. I chose 16 because I feel they’ll be mature enough to participate in the discussion, and is also why the sex talk will be explicitly clinical. I know most antis are minors, which is another reason why I chose 16, I know there are even younger antis but I don’t feel comfortable with them participating in this conversation.
Another thing, arguments can not just be backed by “it’s gross”. What one person may find gross, like a spider, another person may find it cool. It should not be placed on your gut reaction and be put more on moral value and scientific studies.
Secondly, we all know pedophilia is bad. No advocating for that, I assume my followers already know that but I want to make it clear. Children are unable to consent and are not sexually or emotionally mature. And, anyone who follows me and supports pedophilia in real life unfollow me right now. Children cannot consent.
But what I need the most right now are moderators who won’t be biased. If a pro shipper does something wrong to an anti, I want you to take the anti’s side. Antis aren’t just some big bad hivemind, I have seen antis that have proven themselves to be reasonable people. A lot of times you just need to throw out your anger and calmly speak to them.
Please, I want a civil discord for all of us to actually speak to each other without being rude or condescending. We may even be able to become friends.