Battling Gender Roles: One Toy Department at a Time
Every time I pass a store with toys, or I’m in a store with a toy department, I have to browse. You never know what cool action figures or LEGOs will be available. That’s where I got my awesome Iron Man headphones, and they sound quality is AMAZING.
Today, while in the toy department, I spied this:
What you can’t see are all the fun cowboy hats and guns that are behind me in the same “Boys Role Play” area.
I got mad. Really mad.
So I did this:
I replaced the “Barbie” sign with the “Boys Role Play” sign.
The Fight in Ohio Continues--All Eyes Turn to Governor Kasich
Despite our efforts is looks like the budget bill containing highly controversial, inflammatory, and harmful last minute amendments regarding women’s health and reproductive rights was passed.
Pro-Choice Ohio published this after the decision:
Columbus, OH –Hours after 200 pro-choice activists rallied on the Ohio Statehouse steps, the Ohio House and Senate passed a budget with five measures that combined represent a serious risk to the health of Ohio women. The budget now goes to Governor John Kasich who can line-item veto measures before signing the budget into law before the midnight June 30th deadline.
“The time has come for Governor Kasich to stop dodging this issue and take immediate action to protect the health of Ohio women with his veto pen. The Governor’s job is not to impose his personal moral beliefs on Ohio citizens, rather it is to protect Ohioans’ health and safety.” said Kellie Copeland, executive director of the NARAL Pro-Choice Ohio. "Someone has to stop the Ohio Legislature from practicing medicine without a license, that someone is Governor Kasich.
The five provisions in the budget include:
A new consent process for women seeking abortion care that forces a doctor to perform medically unnecessary tests and give medically ambiguous information about the viability of the pregnancy.
A requirement that all ambulatory surgical centers to have transfer agreements with hospitals will become law. It would also grant authority to the anti-choice director of the Ohio Department of Health to cherry-pick who receives a transfer agreement for an ambulatory surgical center for any reason. The budget also singles out and blocks public hospitals and doctors who contract with abortion clinics from having transfer agreements or contracting with abortion clinics.
Divert federal Temporary Assistance for Needy Families funds intended to be used for cash support for mothers and their children to unregulated crisis pregnancy centers. A year-long investigation conducted by NARAL Pro-Choice Ohio Foundation into crisis pregnancy centers revealed widespread use of biased and medically inaccurate information.
Reprioritization of family planning funding would defund Planned Parenthood and other family planning experts, many of whom serve the poor in rural counties. This proposal will wreak havoc on tens of thousands of patients that rely on these facilities, and could result in eleven counties losing access to subsidized family planning services entirely.
Finally the budget also appropriates 1 million dollars per year to Rape Crisis Programs in Ohio. Unfortunately although this funding is critical for programs to be able to serve survivors across the state, politicians used this funding to again attack reproductive health-care access by gagging rape crisis counselors from talking about all of a survivor’s medical options if she gets pregnant from the assault.
But fear not Fempire Fighters! THERE’S STILL HOPE FOR OHIO! Governor Kasich has the power to line veto and eliminate the provisions that pertain to limiting women’s reproductive rights. And, despite the fact he considers himself a pro-life Republican, he may just do it.
According to Cleveland.com
Kasich is an anti-abortion Republican. But he has not shown an appetite for such issues and is preparing for a re-election fight. A recent poll showed him with a wide lead among men and essentially tied with likely Democratic challenger Ed FitzGerald among women voters. If Kasich accepts abortion restrictions, he risks angering and energizing a block that could help FitzGerald narrow the overall gap.
The governor has not offered many hints about which way he is leaning.
"I’ll look at the language, keeping in mind that I’m pro-life,” Kasich said Wednesday, according to a report from the Cincinnati Enquirer.
Kasich’s seeking re-election in 2014 and we have already begun to raise some hell. He has the power to take out provisions in a two year budget bill that have less to do with Ohio’s economy and more to do with limiting the freedoms of the female citizens of the state through backdoor measures.
Next do everything you can to contact Governor Kasich and give him a piece of your mind! This is CRUCIAL for everyone especially Ohioans. If he thinks this will jeopardize his election he may back off. Click HERE for an excellent guide (and script!) on how to contact the right people and make it clear we won’t stand for this.
Signal boosting and raising awareness through tweeting with us (@the_fempire) and reblogging the heck out of this always helps.
The battle continues Fempire Fighters. Let’s show the world we won’t stand for this in Texas, we won’t stand for this in Ohio, and we won’t stand for this anywhere. Women’s rights are human rights and I’m tired of having to explain that to other people.
Rarely in the middle of a cinematic experience do I feel the need to whip out my notebook in the dark theatre and start scrawling notes. I did that last night.
NOT because the film was bad. But because it was very good. SO good, that the problems I had with it were that much more upsetting and disappointing. Nothing kills me more than lost potential. (Goddammit, Prometheus)
Problem 1: Where My Ladies At?
First and foremost, this film not only fails the Bechdel test, it is a prime example of why the Bechdel test exists in the first place.
If the comic books did not dictate that a particular character exist and, in fact, have a vagina…that character did not have a vagina.
Lara, Martha, Lois, and Bad Kryptonian Lady were the main females. I was not disappointed with their portrayal. Not at all. Well cast, written just fine for their purpose.
My PROBLEM, however, is with all the women that were NOT present. There were so many peripheral characters that could have EASILY been played by women. The scientist, the General, the air force pilot, the other reporter at the newspaper…I could go on. In spite of the fact that women exist in real life as scientists, generals, pilots, and reporters, every single one of these roles were played by men.
But, you say, there was that girl at the Planet! And there were some female soldiers!
The girl at the Planet was an intern, and she not only barely spoke, but when she did it was mostly to fall apart at crunch time and beg the men to save her in spite of the fact that their lives were in danger. Way to not only NOT be brave, but endanger the lives of others by being a weepy, whiny waste of space.
The two female soldiers that were even a little memorable were A) tiny in stature for some reason and B) eye rollingly annoying. One of them had to ask what terraforming was and looked like she was about 17 years old. The other was a Captain, but her only line was to mention how hot Superman is.
I am SO GODDAMN TIRED of this SAME GODDAMN ARGUMENT.
Women exist in positions of power IN REAL LIFE. Women exhibit heroism every day IN REAL LIFE.
It’s time we start seeing that portrayed in pop culture in something other than cable networks and what Joss Whedon has written. NOW.
Stop it with the Jesus symbolism. Heroic deeds and self sacrifice happen every day. Ask anyone who knows a member of the armed forces, or anyone who knows a cop or fireman. Taking a super hero film (I’m looking RIGHT AT YOU Spiderman and Matrix: Revolutions) and randomly throwing in a SUPER OBVIOUS crucifixion pose is just annoying. Stop it. It’s unnecessary.
In a post-9/11 society, you should never portray a catastrophic loss of life without showing the consequences. Too many people all over the world are intimately aware of the grief and trauma involved with major disasters. Terrorism, tsunamis, tornadoes, wildfires…we have all seen more wanton destruction than our brains can properly process. Please do not subject us to entire cities being reduced to ash while ignoring the fact that mothers, fathers, spouses, brothers, and sisters are inside those buildings that you are destroying.
It’s only a movie?
Well, I don’t know about you, but I can’t watch a skyscraper fall to the ground without my heart stopping for just a moment. Without feeling that ghost of grief like a phantom limb. Without being haunted by it hours after.
If you must do it, make sure it MATTERS. Make sure it has a true MEANING.
Don’t ever do it because you just want to one up the last guy.
Man of Steel is an unfortunate reminder that we have a very, very long way to go before Hollywood stops being a vapid and shallow boys’ club that treats their audience like a collective group of seventh graders.
Empowered sexuality in dance is not necessarily a bad thing. I wish people would talk about how Miley’s dance moves were tasteless and lacked class as opposed to throwing around the term “slutty”, which inherently carries with it the idea that sexuality in women is something to be ashamed of.
The document is rich with fear of women’s bodies, frustrated indignation from DPS officials, and banal chronicling of “open source” intelligence gleaned from Twitter. But here, illustrated, are the ten best lines from the “poopgate” papers:
I talk back because the expectation is that when you tell a woman to shut up, she should shut up. I reject that. I talk back because it’s fun, sometimes, to rip an abusive dummy to shreds with my friends. I talk back because my mental health is my priority—not some troll’s personal satisfaction. I talk back because it emboldens other women to talk back online and in real life, and I talk back because women have told me that my responses give them a script for dealing with monsters in their own lives. And, most importantly, I talk back because internet trolls are not, in fact, monsters. They are human beings—and I don’t believe that their attempts to dehumanize me can be counteracted by dehumanizing them. The only thing that fights dehumanization is increased humanization—of me, of them, of marginalized groups in general, of the internet as a whole.
Cumulatively, the sheer volume of hate that we’re expected to shoulder, in silence, every day, is wearing a lot of people out and shutting down rational discourse. Female bloggers are being hounded off the internet. Teenage girls are being hounded off the earth. There’s no good solution, but we have to do what we can to stop these people—unmask them, shame them, mock them, cement their status as social pariahs—for our own sanity and for those whose armor isn’t so thick (upgrade yo greaves, son).
At 2AM Texas #SB5 was declared dead. The past couple of days have been full of bipolar extremes. The flat out rage that’s blinded me for the past week, the awe of and inspiration provided by everyone who showed up (and in the end wouldn’t shut up), the woman on the House health committee who doesn’t know what a rape kit is, the tweets from around the world, the food sent from strangers, the Republicans making up their own ridiculous rules, the senators claiming they’d never seen anything like it, Senator Watson at the end and Wendy fucking Davis standing for 13 hours speaking passionately because it was the right thing to do and she knew there were thousands with her. This is what we can do. I’m so proud of you. You you and you. And me. I’m going to bed.
BTW, that’s Cecile Richards, president of Planned Parenthood, standing in front of a painting of her mum reading a text from Wendy Davis declaring #SB5 dead. I overheard her tell someone that tonight Ann was up there pulling all the strings.
Documents released Monday by the Texas Department of Public Safety show no evidence that the “feminist army” of orange-clad pro-choice supporters brought containers of urine and feces to the Texas state capitol this summer during debates over an omnibus anti-abortion bill.
The documents do show state troopers relied on unsubstantiated rumors that “orange women” intended to engage in tampon-tossing, poop-throwing, and flashing, as claimed by anti-choice activists on social media in advance of July’s vote on HB 2, which imposes onerous restrictions on abortion providers and clinics and bans abortion after 20 weeks in the state.