If a friend you’re not attracted to had a crush on you, and had for as long as you’d known them, would you want to know? Or would you rather they kept it to themselves until it faded? How would it affect your ability to interact with them like a normal friend?

anonymous asked:

Hello! I wanted to drop by and say that I love your OC's! Noah is definitely my favorite and I look forward to seeing more of him. Hope you have a wonderful day.

knowing that you like him already made my day very wonderful i’m so happy 🌷

(here he is, trying hard to hide his crush… but obviously failing)

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anonymous asked:

This is a sincere question. Since you're a gay man, what makes you think Harry is gay vs just being effeminate? I don't think any of my friends are gay, but have met and gone to school with effeminate men. They acted and dressed like Harry, but are straight.

First of all, I need you to understand that being ‘effeminate’ (or let’s use a less loaded word and go with ‘camp’) does not equate to being gay

You know what, let’s repeat that once again for emphasis.

Being ‘effeminate’ does not equate to being gay.

No one here, at least no one that I have any desire to engage with, believes that Harry is gay because of the way he dresses. They believe he’s gay based on a wealth of evidence which pertains to his statements about sexuality, his reaction to women and his relationship with Louis. No one is sitting here talking about Harry’s sexuality based on the fact that he wears pink shirts, principally because this isn’t 2004 and we understand that sexuality is far more complex than that.

To conflate feminine traits and male same sex attraction is offensive and dangerous. I spoke about this a lot earlier in the week with the whole “bottom=sub” thing, but I know some incredibly masculine gay men and some very, very feminine straight men. Sexuality and gender are not a sliding scale, and thus how you present your gender and the way in which you conform to gender roles has no baring on your sexuality.

I wouldn’t describe Harry as ‘effeminate’ (principally because it’s a word that’s loaded in some pretty shitty context, and most same sex attracted guys wouldn’t like you using it, perhaps consider ‘camp’ or ‘feminine’) but I would say that his (frankly magical) refusal to conform to gender norms is absolutely brilliant. It isn’t why I think he’s attracted to men though. That’s evidenced by his relationship with Louis.

So I can’t answer your question, because it’s based on a premise that I don’t agree with. If you don’t think Harry’s same sex attracted because you don’t think that being feminine is the same as being gay, we’re on the same page. However, I’d encourage you to appreciate that my understanding of his sexuality is in no way based on that.


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