It is totally okay if you give your abusive mother something for mothers day
It is totally okay if you dont give your abusive mother something for mothers day
Its okay to give your abusive mother something in order to protect yourself or stay on her “good side”, or even if its out of guilt or generosity
Its also okay to not get them anything, theyre abusive and you are under no obligation to give your abuser a present if you dont feel its right. It doesnt make you selfish or an asshole. And its okay if you simply forgot.
Mothers day is for good moms, no choice is the wrong choice.