I had a crush on this guy for months... Months on embarrassing months, and when the stars finally aligned and my feelings were returned I was over the moon... Until recently. Suddenly the spark isn't there. I'm afraid I built this person up so much in my head that having the reality has been a let down and I am terrified of the truth. I'm trying to ignore it, but the bad days have gotten worse, and I fear this empty feeling will triumph in the end.
my adive is to try seeing the other person and ur relationship without any prejudices, try to see it for what it truly is and if thats not something ur happy with then thats that.. sometimes u imagine things different from how they really are, but in the end ur the only person who knows what u want so try to find out how u really feel !