favorite books & a special blanket

Rules | Answer the 20 questions and tag 20 amazing followers you’d like to get to know better!

Tagged by: I was tagged by @kyluxtrashcompactor

Name: Natalia

Nicknames: Naty and Nat 

Zodiac sign: Libra and ox

Height: 5′4

Orientation: Pan ace

Nationality: Colombian <3

Favorite fruit: MANGO! specially when its close to green and its hard but really sweet

Favorite season: Autumn

Favorite book: Pie de Bruja by Carolina Andújar and the raven boys

Favorite flower: sunflowers and wisterias

Favorite scent: black pepper and books

Favorite color: purple and plum

Favorite animal: Manta rays, seals and ocelots

Coffee, tea, or hot cocoa: coffee!!

Average sleep hours: its been a chill semester so like 7 or 8

Cat or dog person: BOTH

Favorite fictional character: damn theres a lot. By now are rey and hux and kylo but i also love a lot of people from haikyuu

Number of blankets you sleep with: just one thick blanket

Dream trip: I would travel anywhere but I would love to visit Philippines 

Blog created: mm i think like may or june 2016

Number of followers: 406 (finally YuY)

I tag: @epselion @boodhirooks @spacewitchqueen @infinitelykylo @kylohno and @biffbang

Self Care/Soothing Actions List

No matter how bad it is right now, do some of the things, either now or very soon. Please add on your own self care/soothing actions items. People are going to need some reminders.

Here are some of mine.

  • Drink a full glass of water. Dehydration is as easy as forgetting all day.
  • Take a very hot bath, preferably with something nice in it (bath oil, bath salt, bath bomb, special soap, etc).
  • Light a favorite scented candle.
  • Make a favorite hot drink, wrap up in blankets, and read a book.
  • Put on a favorite/nostalgic/lighthearted movie.
  • Find something super soft and rub it on your face.
  • Initiate physical contact with loved ones.
  • (for longer haired people) slowly brush through hair.
  • Finish one segment of some project or creative endeavor.
  • (careful of debris, depends on the area) Take a walk barefoot in grass and/or dirt. If possible, roll down a grassy hill.
  • Find a quiet place (museum, library, public garden) where you can rest from relentless external stimulation.
  • Break out the soothing music.
  • Belt songs as hard as you can when you recognize them on the car radio. Belting relieves stress, whether you’re any good or not.
  • Get one of those useless old yellow pages books and start ripping it up.
  • Get a long, unbroken block of sleep. Lavender scent helps with this.

What are yours?

Things You Can Do With and For Your Little Boy

-Wake him up for school/work/breakfast (Waking up to Mommy kisses is better than waking up to a noisy jump out of your skin alarm clock).

-Make him breakfast.

-Know his health problems, issues and allergies.

-Make sure he takes his medicine.

-Draw him a bubble bath, lots of bubbles. LOTS of bubbles.

-Wash him.

-Help him with any studying or classwork he may have. Midterms and finals suck.

-Set up a rewards system with stickers or fake money to “cash in” for special things or an outing.

-Know his favorite characters and cartoons. (This includes Pokemon!)

-Watch said favorite cartoons with him.

-Let him crawl in your lap and snuggle.

-Snuggle him any and everywhere you can.

-Build a blanket fort with him.

-Color with him

-Print out coloring pages/ buy coloring books for him (Littles need variety!)

-Talk to him. Ask him about his feelings, his day, all that.

-Lay out his clothes for him.

-Set up a bedtime that you BOTH can adhere to, no little should be going to bed alone if it’s preventable.

-Let him know that he can wake you up anytime during the night whether he can’t sleep, has a nightmare or just wakes up earlier than you.

-Let him cry. It doesn’t matter if you don’t always understand his feelings and emotions, it matters that you be there for him when he needs it.

-Spray his pillow with your perfume while you’re gone for the day.

-Make/pack his lunch how he likes it so he eats well when you’re working/adulting.

-Pick him up. Littles love rides!

- Know his stuffies, his blankies and his binkies.

-Keep his sippies clean and full.

-Make him a physical little space where he can burrow up in when he’s in his mental little space. (under the table with pillows and stuffies, in the corner or a whole bedroom decorated in things he likes)

-Keep him company when he’s sick. Watch his favorite movie with him and make him soup with fun shapes.

-Let them be little! The world is hard on everyone. He comes to you for refuge. Remind him why he picked you to be her Mommy out of all the other Mommies in the world.

-Love him. Whether he is whiny, bratty, or downright all out bitchy. Love him. He loves you when you’re the same way. Yes, Mommies can be bitches.

As you can see, there are plenty of things to do with your little boy that doesn’t require sex. Being intimate with your little is important, but sex isn’t the only intimacy out there.

anonymous asked:

Hey!! Do you have any birthday fics in honor of Bucky's birthday today? 😜🎁🎉💯

YES of course! Happy 100th to Bucky!

365 by Chiyume

When Bucky comes home, the apartment is empty, which, admittedly, isn’t exactly what he had been expecting.
For as long as Bucky’s known him, Steve has never once failed to greet him when he’d get home on his birthday. Not back in Brooklyn, and certainly not since Bucky came back to live with the guy here in the Twentieth century.

In which Steve has something extra special planned for Bucky’s birthday, only, it’s not at all what Bucky is expecting.

Happy birthday, Buck by Snowflakesandangels

A short fluffy oneshot about Bucky’s 100th birthday.

He has sunshine, books, a fluffy blanket, and a whole day with his favorite romantic sap.
What more could he ask for.

march 10 by childhoodinfamy

He doesn’t wonder if Sarah Rogers knew before either of them, because he knows she did; or: Steve’s gifts through the years.

I’ll only ever wish for you by sirona

Turning 100 - a day in the life of a not-quite-old married couple.

The Bucky Barnes Centennial Picnic by bopeep

Natasha plans a simple celebration in honor of the man in the fridge on his 100th birthday.

Through Cities And Churches by Speranza

A tale of many cities and churches and two boys. Happy 100th Birthday, Bucky Barnes: March 10, 2017.

To the Rescue by gwyneth rhys (gwyneth)

“You never kiss me like that,” Monty commented.

“That’s because you never lick me like that,” Bucky said with a smirk, as Gretel did just that, licking his hand and his neck.

Wake Up, Love by JuniorWoofles

In an alternate universe where Tony is Bucky’s boss and Steve is a sweet war vet Bucky met on grindr, he’s kind of torn between the two of them. It’s Bucky’s birthday, and both of his boys want to spend it with him. But first, his ex calls to wish him many unhappy returns.

I’ve been tagged

i’ve been tagged by @gallian-cub to answer a series of questions. 

Rules: answer the 20 questions and tag followers you would like to get to know better!

Name: Dakota
Nicknames: Dakotes
Zodiac Sign: Virgo
Height: 6ft
Orientation: Gay or Bi, I have been dating a man for almost 2 years, but I always end up watching straight porn for some reason
Ethnicity: Plant
Favorite Fruit: of the Loom
Favorite Season: Winter bc the temp matches my heart
Favorite Book: The Raven Cycle has a special place in my heart
Favorite Flower: I love all flowers, but Calla Lilies are very beautiful to me
Favorite Scent: soil
Favorite Color: Green, blue, gray
Favorite Animal: Cow
Coffee, tea, or hot chocolate: Coffee, preferably iced
Cat or dog person? Cat
Favorite fictional character: This is impossible idk if anyone actually has just one. Just check my blog if you wanna see characters i like
Number of blankets you sleep with: 2 Blankets and 8 Pillows
Ideal trip: I really want to road trip out west with my bf. Maybe see the Grand Canyon and some national parks.
Blog Created: idk how are you supposed to know this. I made it like Feb 2015
Number of Followers: 386

I tag @ameriqan @pinkfridaykawaii @casmcfox @gebranntgebrannt @capricale @tiltingatwindmills90 @doodleman30 @its-c0dy @oh-ethan and any one else that wants to do this

 i was tagged by @kaemutsumi thx!

Name: Mel
Nicknames: i go by my nickname mostly lol, otherwise: melly, tip, tippy
Zodiac sign: aries
Height: 5′8
Orientation: sapphic/queer
Ethnicity: white (im canadian)
Favorite Fruit: blueberries mmm
Favorite Season: spring
Favorite book: i havent read in 75 years but i love anything percy jackson, its kind of a funny story, and to kill a mockingbird
Favorite Flower: roses and sunflowers
Favorite Scent: i love the smell of cookies and weirdly my cat max (and also my gf lol)
Favorite Color: lavender
Favorite Animal: cat!
Coffee, tea, or hot chocolate: hot chocolate
Average sleep hours: between 6 and 10 lol
Cats or Dogs: cats
Favorite Fictional Character: currently umi sonoda, but annabeth chase will always have a special place in my heart
Number of blankets you sleep with: my comforter and my snuggie, so two
Ideal trip: the Smithsonian with my gf!
Blog Created: sometime in 2012 i believe, but ive been on tumblr since 2009 or 2010 i think?

i tag @iwaxii @pincushion–princess @hanayos @yamamaguchi-tadashi and anyone else :-)

20 questions

20 Questions
rules | answer the 20 questions and tag 20 amazing followers you’d like to get to know better!
tagged by:

@lyumifer

name | Tuna
nicknames | Tuna/Tuba 
zodiac sign | Pisces
height | 5′1"
orientation | Pansexual
nationality | Korean
favorite fruit | Strawberries
favorite season | Winter
favorite book | A Series of Unfortunate Events 
favorite flower | Sunflowers
favorite scent | Freshly baked chocolate chip cookies, right out of the oven 
favorite color | Soft pastels 
favorite animal | Cats, but I’m sadly allergic it’s so devastating 
coffee, tea, or hot cocoa | Coffee AND hot cocoa, but I drink coffee the most 
average sleep hours | 7-8
cat or dog person | cat, but I really love dogs 
favorite fictional character | hard to choose, but Allen Walker will always have a special place in m'heart 
number of blankets you sleep with | 1
dream trip | A Euro trip where I get to take pictures and draw all the scenery and eat all the food!!
blog created | 2014
number of followers | 629

I’ll tag: @patchy-spoop
@nyct0phobia @dorks-in-fiction @lilacofficial @ghostlaments @xmo @error-net @bucketsofgiggles

about me

Tagged by: @tooruinspace (tysm anna!! <33)

Name: jay
Nickname: anything related to jill
Height: 5′1″ :’^(
Orientation: gay??? 
Ethnicity: bengali 
Favorite Fruit: mangos, apples, berries, green grapes
Favorite Season: spring and summer
Favorite Book: anything by khaled hosseini 
Favorite Flower: all flowers are my fave, but roses and tulips are super pretty
Favorite Scent(s): coffee/cafes, candles after the flames been blown out, new book smell, oils that are used for your hair??
Average Sleep Hours: 5-8
Cat or Dog Person: DOGS!!! 
Favorite Fictional Character: there are A LOT but pidge and prince zuko will always have a very special place in my heart! <3
Number of Blankets you Sleep with: 1 (2 if they’re thin) 
Ideal Vacation: i’ve been wanting to visit my relatives from my mom’s side for a while, so either toranto or the east coast. but i’ve also really been wanting to travel to france !! 
Blog Created: nov 27 2014, but i’ve been here since halloween of 2013
Number of Followers: 540 

Tagging: anyone that wants to do it!! :^))

Rules: Answer the 20 questions and tag 20 amazing followers you’d like to get to know better!

I got tagged by @charlie-xkx (thanks friend you heckin rock!)

Name: Ali
Nicknames: Ali/Al
Zodiac Sign: Capricorn
Height: 5′3″
Orientation: straight
Nationality: American
Favorite Fruit: Watermelon
Favorite Season: Fall
Favorite Book: 13 Reasons Why or Perks of Being a Wallflower
Favorite Flower: don’t really have one 
Favorite Scent: normal scent- vanilla; special scent - this one from Bath & Body Works called mad about you
Favorite Color: Green
Favorite Animal: Cats, yo
Coffee, Tea, or Hot Cocoa: hot chocoloate
Average Sleep Hours: 7-8
Cat or Dog Person: CATS YO
Favorite Fictional Character: Tina Belcher
Number of Blankets You Sleep With: two-three during the winter
Dream Trip: Germany
Blog Created: May 6, 2012. 
Number of Followers: 1,301

I’m tagging: 
@consultingsoufflehunter @deathtotheangels @northerncountryredhead @chicken-godz @im-already-long-gone @imlameandbadaturls @americannoteven @cinderblockedgardens

I know it’s not 20 but they’re all great people so quality over quantity, am i right?!

Tag

Taggee by @zaraenia Indirectly

Name: Morgane

Nick name: Pêche, Jelly Donut

Zodiac Sign: Capricorn

Height: 1m52

Orientation: Hetero

Ethnicity: French

Favorite fruit: Raspberries

Favorite Season: Summer

Favorite book: Too many (1984, Elric’s cycle, H2G2, Alice in wonderland…)

Favorite flower: Columbia

Favorite scent: My boyfriend’s and sweet sents (like chocolate) and old paper

Favorite color: Green, red ans black

Favorite animals: Wolves, snakes, tardigrade, most of them actually

Coffe, tea or hot chocolate: Hot chocolate *p*

Avarege sleep: Depends on the day of the week.

Cats or dogs: Cats, but I love dogs too!

Favorite fictional character: A little special place to Ren Kouha, but I love many others!

Numbers of blankets i sleep in: 2

Ideal trip: Right now? Sweden *w* Too many good bands there, and beautiful landscapes!

Blog created: 2013 I think? Something like that.

Tagging: @mzkills

I was tagged by @sympathyforthecannibal and @marahutecorner, thanks!

name | HW
nicknames | wonwon / bacon
zodiac sign | Sagittarius
height | 5′1
orientation | straight I think
nationality | Korean-Canadian
favorite fruit | Fuji apples, ice-cold Korean watermelons
favorite season | depends on where tbh
favorite book | We, the Drowned, and others
favorite flower | idk much about flowers
favorite scent | steak
favorite color | dark grey
favorite animal | wolves, crows, snakes, lammergeiers, etc
coffee, tea, or hot cocoa | hot cocoa
average sleep hours | 6~7 hrs
cat or dog person | dogs!!!
favorite fictional character | Lecter always has a special place in my heart but Danny! Rayburn!
number of blankets you sleep with | one ~ two
dream trip | Italy, Japan, Iceland, anywhere else I didn’t stay long enough
blog created | 6 years ago this July :’)))))))
number of followers | shdfhshhhhh

"Get to Know Me Tag”

Tagged by- @voodoochildfromkashmir 

Name: Logan

Nickname(s): None. I’m just that special. 

Zodiac Sign: Cancer Sun, Libra Rising, Leo Moon

Height: Jeez, can’t anything be a mystery? I’m 5′7.5

Orientation: Bisexual

Favorite Colors: Pink, Yellow

Favorite Animal: Puffin or Peacock 

Average Hours of Sleep: 6-8 

Cat or Dog Person?: DOG, but don’t get me wrong, I dig cats. I’m just allergic.

Favorite Fictional Character: I read a helluva lot but I can’t just think of one that would accurately represent my legitimate “favorite.” Especially because my favorite book is nonfiction :/

Number of Blankets You Sleep With: In winter- ¾ In Spring/Summer- ½

Dream Trip: To visit Bron-Yr-Aur in Wales

Blog Created: August 2016 

Number of Folowers: 774 (I CANNOT THANK MY FOLLOWERS ENOUGH OR ANNOY THEM ENOUGH WITH MY CONTENT)

Autumn asks
  • Night sky: What does your perfect autumn look like?
  • Dusk: Any particular movies you watch in autumn?
  • Woods: What spot do you love most in autumn?
  • Halloween: How do you feel about being scared?
  • Dying leaves: Do you have a secret sorrow?
  • Pumpkin: What's your favorite "autumn-y" thing?
  • Cinnamon: What's your favorite fall scent?
  • Flannel Blankets: Favorite fall textures?
  • Cider: How do you make others feel better?
  • Red Cheeks: Any special autumn traditions?
  • Rain: What is your autumn playlist?
  • Ghosts: Do you still like getting dressed up for Halloween?
  • Candy: Chocolate, sweet, or sour? Preferences?
  • Harvest: Favorite autumn drink/food?
  • Strangers: Do you feel adventurous?
  • Cardigans: Any books that suit autumn really well?
  • Apple picking: Favorite autumn activity?
  • Skeletons: What would you be if you were a monster?
  • Gloves: Favorite memory of the fall?
  • Chilly weather: Do you have favorite fall clothing?
  • Fierce wind: When do you like to wake up?
  • Witchcraft: Do you believe in magic?