hey i know that a lot of borderlines on tumblr talk about having a favorite person, and while that’s all fine and good, remember that having an FP is not in the bpd criteria and it’s totally fine if you don’t get them!
some people never get FPs!
some people rarely get FPs!
some people get FPs but don’t want to talk about it because it’s too personal or for some other reason!
some people experience FPs differently than others!
it’s all okay, because FPs are not in the bpd criteria and don’t affect whether you have bpd or not.