1. chub rub 2. people who see us as a fetish 3. cute clothes are never in our size 4. when clothes are our size, they never fit right 5. boobs, belly, hip, but, ratio 6. people regularly call you “fat,” as if you never knew 7. “you can have the front seat” when traveling with friends & family 8. you can never find a towel that goes all the way around you 9. people are surprised when you order a salad instead of a burger 10. “oh honey, you’re not fat, you’re beautiful” 11. painting your toe nails 12. doing up shoes with the buckle on the sides 13. people who think fat girls don’t have sex 14. cute bra’s and panties in your size are impossible to find 15. public transport at rush hour 16. fat girl clothes prices 17. judged if you eat too much, judged if you eat too little 18. the crotch/in between the thighs if your trousers rip too often 19. “sore throat?” .. “Yeah…” …. “It’s because of your weight" 20. squeezing past people and still rubbing your body against them 21. body hair in places you never knew existed 22. "you’re so soft can i use you as a pillow?” 23. the stare of death you receive from other fat girls in public 24. “you’re so pretty for a fat girl” 25. no matter who you’re with in public you both get dirty looks 26. shopping with thin friends and only trying on shoes and jewellry 27. “would you like that meal as a large?” 28. stairs 29. the fact that it’s socially acceptable to make fun of fat people 30. booths in restaurants 31. your family automatically plate up XL portions of food for you 32. “have you put on weight?” at every family gathering 33. you can never find pretty bangles or rings that fit you 34. “you should go to the gym with me” 35. “you’d be so much prettier if you lost 100lbs” 36. irregular periods 37. we’re treated worse than murderers/rapists/pedophiles by society 38. people are shocked when they see you eat fruit 39. “fat girls have to try more with their personalities” 40. we’re made to feel like shit by society, and it’s fucking wrong. We are fucking beautiful. We have as much right to love ourselves and feel great, just like every other human being. Rock on fat girls.
I work in a place that has no AC and it gets to about 110 in the place add humidity to that and its hell. im not wearing pants or a shirt with sleeves its to hot and sticky. i was approached by a girl who i work with and told me i was not allowed to wear what i was wearing. Now keep in mind i work with skinny girls who wear less and they are in the AC part of the place.
Hey! I'm a big girl who's thighs constantly are touching and rubbing. I don't know if this just happens to me but I get what I think are like blood blisters between my thighs. Do you know if this is normal for thick thighs?
This is completely normal for thick thighs. Between my thighs are so dark, like a really dark brown/grey.
Unfortunately, there’s nothing you can do to stop the discolouration, that will be there. And I know the blood blisters/spots can really really hurt.
I suggest putting talcum powder between your thighs everyday once you’ve washed and dried off, and if you’re wearing a dress/skirt, investing in a pair of comfort shorts to minimise chafing.
I know it’s almost a taboo subject, discussing things like this, but they do need to be said. To keep the blisters and spots from infection, it’s really important to wash down there with a paraben free soapand a good loofah.
Because your thighs are nearly always touching, I advise sleeping with no pyjama bottoms or underwear, to give between your thighs a chance to air out which will help the spots/blisters.
I hope this helped sweetheart. You’re not alone. This is something people need to know about. And I’m sorry that you felt like you were alone.