Fat bodies are either forcibly desexualized, often being made a mockery, or hyper sexualized, being reduced to a simple closeted sexual fetish. But not my body. My body gets me up everyday, gets me to work, my body heals me, my body works wonders, my body gives me all the life I need. My sexuality is undoubtedly linked to my body and it’s beautiful form. I will not be reduced to a fetish, and my sexuality will not go muted or be made a punch line in media.