I mean I know a lot of women who always have someone, whether it’s an infatuation or a new guy she’s dating or an ex she’s back together with or a best guy friend she thinks she’s starting to fall in love with. I don’t think that is healthy, I mean certainly it is healthy to love, and sometimes I think it would be nice to be reminded that such strong, intense passionate feelings are even possible, but ultimately I never ever want to love anyone more than myself. Never wanna need anyone, never wanna depend on a man for anything other than company and support. I think self-love is the most comfortable and the most valuable; […] maybe self-love is what I’ve gotten used to?
— my khomegerl Nat