I find it really weird that the fandom is ready to justify Pansy Parkinson willing to hand Harry over to Voldemort as “She was thinking of everyone’s lives” and “She was the only one with the guts to say what everyone was thinking”, disregarding the fact that doing so would mean a reign of terror and oppression,
but then vilify Dumbledore for setting Harry on the path to save the Wizarding World from evil, even when he was nearly certain Harry would survive.
I mean, it is as Harry puts it, “the difference between being dragged into the arena to face a battle to the death and walking into the arena with your head held high.”
notice how the main men on the show are good men while the show remains about the women. it’s such a slap in the face to “feminists hate men” or “i don’t consider myself a feminist because i love men”.
Or in general, to anyone who is suffering from excess hair, whether that be trans/PCOS/or any other type of medical condition. (I understand some are more directed towards females.)
1. “Is that hair on your _________ ?” 2. “What is that rash on your _____/______ ?” 3. “Do you not get scared when it comes to being intimate with your partner?” 4. “Does your partner mind that you’re hairy?” 5. “You’re so brave, I would of killed myself if this was happening to me.” 6. “Even though you’re hairy, you still look like a girl.” 7. “You may think being hairy is the end of the world, but someone out there is worse off than you.” 8. “My Mother’s friend’s daughter has hirsutism and her’s is worse than yours.” 9. “Have you thought of lazer hair removal/ electrolysis/ shaving with a razor/ waxing/ threading/ plucking/ bleaching? 10. “So, can you get pregnant?” 11. “If you had a baby, would you be scared that it would also have abnormal hair growth, you should know better than anyone that it would be cruel to have a baby under those circumstances!” 12. “Why is your makeup so heavy - you would look so much better if it was natural!!” 13. “My friend takes _____ to control her hirsutism, why don’t you try that?” 14. “Ha ha ha, you could always join the circus as a bearded lady!!!” 15. “It’s just a little hair, it could be SO much worse, you are overreacting!” 16. “You wear such baggy clothes that cover up everything, it’s so depressing, stop being lazy, shave your body and wear something more revealing! 17. “Does your partner see you when you’re hairy?” 18. “Does it not scare you to wake up next to your partner every morning with a full face of stubble!?!?!?” 19. “Asking for laser hair removal on the NHS/Insurance would be selfish, it’s a cosmetic thing, not for actually bettering your life!” 20. “You’re such a spoil sport, you’re hairy, so what, stop making everything about you!” 21. “You know I can still see your hair through your makeup?” 22. “Maybe if you lost some weight like the doctors say, the hair would stop.” 23. “You always have to make everything about you, no one cares that you’re hairy, you’re being OTT.” 24. “Have you thought about buying a NoNo? I hear great things about them!” 25. “Maybe if you stopped buying yourself things, you could afford laser hair removal. 26. “Ugh, I just felt your stubble brush up against my face!!!” 27. “You know, in old middle eastern history, hairy women were a sign of femininity and extreme beauty.” 28. “You should be greatful the hair is only on _____ and ______ it could be so much worse.” 29. “Did you see that bearded woman on the news the other day? That will be you in 5 years!!! Ha ha ha.” 30. “Aw no, don’t be upset, you know I’m only joking, my hairy friend!!” 31. “Your hair is getting kinda long…. Do you not thing it’s time to shave/wax/whatever it yet?” 32. “I can shave your hair for you if you want…” 33. “You would look so much better and prettier if you weren’t hairy.” 34. “Have you tried drinking _____ and eating ______ …. I read on Google it can stop excess hair growth!” 35. “It annoys me that you waste GP time going to see your doc about your hair, It is only hair.” 36. “You’re hairy because you have more male hormones, than female ones? Does that mean you are going to grow a penis lol?” 37. “Happy Birthday!!!! We bought you a gift voucher to the local spa for a full body wax! Hope you like it.” 38. “A lot of girls have this issue, you’re not the only one, relax.” 39. “I read that hirsutism means that you aren’t as developed as other humans, and are more like monkeys, is that right?” 40. “You’re a great friend, I love you and everything, but I find your hair so gross, I wish you would just control it better and take some pride in yourself!”
After having severe hirsutism for the best part of 10 years, these are just a handful of the extremely hurtful things that have been said/happened to me. Some of them were clearly meant in good taste, but a safe thing is that, unless the hirsute person brings up their hair, don’t bring it up yourself.