I am going to tell you a story. And if you've read books or fanfiction, you can read this ( I worked kinda hard on this)
As an introvert, I get to sit back and observe the world around me when I go out into public. I listen in on conversations I know that I shouldn’t, but this is how I gather information about the world of today, tomorrow and every future out there.
Hate. Judgement. FEAR of expession. Body “issuse.” Crime. Phobia. War. Battle. Climate Change. The LGBTIAQ+ movement. Shootings. Putting others down to build yourself up. Forgetting others because they’re “not cool” or “ew.” Disrespect. Mental diseases aren’t real. God or religion in general. Sex-symbols. Feminism.
Some of the things I listed above is what the world sees as “wrong” or “going wrong.” Yes, there are BAD things in the list, and then there are some plain out stupid ones that shouldn’t even be in the list.
One of my favorite ones to talk about is body image/“issuse”. I struggle daily with my own image, but then I remember that my own body is my own body. You shouldn’t have photoshopped pictures of lads and lasses in magazines and on billboards be your standard of beauty. The digitally reconstructed model is more beautiful when they aren’t looking into a camera lens and posing, because then they breathe, walk, talk, have a personality, share ideas, has thoughts, EATS, sleeps, had a brain, walks around the house in sweatpants being a lazy HUMAN, maybe they go home to take care of a family, go back to college, go to another job, seeks help, shows compasion, goes to the bathroom. But above all else the model that is edited into perfection lives like any other human being. THEY LIVE JUST LIKE YOU!!!! Yes, you. You are not ugly, you are a piece of artwork that people admire when they see it, maybe you are the colorful graffiti that should hang on the wall of an art muesum, or you are the most famous paintings in the world. Maybe you are the art that is present everywhere and people love to enjoy. You ARE handsome, beautiful, gorgoes, sexy, or what ever you want to be. That is what you are.
Next. The hate, jugdement, fear, and all that other bullshit. Fuck it all. If someone hates you, you did something right. And the right thing you did was called BEING YOURSELF. Sometimes you need to take the judgement and turn it into something positive, change it in to poetry, or some fancy artsy shit. Change it into constructive criticism, make yourself a better person. If someone is bitching at you for something you can’t change, ignore it, if you can change it, try to change it and tell them next time when they come to tell you something rude or opinionitive to just be gentle with giving the information. FEAR, here’s the hard part, sometimes fear is there, ALWAYS. You can’t change that especially when it is deadly. Some fears are able to be over come or killed entirely, some aren’t even allowed to exist in my opinion. As I was talking to one of my peeps ( fangirlafyas) I had a mini-break through. And that: Don’t let your problems control you, you control your problems be showing them they aren’t in charge, all they are doing is being a nuisance to your life and they should go away and never bother you again.
NEVER FORGET OTHERS BECAUSE THEY AREN’T LIKE THE CROWD YOU HANG WITH. If you are friends with some one that is shy and introverted and you hang with the cool people that are jocks and shit, DON’T FORGET THAT SHY FRIEND. DON’T FORGRT THAT FRIEND YOU BROUGHT TO THE PARTY THAT KNOWS NOBODY THERE. DON’T FORGET THE FRIEND THAT IS THE INTROVERT THAT DECIDED TO BE OUT GOING AND INTERACT WITH PEOPLE FOR ONCE. DON’T STOP TALKING TO THEM BECAUSE THE JOCKS ARE WORRIED ABOUT THEIR IMAGE. THEY ARE YOUR FRIEND, BE WITH THEM UNTIL THEY FEEL WELCOME BY OTHERS. BE WITH THEM BECAUSE THEY ARE SEEN AS THE “WEIRD PERSON” OR THE “NERD”. THEY ARE A FRIEND, SO ACT LIKE A FRIEND AND BE THEIR.
Mental disease ARE real. Many users on tumblr know this, no need to explain. My dad has gone through enough hell with his own mentality troubles. My family and the once was step-family know many things about mental diseases and how they are. My brother told me that my anxiety and all the other shit was all in my head, and was like: Oh, really? Wow? I wonder why they would be in my head? I thought my MENTAL diseases would be up my ass!!!
(he stopped talking after that)
The rest is self explanitory, but if you want it explained, ask me about it. There is no problem with the LGBTIAQ+ movement, the only thing wrong with it is the homophobic people that need to realize sin is sin, no matter what kind of sin you’ve commited, there is no level of sin. Lying is the same kind of sin as killing somebody. They are equal; much like humans regardless of skin tone, gender, sexual preference, sexuality, age, mental diseases, how much their paycheck is, size of house, body type, blood type, hair color, eye color, hair length, you name it. WE ARE ALL THE SAME
There are many thing the world views as wrong, dangerous, disgusting, fake, unreal, stupid, shitty, or sad. Some are, but others are just not even problems and need to stop before that shit gets out of hand more then it already has. Either way, some of the real problems get ignored because they are scary things to tackle of they just aren’t ready to be conquered yet. We are the Society, everyone on the planet, the world, every unborn baby and old people on the brink of death, it is societies job, to fix society. Kind of like its your job to fix yourself.
No one can every physically do something. Its your actions that make you do it.
I’m not going to check for any errors. The point has been made. It’s 4:20 (giggles) a.m. and it took me an hour to write and post this. Cut me some slack. Peace. ~VOF