diego luna films i've seen rated by his moments in them
Y Tu Mama Tambien:
He is a main character and in almost every scene. Wow. You see so much, possibly TOO much of Diego, so watch out if you're a minor or just don't like sexual scenes in films. Definite gay vibes with co-star played by childhood best friend Gael García Bernal. There's a wonderful and powerful confrontation scene between the two men around an hour in, Diego's acting is WOAH. And everyone thought he was the ugly one, we were so wrong. AND SO MUCH SPANISH. The phrase 'no mames' is uttered approximately 178 times. 9/10
Salma Hayek plays artist Frida Kahlo in this unique film. Diego plays her young lover Alex in the beginning of the movie; they have sex in a closet at some point, wild. Their relationship is cut short after a tragic bus accident which leaves Frida crippled. He brings her flowers and they break up, and Diego's role is finished. But I just had to keep watching because of how special the cinematography of this film is! The bus accident is so well directed it blew my mind. I don't know enough about Frida Kahlo to know how accurate this film was, but it was certainly a once-in-a-lifetime experience. But since this is a list about Diego, low points ought to be given. He really isn't in this movie a lot. Let's see, 2/10.
A true cinematic treasure. Also known as the worst movie you will ever see and you will love every second of it. Bad script, zero plot - but Diego does his best and fucking nails every moment in this film, carries it on his back. Apparently no one told him that he was supposed to act robotic, so everything he does is sweet and natural and he makes it look easy. All the while dancing himself into Castro-era Cuba, which he does SO well that Jonathan Jackson, who is supposed to be his romantic rival, actually seems TURNED ON whenever he sees Diego dance. Nice. Sweaty group-dance sequences, cutish one-liners. Actually makes out with dance partner Romola Garai in front of her PARENTS, after a very erotic dance routine, like how savage. 10/10
Diego plays airport employee who befriends Tom Hanks, and probably charms the pants off him, because he is wonderful in this secondary role. During the 2 hours of this film, all he wears is a jumpsuit/uniform and makes it look like a fashion statement. Has quite a lot of one-on-one scenes with The Tom Hanks himself, and is in love with Zoe Saldana, which is sweet, if not a bit generic chasing the girl type of thing. There's a scene where he absent-mindedly starts speaking Spanish to Tom Hanks who of course doesn't understand him, and Diego's very very cute about it. LO AND BEHOLD: one hour in, he changes into a suit while pouring Catherine Zeta-Jones too much wine. A breathtaking moment. 6/10
A very strange film about celebrity imitators. Diego plays a Michael Jackson impersonator in the film, his voice and looks imitating the singer and dancer. The movie introduces us to a surreal world of people living the lives of the famous people they dress up as, blurring the line between impersonating and becoming. He's rather in the center in the first and last bit of the movie, but the focus shifts in the middle with the story of "Marilyn" and "Charlie Chaplin". This film is a true risk-taker, which means it's not for the masses. Very thought-provoking though! 7/10
Diego plays Sean Penn's gay lover, and he's only in this movie for a short period of time. Kind of mentally unstable in this role, he tells Sean Penn he loves him without actually knowing what his name is. The movie deals with gay rights and is set in the 1970s, resulting in everyone having funny hair. This is an important LGBT film, but I hate Sean Penn, so there you have it. He is admittedly a skilled actor though. However, the lack of Diego in the majority of this film has to mean low points. 3/10
Rudo y Cursi:
Another Diego-Gael movie. This time, it's about football. This is an excellent and very sad film set in Mexico that discusses the world of professional football playing. Diego is very different both in looks and in character from how he is in his other films - it's like he's a different person! That says a lot about his acting skills really. This film is also in Spanish, Diego shouts a lot (and very well too) and calls everyone 'chinga' and 'güey'. 8/10
The Book of Life:
What a film! This animated feature has Diego portray main character Manolo Sanchez and makes you swoon basically. Since he's present in voice-acting only, you don't get to see his pretty face, BUT his voice is gorgeous both in speaking and in singing. A lot of songs are sung by Diego in this movie, and it's so so good. The Apology Song made me cry. Fun fact: Zoe Saldana is once again a love interest to Diego in this film, and their duet No Matter Where You Are is short but earth-shattering. 9/10
Yep, Diego plays Giacomo Casanova in this TV movie, so you get the idea. It's about Casanova starting over in Paris, but things do not go well. Diego is very charming and rather authentic as Casanova. He makes out with women and climbs on rooftops in heels. Lots of close-ups to his face, I approve. However, this film confuses me. It's set in France, yet people speak with a British accent, except for Diego of course, who speaks with a Mexican accent BOTH in English and in Italian. The latter bothered me a bit, seeing as he is supposed to be a native Italian. All that aside, his performance is overall lovely. This film also has nice cinematography and a pretty solid script. Lots and lots of Diego seducing not-so-innocent maidens. 10/10
The greatest movie you will ever see. Diego has the role he deserves as he steals all our hearts as Captain Cassian Andor. You guys know the scene he gets all wet in the rain and then loads his gun on the ship? Sign me up. Warning: you WILL cry. 100/10
Pairing: Josh Dun/Fem!Reader Words: 2000+ Warning(s): sexual harassment, some swears A/N: So here is the fic thats base on a dream. it was a lucid one, almost died having it lol (i couldnt breath) also sorry if this seems duummbb but it is based off the dream i had and dreams can be a bit wonky. Its fan fiction so yeeahh. this probably sucks since i’ve been working on it at 3 am every morning.
Plot(s): You and Damian have been trying for a while to get pregnant but with no success. But after six months you and Damian might finally be getting the answer you wanted.
Word count: 1397
Pairing(s):Older!Damian Wayne x Reader
A/N: Okay so I had this random idea at 3 a.m this morning and decided to write it. This is going to be the first part of I don’t know how many, but this is definitely not the last of this story. I really hope you all enjoy it!
You and Damian had been happily married for 4 years. So happy in fact that you and him decided that you guys were ready for kids. You had been trying for 6 months to no avail. You had lost hope and while Damian constantly spoke words of encouragement you could see that he was losing hope too with every negative pregnancy test.
You both had went to the doctor before you started trying. The doctor said that were both healthy and should have no trouble having kids, but now you couldn’t help but think there had been a mistake.
You sat quietly on the couch, in you and Damian’s living room, going through websites on your laptop that gave advice for ways to get pregnant. Damian was in the bedroom getting ready for work at the animal clinic. You guys had already prepared and eaten breakfast, so now you were just patiently waiting for him to leave so you can go to the doctors.
You were two weeks late for your period and were desperately hoping that you were pregnant. You didn’t want to tell Damian because this wouldn’t have been your first pregnancy scare and you couldn’t watch his heart break anymore if it turned out that you weren’t.
“Alright beloved I’m off to work.” He called out as he walked from the bedroom to the couch to kiss you goodbye. You put laptop down and stood up to meet him. You hugged him tightly as he kissed your forehead. When you finally released him from you tight grip you fixed his tie and gave a sweet yet quick kiss on the lips. He grabbed the rest of his things and walked out the door while saying that he loved you and should be home on time.
As soon as the door closed you went to get dressed so that you can go to the doctors. You wore a royal blue blouse with a black and white horizontal striped maxi skirt. When you were done getting ready you grabbed your bag and keys and began to make your way out of the apartment and to your obgyn’s.
You made an appointment a few days ago so you sighed in and waited for the nurse to call your name. You sat in the waiting room anxiously tapping your foot, hoping that you would hear your name any minute and thankfully you did.
“Y/N the doctor is ready for you now.” The nurse spoke. You grabbed your belongs and made your way to the nurse so he could take your vitals and guide you to your doctor’s office. You had been here many times before and could find the room simply on your own but it was procedure that he escorted you there.
When you finally made it to the opened door you were greeted by your doctor Karen Stone. She was an old friend and smiled proudly when she saw you approaching.
“ Y/N it’s so good to see you!” She says as she quickly wraps her arms around you for a friendly hug. “Hey Karen.” You reply returning the hug. She let you go and you walked into the office to take a seat as she closed the door.
“ What brings you by today?” She ask while going behind her desk to take a seat herself.
“ I was hoping that you could give me a pregnancy test”
“ Of course I can. Will Damian be attending this as well?” She asked. You nervously looked down and played with your fingers. You felt a little guilty that you didn’t tell Damian, but at the same time you felt like this was something you had to alone.
Karen knew by your silence the reason why he wasn’t there and understood. She slid over a small cup for you to pee in and you began to make your way to the bathroom. After you finished you gave the urine sample to the nurse who began running test. You made your way back to Karen’s office to wait for the results which shouldn’t take long.
You wanted nothing more than for test to come back positive and part of you had a small feeling that it would. But you couldn’t help the other part of you that felt like it would come back negative and that you would never get pregnant.
When you made your way back to her office you and returned to your seat. Karen was still there going through your chart and reading over vitals.
“How’s everything looking Doc?” You ask.
“Great your vitals are looking excellent” she replied setting down the clipboard. She got up from her seat to sit down next to you in the empty chair. She wore a look of worry on her face and you could feel your heart begin to beat faster.
“Y/N I knew it’s only been 6 months but if this test comes back negative I would like for both you and Damian to come in for more test.” You nodded slowly and looked down. She reached over to give your hand a friendly squeeze as she smiled.
You heard a knock on the door as the nurse came in with the test results. Karen quickly to retrieve them then made her way back to her seat behind her desk. She looked at the results and suddenly a huge smile appeared on her face.
“Congratulations Y/N you’re pregnant!” She says with a smile still plastered on her face. Your jaw drops and you swear everything stops moving. This is what you wanted for six months and while you wanted to just be happy you also felt extremely guilty for not telling Damian about your appointment. You smiled none the less. This was the moment you’ve been waiting for.
“Okay well now that we know you’re going to be have a little baby I would like to give you an ultrasound to see how far along you are.” She said standing up and opening the door to take you to a room for the ultrasound. You gathered you things and followed her to the room.
You saw the ultrasound machine and the screen where you would soon see the image of your very tiny fetus. Everything was starting to feel so real and you couldn’t believe it. You knew Damian would be upset that you didn’t tell him about the appointment so that he could be there with you but you were already coming up with ideas on how to make it up to him.
You lay down on the exam table as Karen sets everything up. You lift up your shirt and pull down your pants a little that way she can rub the gel on your lower abdomen. She squirted a warm gel on your tummy and began to move it around with what looked like a wand.
You look at the monitor but you’re not sure what it is your suppose to be looking for. “Okay well it looks like you’re about 4 weeks pregnant. Your baby is around the size of a poppy seed.” She spoke as she continued to move the wand around. You just sat silently taking in all the information while recovering from shock.
After the ultrasound she gave you a paper towel to wipe up the gel and began to write out a prescription of prenatal vitamins for you. You were able to leave soon after, but instead of going home you went to the grocery store and pharmacy. To make it up to Damian for not inviting him to the doctors you decided you would make him his favorite dinner as you shared the news.
The doctor also gave you the paper confirming your pregnancy for you to show to Damian. You were going to show it to him during dinner but to prevent him from finding it before you hid it in you favorite book when you made it home. Damian said he’d be home on time so you knew you had a few hours to prepare everything.
You began cooking and thinking about the reaction your husband would give you once he found out the news. You were so caught up in cooking and day dreaming that you didn’t hear someone sneak up behind until they pulled a bag over your head and started to drag you away.
Oh my goodness! You don’t even want to know how in love with this song I am right now!
Thank you to the Anon who sent me this request! I had never heard this song, never heard of Rusty, but now, after listening to the song, going over the lyrics, and watching the Youtube video, I totally want to be friends with him! How frickin’ adorable is this song?!
Here is my little story for this sweet little love song called, “How I Know” by Rusty Clanton, which you can NOW find on my Spotify playlist called I Love You Long Time right HERE!
Mwah to you, Anon!
I can tell you’re mine.
Just like a bell the lines all around your nose ring out to me when I get closer.
Here’s how I know I’m yours:
If I’m a shell I’m shore you would be the sea, always within reach to wash on over.
“Hurry! Come sit, love!” Harry hollers into the kitchen to you from the living room.
You quickly walk in, holding a large bowl of popcorn, handing a bottle of water to Harry and sitting next to him.
“I had to wee, sorry. What are we watching?” you ask, ready for your weekly movie night with the man you love.
“It’s a surprise tonight!” he says with a huge smile. “Something I picked out especially for you.”
“Hmm,” you think. “I’m guessing a rom-com,” you giggle. “No complaints, love them!”
“Yes, it is definitely a rom-com!” Harry laughs. “A rom-com like you’ve never seen, I think.”
“Excellent!” you say, setting the bowl of popcorn between the two of you, only for Harry to pick it up, scoot closely to you so that your bodies are meshed together on the sofa, and setting the bowl on his thigh.
“Ready?” he smiles.
“Ready!” you return with a smile to him, accepting the kiss he offers to your lips.
And you don’t have to speak a word to me.
I already think I know… (ooh-ooh)
As Harry pushed the play button on the remote, he watches your face to see your reaction to his choice. You look at the large screen of the tv hanging over the fireplace, and gasp happily as you see video of the two of you, playing in the snow from your last winter holiday. Living only part of the year in England, and part of the year at the other homes you shared with Harry, you had loved this holiday in particular, spending time with Harry’s family during a big snow.
“Where did you get this?” you exclaim questioningly.
“Had mum send it to me,” Harry said. “Been so fuckin’ hot here in LA lately that I thought we could use a little winter.”
Harry moved his arm behind you and pulled you against his side, kissing your cheek.
“We had loads of fun that holiday, didn’t we, love?” Harry asked, as you kept smiling at the movie. “Getting snowed-in was never so fun as it was then!”
You both laugh, watching the snowball fight you, Harry, and his family had had that day, and the snow town you built with several snow people around.
I feel it in the way you wrap around me.
I know it when you’re running down my spine.
It’s how you always let me know I still belong to you.
That’s how I know you’re mine.
You look at Harry as the movie switches to the trip you took together for a long-weekend getaway. The TV projects Harry’s own home movie he had taken from the balcony of your private beach house, the ocean in the background as he scans your bikini-clad body up and down, giggling on the film, followed by his giggling next to you.
“Harry!” you shout and laugh.
“For posterity, babe!” he laughs. “Need our children and grandchildren and great-grandchildren someday to see how beautiful you’ve always been.”
You watch as Harry’s video zooms in on your ass then moves upward to your breasts.
“Going to share this with our babies, are you?” you ask with a hiked brow.
“Well, maybe not that part,” Harry giggles, his hand moving up and down your side. “Can’t have them thinkin’ their dad and grandad is a sex-driven perv, now can I?”
“But you are a sex-driven perv,” you tease.
“Only for you, baby,” he says, a kiss planted below your ear. “Only for you.”
It’s how all your words sound right.
Every hello goodnight sings me off to sleep
and puts me on my feet when it comes morning.
And if it’s love I’m in I’d much rather sink than swim.
I’m over board. I might be far from shore but my heart’s soarin.
As you step out of the washroom after getting ready for bed, you start to walk to the bed, where you see Harry lying, recording your every move into his phone.
“Harry…” you scold, but with love. “What are you doing now?”
“You’re so beautiful, baby, and I love you so much,” he says sweetly. “Just want to keep as much of you as I can for the future. It’s why I pester the shit out of you, taking photos and videos of you all the time. Have to preserve you so I can always have something to look at when you’re not around me. Reason to sit on the sofa next to you with my arm around you, watching together, for years to come.”
You smile at him, sitting next to him, then kissing him sweetly.
“Alright then,” you say with teary eyes. “Let me have the camera a minute.”
“What? Why?” he says, not wanting to relinquish it to you.
“Because I have a moment for posterity for you,” you say. “Hand it over.”
Harry giggles as you turn the camera on him.
“So what is it then?” Harry asks, looking into the camera and making a silly face. “What’s so important that you need to get my ugly mug on video?”
“Your gorgeous mug…is going to be a daddy!” you say excitedly, as you watch his face go from possible misunderstanding, to confusion, then from shock to excitement, and finally tears.
“I’m gonna…be a dad?” he asks you, his hands reaching for you as the camera view becomes a crazy mess of ceiling, picture on the wall, and Harry’s hair, as he holds you tightly. “Oh my god! I’m goin’ to be a daddy! Oh, I love you, baby! Thank you!”
Harry kisses you, laying you on your back with him over you, then grabs the phone from your hand, focusing it on him kissing you, then the two of you looking into the camera as he speaks.
“And this, my beautiful babies and grandbabies, is where you all started.”
No you don’t have to speak a word to me
I already think I know… (ooh-ooh)
I feel it in the way you wrap around me.
I know it when you’re running down my spine.
It’s how you always let me know I still belong to you.
Fiction of the Iron Dragon (or, Secret Art of the Iron Dragon)
Levy was undeniably excited about her creative writing course. It was an invitation-only class, and invitations were only issued to students in their second or third year at Magnolia University who had demonstrated a talent for and an interest in writing during a prior year. Levy had always been a shoo-in, along with her best friend Lucy, but she hadn’t fully believed she’d get in until the letter from the Chair of the English Department had arrived in the mail over the summer.
Levy and Lucy arrived early for the class and grabbed good spots by the windows not too far from the front. There was only one other student in the room, a guy a little older than they were who looked like he’d probably just stayed after an earlier class. They assumed that he would be heading out as soon as more of their own classmates arrived. Nothing about his multiple piercings, sleeveless navy T-shirt, or elaborate black Mohawk suggested an honours English student. He eyed them as they came in, but then went back to his book.
The rest of the students arrived in twos and threes, and Lucy eventually noticed that she’d lost her friend’s attention. Levy kept looking back at Black Mohawk.
“What’s up, Levy? I’m sure he’ll figure it out once the class starts. Why do you keep staring at him?”
“I’m not staring,” Levy replied, frowning. “It’s more that… I recognize him now, and I feel kind of weird that I didn’t say hi when we walked in.”
“Um, he kind of stands out—how come you only remember him now?”
i’m for my girls into cat sweaters and flower crowns and i’m for my girls who do drugs and want stick and poke tattoos and i’m for my girls who excel in academic settings and i’m for my girls who want to quit school and travel and i’m for my girls who want to date and i’m for my girls who want to have wild sex lives and i’m for my girls who want to wait till marriage or not have sex at all and i’m here for every single girl in between and every single girl who is none of these things or all of these things. i’m just here for my girls bruh
I want to be the best version of my self. My life isn’t a competition where I’m constantly measuring how I stand against other people.
Affirmation of the day.
Be good with who you are and when you are going. It’s ok to give other people love when they are doing well. Just because someone else is doing well in your field doesn’t mean that you can’t excel. Don’t set any limits for yourself and achieve more than you ever thought you could.
“Now, let us move on to the general strike. As far as I am concerned, I accept the principle and promote it as much as I can, and have done so for several years. The general strike has always struck me as an excellent means to set off the social revolution. However, let us take care to avoid falling under the dangerous illusion that the general strike can make the revolution superfluous. We are expected to believe that by suddenly halting production the workers will starve the bourgeoisie into submission within a few days. Personally speaking, I can think of nothing more absurd. The first to starve to death during a general strike will not be the bourgeoisie who have all the accumulated produce at their disposal, but the workers, who only have their labour to live on.” - Errico Malatesta
Setting 1: You have been accepted to study a year abroad at Cambridge - an opportunity to turn your studies in Law into a diamond and to learn more about Political Science (the result of hard work and persistence).
Setting 2: Your choice lays on Human Rights (focusing on women’s right). You’re setting the bar high. You are the standard of excellence - you establish the goals.
Setting 3: Your facial expression remains impassive as you watch your opponent failing right in front of you. You’ve set him up - you’ve conducted him to that exactly point, and you have given the fatal stab. You taste the blood as you look at the judge. You know that he knows it - that you play with power between your fingers, that you are the cause of everything, that no one could match you.
Distress Tolerance: Big List of Ideas and Examples for Practicing the Self-Soothe Skill
When using the Distress Tolerance Skill of Self-Soothe, the goal is to create small, physically pleasurable or calming or stimulating experiences for your senses. Here is a substantial list of some examples of pleasurable or engaging experiences for each sense:
a lot of your breakdowns happen at night, go outside and look at the
stars. Sometimes it’s nice to be accompanied by a stargazing app on your
phone that helps you identify constellations and other astral
features. This is a personal favourite of mine because you also get the
benefit of fresh air.
Look at pictures you like in a book of
illustrations, a book of artwork by favourite artists, look at the
complex designs of adult colouring books (and colour them!)
and compile a tag on your tumblr or a board on pinterest of calming or
visually stimulating images/gifs (or a photo album of good memories or
images that remind you of good moments)
Go to a craft store and
buy one (or many!) beautiful silk flower(s), or, go to a florist/flower
shop/grocery store and buy an interesting live flower or plant.
Terrariums make particularly calming things to look at.
Light a candle and watch the flame.
up a glitter jar or snowglobe and watch the glitter or snow swirl and
settle (there are many different “recipes” for making a glitter jar so
if you’re interested in learning how, just google it and try different
methods until you get a result you’re happy with. You can also probably
buy one on Etsy if you don’t want to do the DIY thing).
Walk in a pretty part of town or a nice park. Look closely at any interesting architecture or beautiful nature.
Watch a sunrise or sunset.
Watch the clouds, notice shapes they form that may look like animals or objects.
Watch a fireworks display.
During holiday seasons like Halloween or Christmas, drive or walk around your area to look at the decoration displays. Look up images or videos of impressive and ambitious and extravagant Christmas light displays.
Go to a nature park, bird or butterfly sanctuary and watch the creatures.
Watch dance performances on YouTube (there are SO MANY good ones in all different styles, solo or with a partner or in a group, dance battles, street performances or TV performances like So You Think You Can Dance… you can find incredibly amazing things)
Watch YouTube videos of martial arts demonstrations (Tai Chi is soothing to watch, Capoeira is really visually interesting, HEMA/WMA rapier or longsword or sidesword drills can also be rhythmic and the repetition can be enjoyable to watch) or some practice or tournament sparring (NO MMA bloodsport, that’s not soothing!)
Watch YouTube videos and clips of gymnastics competitions, or figure-skating performances/competitions.
Watch sports highlight reels on YouTube or on a sports TV channel like SportsNet, TSN, ESPN, etc.
YouTube tutorials: make-up tutorials or hair tutorials, cosplay
tutorials, drawing or painting tutorials (or speedpaints or timelapses),
Watch cute animal videos or gifs (another personal favourite of mine).
Read comics, graphic novels, or manga.
Watch a visually intricate, interesting, calming, or stimulating TV show or movie. Animated movies or shows are particularly nice, like Miyazaki films or some Dreamworks films or the Legend of Korra series are some examples that come to mind. Movies with a lot of well-done visual effects are also nice, or movies and TV shows that have excellent costume or set design, like the Lord of the Rings trilogy or period movies/shows. If you download movies and TV shows, perhaps keep a special folder of go-to calming or visually engaging shows that appeal to your sense of vision.
Watch nature or science documentaries like shows on the National Geographic Channel (or website), the Discovery Channel, Animal Planet, the BBC, etc. My top recommendations are anything narrated by David Attenborough, and Cosmos narrated by Neil deGrasse Tyson.
Watch educational YouTube channels (personal favourite is TheBrainScoop, a natural history channel out of the Field Museum in Chicago). I know some people really dislike the vlogbrothers, but SciShow and the various field-specific incarnations of SciShow are also interesting to watch and are visually engaging because of high production quality.
Put up Christmas lights in your room but keep them there all year around and turn them on/plug them in when you want something pretty to look at.
Decorate an area of your room, or make one area of your room pleasant to look at.
Re-read letters or kind messages people have sent you over the years. If they’re online or on your phone, take screenshots of them and keep them in a folder so that you can look through them when you’re feeling down about yourself. For especially special ones, print a few out and either pin/tape them up on your wall where you can see them regularly, or fold them up and put them in your wallet or your bag (purse, backpack, briefcase, etc) so you can read them anywhere you go if you need to. (You can also put these in your Self-Soothe Kit)
Listen to soothing, invigorating, or empowering music. Create specific playlists for this purpose. Don’t include music that makes you feel negative emotions or brings up negative memories.
Listen to ambient noise makers, especially ones that are customizable. If you’re having too much of a breakdown to play with customizable ambient noise makers, you can always find 3-10 hour loops of ambient noise videos on YouTube.
Pay attention to the sounds of nature (waves, birds, rainfall, leaves rustling, etc).
Pay attention to the sounds of the city (traffic, human chatter, street performers, the sound of the wind whistling down streets or around buildings, etc)
Sing to your favourite songs and blast your music super loud. If you have a good sound system, lie on the floor and feel the bass.
Listen to the discography of your favourite band or musician or artist
Listen to audiobooks
Listen to lectures or podcasts (iTunesU is a great place to find free lectures of full university courses or lecture series on a particular subject. TedTalks is also a good place for this stuff.)
Listen to (and watch) educational YouTube channels (my favourite, as previously stated, is TheBrainScoop, a natural history channel out of the Field Museum in Chicago, and previously a zoological museum in Montana)
Watch/Listen to documentaries narrated by David Attenborough (his voice is incredibly soothing, seriously, if you watch the Life documentary series, watch the version he narrated, not Oprah’s version because Attenborough’s is much more soothing). The documentaries are also usually a very high quality so they’re visually soothing as well.
Listen to musical soundtracks, or watch the shows on YouTube, or watch YouTube-specific musicals like the musicals created by StarKid (Starship is particularly good).
Hum or whistle.
Call/Skype a friend or loved one to listen to their voice.
Play an instrument or learn to play an instrument (you can watch tutorials for this on YouTube too)
Make playlists for different emotions or ones that achieve different effects. One that’s relaxing, one that’s upbeat and happy and makes you want to dance, one that makes you want to rock out or pumps you up, one that’s instrumental (movie and video game soundtracks are good for this), etc.
Make playlists with certain themes, like traveling, or city life, or the sea, or songs that remind you of someone you love. Include songs that inspire you or comfort you (three of my go-to songs for that are I Stand Alone by Van Canto, Good to be Alive by Skillet, and Battle Cry by Angel Haze, for example) and songs that remind you of your goals, things you want to accomplish, things you still want to do and experience because that can really help you look past the pain of the now and look towards the possibilities of the future.
Note: when making playlists, try to only include songs you really like and would want to listen to all the way through. You don’t want to be skipping a lot of songs, or skipping any at all. The ideal is to be able to put on a playlist that is at least a couple hours long and be able to just continuously listen.
Use your favourite soap, shampoo, aftershave, cologne, lotions, body wash, shaving cream, body spray or perfume.
Light an aromatherapy candle or just a scented candle.
Make a cup of a particularly aromatic tea.
Open a container of loose tea and inhale the scent, or open up a new bag of coffee and inhale the fresh coffee.
Put lemon oil on your furniture (I’ve never done this, I dunno what it smells like, but this is listed in the Manual so obviously some people find it beneficial).
Bake something, because baking always smells good. Baking bread is really nice and could be fairly easy if you have a bread-maker.
Cook a particularly delicious smelling meal (personally I’m partial to the smell of cooking turkey bacon, but also the smell of onions being cooked always smells good to me).
Put potpourri or an aromatherapy oil in your room. You can get those air freshener/room scents that plug into the wall and put one of those in your room.
Rub an aromatherapy oil on the insides of your wrists (I do this and have a few different scents and I keep some in my self-soothe kit)
Wear a scent locket necklace (a necklace with a locket that has a piece of fabric inside that you dip in a scented oil so the locket continuously gives off this scent).
Boil cinnamon or heat up vanilla.
Go to a flower shop and literally smell the roses! (or your favourite flower or herb or choice)
Keep dried herbs in your house, ones you particularly like
Buy a small spice kit or a travel spice kit and carefully smell them (don’t inhale too deeply because otherwise you might get powder up your nose!)
Open a window, walk outside, get some fresh air.
Go to a wooded area or a park or a garden and mindfully breathe in the fresh smells of nature.
Buy a special soap or face wash or body lotion or body spray just to be used for the times when you need to self-soothe, as a treat for yourself.
Eat some of your favourite foods.
Drink your favourite soothing drink, such as a special tea, a particularly rich or flavoured hot chocolate, a fancy latte, or a smoothie (JugoJuice is particularly good on the soothing smoothie front).
Order a very special and extravagant drink at Starbucks or your coffeeshop of choice. Make sure it’s an order that you only get on rare occasions so that it remains special. As for extra whipped cream, be completely indulgent. This is one of my favourite things to do. Make a list of special drinks and flavour combinations that you enjoy that are not on the standard menu, keep the list in your wallet or your bag so that you’ll be able to remember a more complicated order at times when your memory might be failing you due to too much distress.
Go to a fancy bakery (or the bakery section in your local grocery store) and get a slice of cake, or treat yourself to a similarly special dessert.
Go out for dinner to a place you enjoy, either a place that’s a special treat for you, or a place that is comforting and familiar.
Eat a food or candy that is strongly associated with your childhood (like fruit rollups or dunk-a-roos or gummy bears, or cereal like Froot Loops or Lucky Charms or Cinnamon Toast Crunch, for me).
Go to your local convenience store and indulge yourself with a chocolate bar.
Sample flavours of ice cream at an ice cream parlour.
Buy a special ice cream cone with more than one scoop or flavour, with toppings like sprinkles or crushed nuts or chocolate drizzle. Give yourself permission to have something special and out-of-the-ordinary. Alternatively, go to the grocery store’s ice cream or frozen yogurt section and buy yourself a tub or box of ice cream in your favourite flavour. Try to get small containers so you don’t end up eating too much and feeling sick afterwards. That would be counterproductive.
Suck on a piece of hard candy.
Eat a very chewy candy that takes a long time to eat.
Chew your favourite flavour of gum. Go out and get a special flavour of bubblegum and blow bubbles. The repetitive motion of chewing gum is also soothing and can prevent you from clenching your teeth and jaw.
Brush your teeth and use mouthwash.
Drink a carbonated, fizzy drink or put fizzy tablets in your drink and notice the sensation of the bubbles in your mouth.
Eat slowly, to savour and enjoy what you’re eating. Try to eat Mindfully, using the skills Observe, Describe, Participate, and One-Mindful. Make sure you’re being Non-Judgmental of yourself for eating a treat or something special. If eating can be triggering for you or affect your self-esteem or will make you feel guilty, then it would be best to not choose this sense to stimulate.
Take a long hot bath or shower, or sit in a hot tub.
Pet your dog or cat. Cuddle with them close, feel their heartbeat, feel their chest expand as they breathe. Pay attention to the texture of their fur or coat and how it feels on your hands.
Have someone give you a massage or a back rub.
Massage your own hands and feet, shoulders and calves, neck and forehead/temples.
Rub a lotion over your entire body, feel how soft your skin is.
Put a cold compress or damp cloth on your forehead or the back of your neck.
Wash your face, either just with water or with a special facial scrub.
Follow all the steps of a skincare routine.
Brush your teeth, paying attention to your gums, the insides of your cheeks, and your tongue. It can be surprisingly soothing if you do it methodically and take your time and do it Mindfully.
Sink into a comfortable chair in your home.
Lay down, comfortably in bed, surrounded by pillows (maybe make a pillow fort?), and pull the covers up to your chin or over your head, and tuck yourself in or have someone else tuck you in.
Put fresh, clean sheets on your bed. Alternatively, buy special, high-thread count sheets for you to put on your bed on special occasions like when you need to self-soothe and feel comforted.
If you’re going to be out in public and may need to self-soothe, wear an article of clothing that is particularly soft or silky or pleasant to touch (like a scarf, for example), or wear a really soft or crisp shirt, a snuggly hoodie, a very smooth blazer of fine wool, a satiny or silky blouse or jacket, or a garment that has an interesting texture that you can run your hands over (I’m a huge fan of textured fabrics so most of my clothes are made of fabrics with interesting textures precisely for this purpose).
NOTE: Make sure every part of your outfit is comfortable and not itchy or constricting, make sure the tags on the garments don’t irritate you and that the seams are also not irritating or abrasive.
If you’re at home, put on your comfiest, softest pajamas or fuzzy socks or fuzzy/cushioned slippers.
Take a drive with the car windows rolled down (or, if in a convertible, with the top down), and feel the wind blow through your hair and the feel of the wind on your skin. This is another personal favourite of mine.
Run your hand along smooth wood or leather, or feel the details of a wood or leather object that has been carved or embossed.
Run your hand over a worry stone.
Grip a stress ball/toy.
Play with a fidget toy (like a spinner ring) or a stim toy.
If you’re a crystal person, hold a crystal in your hands and feel the energy within it, along with its smoothness and sharpness.
Hug someone. Feel that physical closeness, notice and feel their heartbeat and the rise and fall of their chest while you’re hugging them.
Cuddle with someone.
Cuddle a stuffed animal, especially a particularly comforting one from your childhood.
Hold someone’s hand. Notice the feel of their skin, the texture, the temperature, how you’re holding hands (are your fingers interlaced? If they are, how so? Etc)
This one is kinda weird, but put liquid glue on your hand, let it dry, and then peel it off. It’s an interesting sensation.
I don’t know if this counts as touch, but paint your nails. Do your makeup. Style your hair. Experiment with your makeup and your hair, do something different or wacky or straight up wild, for the tactile experience of working with your hair and the make up.
Pluck your eyebrows. Some people may not find this pleasant or soothing, but I do. Maybe I’m just weird.
Go for a run and concentrate on the feeling of your feet connecting to the pavement or the trail or the treadmill, feel the sweat accumulate on your body, if running outside feel the wind in your hair and on your face.
Go for a swim, feel the water on your skin as you move through it.
There are other senses like your sense of pressure.
Using pressure like a weighted blanket or a heavy quilt of comforter
laid over your body can be a very pleasant and calming sensation and is
commonly used by people who experience sensory overload, such as
Yet another sense is our perception of temperature.
Here you could basically use the T in the TIP skill, or a milder form
of the T skill which could be putting a cool, damp cloth on your
forehead or the back of your neck. You could also take a warm bath or
sit in a hot-tub.
While there are many more, the last sense I’ll mention is our sense of motion.
It is soothed by repetitive motions, like tapping fingers or feet,
bouncing your knee, or sitting in a rocking chair. I personally find
rocking chairs to be especially soothing.
This list is far from exhaustive, so you might come up with something that isn’t on this list that really works for you.
Fic: Bleeding Love (Legends of Tomorrow; Rip/Sara)
Fandom: Legends of
Pairing: Rip Hunter/Sara
Lance (Time Canary)
Summary: Or five times
Sara gets hurt and Rip fusses and freaks the hell out, and the one time Sara
returns the favour …
Author’s Note: So this is the
result of all those excellent time canary gif sets (especially the one of Rip
being repeatedly punched) and the wonderful discussion that goes on in the tags
and also @teruel-a-witch, and just the time canary fandom in general. You’re all
awesome. Hope you like this :-)
(Although, in all honesty, when asked about it later,
he’ll say it started with a finger squeezing around a trigger, painting the ice
She’s leafing through the stack of papers Nate had
earlier dumped on the office desk, when her finger slices across a surprisingly
sharp edge. The hiss of pain is instant.
“Damn it,” she mutters, lifting her finger on
instinct to her mouth, and sucking on the tiny, inconvenient wound.
The concern is palpable. She can hear it in his
voice, can feel it in the air around her, feel it in the sudden burn of his
eyes trained on her back.
She turns on the spot ready to wave it away, but
finds Rip already edging around the centre table, abandoning his perusal of
their most recent mission specs and standing less than a foot away. It’s not
his closeness that bemuses her, but the expression on his face.
“I’m fine,” she’s quick to reassure, waving her
finger around, “Just a stupid papercut.”
This episode reminded me a lot of the time before Dig and Lyla were remarried. There’s definite and purposeful parallelism to Olicity, so let’s delve into the story. And for the record, I understand this episode is supposed to Team Arrow (Oliver) v. Helix (Felicity). However, I am always Team Olicity. Therefore, I’m going to play devil’s advocate because Oliver and Felicity are both right and wrong in different aspects of this argument.
Before I get an outcry of “Oliver’s a dick. Felicity did this, that, and the third.” Unpopular opinion: I want to see both sides.
Oliver and Felicity have the exact same objective – finding Prometheus and taking him down permanently. But their methods are extremely different. This time Felicity is the one, who is willing to go to whatever lengths necessary to accomplish a goal.
In essence, I believe Oliver and Felicity are on the same page with something else. The two of them are attempting to save the others’ soul. Felicity’s way of doing so is essentially demonstrated by her willingness to go out into the field and carry Oliver’s burdens. Does it get things done? Absolutely, yes. However, is it morally the right choice for her personally? That’s where the situation gets gray.
On the other hand, we have Oliver’s perspective not just by the fact that he disagrees, he wants to protect her.
Felicity is right in not needing anyone else’s protection, but wrong because she’s blind sighted by Helix’s shady intentions under false pretenses of “a good cause.”
Oliver’s intentions are pure in wanting to protect Felicity, but wrong by not backing her play. He never wants her to become like him at all.