a few hours ago there was an explosion in East Jakarta, Indonesia. police has stated that it was a suicide bombing. my thoughts and prayers go out to everyone affected by this incident. please stay safe everyone.
So my boyfriend came out as trans last night and I realized something… back when we first started dating we identified as lesbians, then I came out as trans and consequently realized I’m bisexual, and now I’m in a gay relationship. So what I’m trying to say is that I have actually been LGBT as a singular person. Every single acronym. I have ascended and reached gay nirvana
Because I’m loving the positivity going around Tumblr right now, I want my friends and followers to know that I’m always here for you. If you’re not where you want to be in life right now, stay strong. You can do it. I know you can. Be the reason someone feels loved today. We live in a time where people are so focused on themselves, we forget that there are others around us that need help, too. It’s important to look out for yourself, but also keep in mind that an act of kindness, even a small one, can go a long way. If nobody has told you today, please know that you are loved.
PAIRING: Harry/Y/N RATING: R WORD COUNT: 2900+ REQUESTED: nope !
hello! this is just a quick one shot that i churned out bc i loved the concept and i was rly motivated! i hope u enjoy it! if u do, feedback is greatly appreciated (it rly motivates me) and here’s my masterlist if u want more lol :-)
that ‘reblog if you’re an ace-positive exclusionist who supports aces but just doesn’t think they’re lgbt!!’ post is really fucking cute because like.
at least 8-10 ish people with ‘aphobe’ or 'aphobic’ in their url (as in, 'person who hates ace people’) have reblogged it and claimed to be 'ace positive’.
NUMEROUS people who i’ve seen posting hate, discourse, or triggering messages in the 'ace positivity’ tag (a non discourse tag that’s literally just there to make ace people feel good about themselves) have reblogged it and claimed to be 'ace positive’.
dogsanddiscourse, aka the person who made the 'hurting an ace’s feelings is so easy it’s hilarious’ post, has reblogged it and claimed to be 'ace positive’.
this is why performative activism is useless. just saying 'oh but i support you!! you’re all valid you’re just not lgbt uwu uwu!!’ means absolutely nothing when your day-to-day actions are directly dedicated to making ace people (including lgbt ace people) as miserable as possible. don’t claim to be 'ace positive’ if you actively dedicate yourself to hurting ace people for kicks.