ever the survivor

“hmm… doesn’t look good, boss. I think we’re going to have to amputate”

“it’s a head wound, Deacon…”

“Yeah, definitely amputation.”

Thanks Dr. Deacon but I think I’ll get a second opinion.

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“We’re gonna escape from this world!”

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On an unrelated note, the latest food supplement was discontinued

let’s obliterate all the common misconceptions about abuse, shall we?
  • “abusers intend to hurt the people they abuse”
    • this is FALSE. it’s still abuse even if they didn’t mean to.
  • “abuse is only physical or sexual”
    • this is FALSE. emotional abuse is just as valid/scarring as physical and sexual abuse.
  • “abuse has to happen multiple times to be abuse”
    • this is FALSE. abuse is abuse no matter how many times. this goes for all types of abuse.
  • “abuse survivors go on to abuse their children/SO’s”
    • this is FALSE. if we educate survivors about their experiences and a) help them process these experiences and b) teach them not to repeat these behaviors, then we can break the cycle of abuse inter-generationally.
  • “x group can’t abuse y group”
    • i.e. siblings can’t abuse their siblings, teachers can’t abuse their students, children can’t abuse other children, LGBTQIA+ relationships can’t be abusive, etc.
    • this is FALSE. abuse is unfortunately prevalent among all groups across the world.
  • “they probably deserved it”
    • this is FALSE. no abuse survivor ever deserves to be abused. EVER. yes, that means you too.
  • “there is a set range of behaviors that is abusive, and everything else is not abusive”
    • this is FALSE. if you believe you were abused, then you were abused. abuse is all about perception. if you didn’t like how you were being treated, and the abuser didn’t stop, it was abuse.
  • “you can tell someone is an abuser/abuse survivor by looking at them”
    • this is FALSE. anyone, and i mean ANYONE, can be an abuser/ abuse survivor. abusers are often the ones society likes the most. statistically speaking, you probably know other survivors, and unfortunately, other abusers (besides your own)

feel free to add your own and i’ll rb!

if you want to protect children in fandom, do you know what’s a good thing to fight for?

better tagging practices on works, more nuanced critiques of works that don’t involve embarrassing yourself by reporting it to ao3 and then whining when they don’t change their entire goal as a company to cater to you, better education for newer fans of filtering and curating their own fandom experiences and keeping themselves safe, a general move for all of fandom away from websites like tumblr or twitter where curating one’s own experience is made difficult or impossible by the format of the website itself

do you know what’s not a good thing to fight for?

a theoretical ~fandom paradise~ where the only ships you can find content for are good ships and all survivors cope with “healthy” methods that are Anti-Approved, and where no one who isn’t a survivor ever even Thinks about a bad ship, because just thinking about it Will turn you into a bad person if you aren’t a survivor, and where all dark content is completely banned because it’s dangerous

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Sansa is a woman strong as steel now. The abuse and traumatic events she experienced, begining when she was barely a woman, really more of a innocent girl, it did not break her completely. She learned quickly and developed a great tenacity to hold on to hope until there was a opportunity to escape to her freedom, because a door to escape always appeared eventually. She is a SURVIVOR, she let go of her fairytale dreams of youth and learned to be pragmatic and wise beyond her years. Yet, her torturous abuse at the hands of many did not break her soul. Beating in her Stark heart is the loving strength, kind, courageous and empathic spirit of her mother, father, her brothers and sister and all the noble ancestors who were beloved kings and queens. She would make a noble queen of the north, if not further flung. Personally, I know many survivors of abuse (physical, sexual, psychological) and Sansa’s journey resonates strongly with the stories of these others survivors who have courageously survived, healed and gone on to create love and peace in their lives and do good and great things.

Windblade (+ co) supporting, helping Starscream with his abuse/trauma/others problems:

Originally posted by yourreactiongifs

Windblade infantilizing Starscream as “poor broken bird who needs to be fixed”

Three parts of a whole - Batman x Reader x Superman (NSFW)

Summary : The Batman, Superman and You are in a polyamory relationship, and it couldn’t be better. Well…Maybe it could.

I wrote this in twenty five minutes, and FUCK it’s a long story…Anyway, hope you’ll like it, I’m going to hide in a cave now :s :

WARNING : THIS IS SMUT ! Like there’s cute and sweet feelings in the mix, but also sex scenes, like super graphic depiction of sex, so if you’re not comfortable with that and all that blahblahblah, this story ain’t for you ^^’. I have tons of other very SFW story, for averyone to read, and if you wanna check those out instead, it’s right here, on My masterlist blog : https://ella-ravenwood-archives.tumblr.com.

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“What’s normal to the spider is chaos to the fly” was a line in one of your favorite TV show, The Addams Family.

And oh it kinda ruled your entire life !

You knew ever since you were three, and attending your first day of school, when you realized not everyone had two dads (some had what they called “moms” !) that what people called “normal”, would never fit you.

And oh as you grow up that fact only became more and more obvious.

It didn’t help either, that so many people would point out your differences constantly, like your two gay dads, your little birthmark that went from your forehead and over your eyes, your obsession with some unconventional things, the fact that you were a “nerd” etc etc…Oh everyone always made so many comments about how weird and different you were !

Everyone…but them. They never judge. Hell, they even understood. Because they weren’t “normal” either.

Come to think of it, it was probably what made you fall for them. Fall for them, hard. You smile at the memory of when you met them when a sound brings you back to reality. A rather obscene sound really…

Right. This is what sprout your mind thinking about how you weren’t “normal” compare to most people. What was happening right now.

You smile at the source of the sound, shaking your head slightly, and kiss it on the lips. Kiss him.

Clark Kent aka Superman, one of the love of your life, with whom you were talking about the Batman’s “O” face. Totally normal right ?”

Your kiss unfocused him from imitating Bruce’s orgasm face (and sound) and he tries to catch your mouth back with his, his tongue darting out of his lips, but you escape his grasp, crawling to the other side of the couch.

He pouts like a child at the loss of your warmth..it was so comfortable and cosy, to have you snuggled against him !

You wink at him and he melts a bit, but before he can chase after you or anything of the like, you say :

-I’m sorry Clark, but his “o” face isn’t quite like that. It’s more like…

You scrunch up your nose a little bit and clench your jaw tight…before rolling your eyes to the back of your skull, scrunching up your nose even more, and opening your mouth to let out a guttural and very unlady like growl of pleasure.

Clark was intently looking at you, from his side of the couch, and, clearly, was on the verge of bursting into tears of laughter.

-Hahahahaha yes ! Yes that’s it ! Even the little sexy groan !

You both start to laugh and imitate the mighty Batman’s face when he has an orgasm and…you don’t really know why it’s so funny really. Maybe it’s the fact that the two of you know him in another light than his usually so stoic and emotionless self ? You don’t really know…but it’s damn hilarious ! (And a bit sexy).

Clark high fives you after your amazing and so truthful to the original performance, and…it’s like you both can’t help it. As if all it takes is a single touch of each others’ skin and…

The high five never really stops, as Clark tangles his fingers with yours and pulls you on top of him.

Your lips connect instantly, as his free hand goes to settle on the small of your back and yours go flying around his shoulders. As often between the two of you, it turns heated, as his tongue brush your lips and you grant him access to your mouth.

The hand that’s on the small of your back creep under your shirt and slowly removes it, as you unbutto…

-I know it has been two months since you two last saw each others, but you could have waited for me…

You tear yourself off of Clark and turn your head to the side to see the other love of your life…Bruce Wayne, aka Batman.

There was a reason, you and Clark knew his “o” face so well.

And that reason was another proof your life wasn’t situated anywhere on the “normal” spectrum.

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