even if its a weird one haha

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The Revelation™

No offense but I really don’t think it’s anyone else’s job to dictate whether or not you forgive your abusers. “but it’s healthy!” “you could feel so free!”. You don’t know what that person went through, nobody’s trauma is the same as another’s. Some people might live their lives completely full of spite and anger toward their abusers, and some might have the resources and state-of-mind to forgive them. Good for them. If it will help a situation, if it will help them cope, then good on them. But the moment those people start telling others to do it too, to “suck it up, because some things are difficult but you just gotta to do them!!”, that’s a problem. Whether it’s a safety issue, whether it’s a personal one or something else, nobody should try and force a trauma survivor to forgive anyone. At the end of the day, they know themselves better than anyone, and they know what’s best for them. If they feel physically unsafe doing so, or even straight up don’t want to, then it is not your place to tell them that they should. It’s just not. I really don’t understand why that’s such a difficult concept to grasp. 

anonymous asked:

I've been here for quite a while and it's no doubt ur a great writer I love ya work a lot❤️ Can I request a BTS reaction to them finding your tumblr account one day and realizing it's full of smut, reblogs, memes, etc.

My best guy friend asked me for my tumblr url since his girlfriend is always on here. haha. no. 

also turning this into them finding the smut you read on your tumblr, you know in celebration of smut saturday


Jin:

He’d find it flattering, maybe even a little weird at first. When he’d see the memes he’d laugh and when he’d see all the pictures of himself that you’ve liked or reblogged his head would get big. But when he sat the smut you liked popped up he’d read it slack jawed. “Wow Jagi, I didnt know you thought I was THIS handsome. If you wanted to have sex you could have just told me” He’d say making you panic and blush that he’d seen your privet space. 

Yoongi:

Y/n get out here RIGHT NOW!’ He’d call, smiling wildly as his eyes wondered over your computer screen. The moment he knew you were in normal talking distance he’d start to read out one of the Smuts you had reblogged causing you to race forward and slam the computer shut. ‘You sleep next to me every night, why are you reading this crap!’ He’d say, still laughing. ‘Leave me alone, I miss you sometimes and they aren’t crap.’ You’d say folding your arms. He’d playfully pinch your hips and bring you closer. ‘Lets make one of these come to life how about that?’

Namjoon:

Seeing your collection of smut you be like finding your porn stash. He’d read a bit of the things you like, smiling to himself when ever a he saw something that remind of him of something you had started to do, he’d also take notes about the things you seemed to like just by your readings. He wouldn’t bring it up till the two of were a few glasses of wine deep after dinner where he’d simply say ‘So I borrowed your computer today.’ And you’d know EXACTLY what he was talking about. 

Hoseok:

The moment he saw what it was you were reading in your free time he’d begin to scream, falling to the floor for dramatic effect, until you ran into the room and frantically started asking him if he hurt himself. He’d just point to your screen and start laughing when you rocked back and covered your eyes with your hands. He’d start teasing you then. ‘you really loooove me, you want my booooodyy, you want to kisses meeeeeee.’ 

Jimin:

Reading it himself would turn him on and he’d smile to himself when ever he got to replace ‘y/n’ with yours. He’d keep reading until you got home, now not knowing what to do with himself if he were to stop. When you got home you wouldn’t even have a chance to put your things down before he was pressing his body to yours. He wouldn’t care, he’d do you right there on the couch. When you were finished and your naked body was resting on top of his you’d turn your head, only to see the smut that he had obviously been reading. ‘Jimin, did you read smut about yourself?’ 

Taehyung:

He’d shut your computer screen as fast as he could as soon as he realized what it was he was reading. When you scolded him for being so rough with your computer, opening the top to make sure he hadn’t cracked it you’d freeze. ‘Um…’ You’d say closing your computer softer now. You two would sit there for a minute before Tae tried to stifle a giggle, which would act like a domino effect, the two of you now laughing loudly.

Jungkook:

He’d continue to scroll, a wide smile on his face that he wouldn’t try to hide when you walked into the room. When you asked him what was so funny he wouldn’t even answer, just continue to scroll till you showed up next to him. Even after you had shrieked, snatched the device from his hands and turned in away in embarrassment he’d still be starting at you with the same goofy grin. ‘I swear to god, stop looking at me like that.’ You’d say pointing a finger at him. He’d just respond by yanking the hand outstretched to him. ‘You’re alot dirtier than I thought you were.’

When Aaron Tveit tries to be a real serious rockstar and wear jeans with the knees ripped and someone in the audience yells out that they like his knees right before a serious song…

My knees are very out tonight” … “both of them, its not even one, its both knees”… “What if I had like weird knees”… “OK this is a serious song now” (And someone yells that he has beautiful knees)

And then after the song he kneels down to get his water bottle cap and he goes “Oh thats a really… thats probably a really good knee shot right there, look at that

Post heavily inspired by @lovable22 picture series of this exact moment (x)


Sorry about my brief camera fail at the end blocking the phone - using both simultaneously was a bit challenging! I did get the pic though haha

Its the middle of September who’s stoked for Halloween?! I am…. even if i cant properly celebrate it this year TvT

Dusclops one of my friends fav Pokemon and Bewear is a big fav of mine, so i was super happy to see him in that costume in the new Halloween plushies :D Now they match! So its kinda dedicated to my friend haha

anonymous asked:

but yeah, hating on mogai is mostly just respectability politics. mogai is ""weird"" and ""cringe"" haha, were not like that we ~real~ lgbt folk!111 these ~weirdos~ are the ones you should be hating!!111... its sad really, but i cant say im especially surprised... (ofc there are some valid issues w mogai, but those are never brought up by those ppl?)

Every time an lgbtqia+ person has an opinion they disagree with they start screeching about “mogai nonsense” so I’m pretty sure they don’t even know what mogai is tbh

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Movements are in the making 🙌🏿 

So life ended up giving me that push to go and do something great with myself. That push came in the form of my co-worker.

This is Nathaniel and he likes slow walks on the beach.

He basically came ‘round to tell me about this idea he had banging around his brain for a while. He wanted to start up like a youth club, get it up and running for kids so they had something to do outside of school instead of hanging around the place and getting into trouble or anything like that. Which was understandable, I remember going to one with my brother after school which was just life, it was like an escape from the fuckries going on around us ya know?

His thing was that he didn't know where to start or who to talk to first so found his way to mine to ask for an opinion. I felt semi special. We ended up spending a good few hours researching the steps to take and things we should/shouldn't be doing. I was mad excited when he said that he was serious about getting this done and would have time ago if he had the funding and motivation. I honestly thought it was good little idea he had so asked if I could hop on it. We are now business partners so to speak haha. 

So this marks the beginning of our journey? Eh I don’t know. I just hope that this whole thing works out. I feel like this could really go places…

Also slightly off topic but somebody please direct this man to a decent barber.

Weekly Spotlight #2 - @angryschnauzer

So when I had the idea for these, I had no clue it would morph into what it has, and I’m sure I still have a few surprises ahead of me. But I sincerely look forward to chatting with each nominee and getting to know them, and I hope this spreads some wonderful positivity and love!

This week I got to know the lovely Simone @angryschnauzer. She’s a lovely blogger that writes for the Marvel fandom and their respective actors. She’s a sweetie and her blog is lovely! So without further ado…

Alright, first question… name, age, and where are you from?

angryschnauzer: Simone, I’m 36 at the moment though 37 is rapidly approaching in August! I’m from a town called Redhill which is just south of London in England.

Erin: So many Brits in the first 7 weeks of interviews! I love it!

And what led you to create your blog?

Simone: A fledgling mini obsession with Tom Hiddleston that blossomed thoroughly once I signed my soul up to this website!

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the-third-guy-from-the-left  asked:

Hana! It's funny lol last night I was talking my close friend, who lives in Las Vegas, and we actually managed to pinpoint what mall Jungkook was at that day lol since I saved that photo and sent it to her, and I jokingly said, "Why does that look like the mall you and i went to back in 2014?" and she said that it's probably because it is and you can't go wrong with the Fashion (it's one of the popular malls there lol) It's so weird seeing them in the spots that I was at a couple years ago haha.

Jungkook was searching for you ;) You have a new stalker, kim ;) A very cute one. He even traveled through a 14 hours flight to find you lmao

Originally posted by sowongie

anonymous asked:

i just had the urge to tell you that I had the weirdest dream that all the boys of yuri on ice is competing for yuuri's hand by singing one direction songs and i remember Chris singing kiss you, Victor with one thing and JJ(? ikr weird lol) with what makes you beautiful and it's like a high school musical setting. yuuri gets bombarded with songs everywhere he goes and gets pulled into dances lololol sorry i just felt i need to share it 😂😂😂

Oh my God, what even xD As I read this I pictured every last part of it… Haha. Omfg.

^^I mean, I can definitely see Victor singing^^
(Victor won the competition, right? :P)
Thank you for sharing this weirdly wonderful dream! xD

anonymous asked:

Is it weird that even though i've never met you in person i really miss you? I guess i just miss sending you messages and tell you i love you. Also the fact that my love for you has grown like an exponential population graph and now it's rising towards infinity at a rapid pace. And that you calm me down idk i just really miss you. I hope one day after i reveal myself (might be sooner than we think ;) ) i won't.. miss you as much? Idk i'm making no sense haha i just love you lots -your Jiminnie

jiminieeeee ;;3;; tumblr hasn’t been fun at all lately so i haven’t been active much here, besides to post art.. reveal yourself some day and we can become chat buddies!!!!! thankyou for always being a sunshine in my ask box ❤❤

anonymous asked:

Hello! I've recently been peeping at your blog (bc EXO) and...wow! I am really amazed of your own art style. It's the art style I want to achieve in my drawings but can't seem to get it right. I'm a Fine arts student and it put my drawings to shame when I saw yours! 😳 I really admire how dainty(?) and detailed you draw. I hope you can give me tips on how to achieve that kind of style! Thank you so much! xx ✨ Ps: I'm sorry for asking anonymously I'm really shy 😅

Yay EXOOOO~! haha. Thanks. All I can say is draw lightly. Layer tones, even though the image may show lighting one way drawing it on paper exactly that way doesn’t always look good to me. The photo itself can be great, even so I change little things while keeping in mind what is/isn’t right (sometimes it’s hard). Thats all I do. “My style” I don’t think is anything that remarkable. Don’t get me wrong obviously I like drawing how I do, but its nothing special. (I kinda feel like I don’t want to get too attached or anything. kinda weird? makes no sense…sorry. I’ve mentioned before its not something that I like to put much attention to because in a sense it’s pointless to think about…for me. Just want to be clear that is my own opinion, it varies for everyone. Only because I feel that it seems too restrictive in how I want to be creative. The way that I draw now has manifested through a process that’s taken me lots of time. Time that I’ve spent practicing, researching things on my own. idk why I put all this in parenthesis lol…)
Anyway don’t put yourself down too harshly, try thinking more critically while being patient. As hard as it is ahhhhh still working on it myself. No worries on being anonymous, I understand. Good luck with your studies! :)

anonymous asked:

Hi again! I was the anon who asked about Zero is selfish. I fully agree, the double standard in vk fandom irks me. I just happened to see an old reblog where a yume stated her hate for Zero. When I saw the reblogs, many agreed with how Zero is a coward and selfish. I even remember how Zero should stop being emo because it's only one vampire who killed his family, not the whole clan.

(2/2) Sorry I continue to rant haha. You remember the scene where Zero pleaded Yuuki to stay with him in the end after Kaname is n ice block? Haters think Zero is awful and selfish for guilt tripping Yuuki and that he’s like a dog begging. I seriously believe they forget the fact that Yuuki loves Zero and that Zero is trying to save her. I find it weird that the things they hate about Zero also applies to Kaname.

“Zero should stop being emo because it’s only one vampire who killed his family, not the whole clan,” LOL yet Kaname supposedly decided to kill every pureblood because of one attacking Yuuki - not even killing her! - and that was totally cool. Again, double standards. The hate for Zero used to always confuse me, too, because I could understand preferring one over the other, or even indifference, but hate? How do you hate a character like that? One whose story we explored so much in the original series, he seemed more like a main character than our actual main character? I do think part of it is also attributed to Zero fans, because fans of a character or ship can turn you off of the character and ship very easily (as I’m sure we’ve all probably experienced).

Anyway I don’t mind the ranting! I saw a similar post last chapter in the tags about Zero guilt tripping Yuuki into holding his hands and actually lost my own chill for once, which doesn’t usually happen. It’s not that I was mad at the statement so much as I was mad at the double standards, because Kaname literally threatened suicide to make Yuuki stay. And whether or not he “meant it” (a popular counter argument to this) Yuuki thought back on his words repeatedly, because she believed that he did. Like, no honey, that is guilt tripping. Sometimes I feel like people are so offended by us making comments like that about Kaname that they deliberately try to use it to describe Zero because they know it’ll get a rise out of his fans. 

During that scene you mention, yes, Zero was desperate, but it was to save Yuuki’s life. He knew she was suicidal, Yuuki talks about how dark of a period that was in her life, and he had to watch helplessly while she lost herself to that darkness. Of course he’s going to do anything he can to try and pull her out of it. The difference between Zero’s “begging,” and Kaname’s begging is that Zero did it for Yuuki’s benefit. Kaname did it for his own. When Zero did it, Yuuki snapped out of it and moved forward toward her own happiness. When Kaname did it, Yuuki spiraled further and further into despair and lost her smile. But you could explain that until you’re blue in the face and it wouldn’t matter. 

anonymous asked:

(psst hello i love your art style but can you please draw dick with darker skin? he looked kinda whitewashed in that one pic u posted and jason looks like a lot darker than him which is weird bc dick is canonically a poc even though jason isnt? sorry if this sounded rude... good luck with this blog though!! and again, i love your art style!!!)

(( Hi there! I apologise if Dick looked whitewashed in my first post; that was never my intention! Below on the left is the original and on the right is the change I’ve made and I hope that’s better? If not, please message me again so that I can change it again!

As for Jason, canonically it’s never actually been stated what ethnicity he was (from what I’ve read), and even then I largely enjoy and encourage fandom’s interpretation of him being latino so I made him as such if you were confused about that!

Lastly, don’t worry about sounding rude! You were very polite and I greatly appreciate that you took the time to send this concern my way! 

In the future if you or anyone else have any more concerns/constructive criticism/etc for the blog, please feel free to send it! I really appreciate the help! ))

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{5.04.17} Rewriting my notes for the graphs of secant and cosecant

Aside from that, my teachers really love piling tests on the day of my final and/or AP exam. I’m not really worried about them though, and I’m grateful that I’ll learn how to balance my time for when I have a schedule full of APs!

Also OMG the year is almost over!! I can’t believe that, in three years from now, I’ll have made up my mind as to what college/university I will attend and will be finishing my final AP exams… tempus fugit, hey?

Good luck with your AP exams and finals everyone! You’ll make it through this even stronger than you were before, and we all believe in you! For any seniors out there, don’t fall to senioritis! You’re almost done and I’m sure you’ll do great in whatever college you’re going to attend. Your hard work is paying off.

littlekrus  asked:

Can I request number 38 with Eisuke please? :DDD

Ten Glasses Later     

a/n: Yippee, my first request! I’m sorry this took so long! Plus, I might have gotten a bit carried away with this… I hope you like it anyway :D!

Eisuke with #38: “You fainted…straight into my arms. You know, if you wanted my attention you didn’t have to go to such extremes.”


              After yet another successful auction, the penthouse was in a lively mood. Baba and Ota had suggested to ‘bring out the good stuff’, to which Eisuke gladly complied. The night was full of drunken debauchery as the other bidders all enjoyed their signature drink.

              All except for her, of course.

               “Hey, pretty lady. Don’t you want something to drink?” Baba winked playfully at her.

               “No, thanks, Baba,” she politely declined. “I’d rather not drink…”

               Every time a party of some sort was held at the penthouse, she wouldn’t touch any alcohol. The other bidders always wondered why (what reason was there to refuse alcohol worth more than an ordinary person’s lifetime?), but no one really questioned it. Until now.

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anonymous asked:

I'm sorry but I think the entire community is waiting for Nik and Bread. CLEARLY they were made for each other.

Haha, who sent thissss?????????

REVEAL YOURSEELLLFFFF.

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