Ok but in this deleted scene Tony literally takes out his arc reactor - the thing keeping him alive - to save a kid.
He doesn’t even tell anyone that they’re supposed to put it back in. He is literally willing to die to maybe - he’s not actually even sure this shit will work - save this kid.
I MEAN I’M???
HOW CAN PEOPLE SAY HE’S NOT SELFLESS????? HOW CAN PEOPLE SAY HE DOESN’T CARE WHEN LITERALLY ALL HE DOES IS SAVE PEOPLE AT THE COST OF HIS OWN LIFE AND HEALTH AT EVERY CHANCE HE HAS???
Edit You can see it on video here