especially when it looks like they just

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mvntmoon  asked:

I think it's good that you're "picky" when it comes to relationships, especially if you're "picky" personality wise and not just look wise. I feel like that shows you actually get to know a person before you decide to commit yourself to them.

Ahh thank you. Actually never thought of this but it’s true. I want to be with someone who I genuinely like and all.

anonymous asked:

why do people hate bisexuals so much that we can't talk about our love of boys, girls, nb?? like the post wasn't for lesbians it was clearly for people attracted to men, we are allowed to talk about that side of ourselves on our own personal blogs lmao. being attracted to multiple genders is a struggle unto itself especially when people give you shit for liking some of them!

i KNOW like I understand hetero love is amped up enough in society or whatever but talk about that on your own blogs lmao don’t hijack posts that don’t harm you like??? it was obvious from the discourse that followed that they weren’t ready for a civil conversation either they were just looking to fight and insult anyone who approached them so  ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ what can ya do

And yess I’m tired of not being able to talk about my love of boys on online spaces without getting shit from gays for not being queer enough like how hypocritical can you get to start excluding people from your community for not aligning with your illogical ideals? Oppression is not a fucking competition ffs

OKAY SPECULATION TIME
Shout out to Luce’s Instagram for this photo but this first thing that crossed my mind when I saw this photo was Support Group. Jay’s PTSD support group. Look at the way the chairs are set up. Literally in every movie or TV show we see a setup like this during support groups and I really hope it is. I’m really hoping we get a glimpse into Jay’s life in 5x01 especially with Erin gone. I want to see how he’s coping. I’m not sure if Jesse was on set today and maybe this is just false hope but I will hold onto it. And I’m hoping it’s not just the crew chilling lol. Thoughts?

Not As Clueless by A_Zap

Not As Clueless by A_Zap
Words:  1,440
Author’s Summary:  Pidge had always thought it was strange that despite being quite observant, Lance had completely missed the fact that she was a girl. However, it seems that that wasn’t really the case.
My Comments: Look, I know in the show Lance is just kind of dumb sometimes, and that’s fine, but I love fanfic scenarios where he had some other reason for doing some of the ridiculous stuff he does. Especially when he’s actually trying to be kind, like in this fic. I love it when Lance tries to be kind to Pidge, even when she doesn’t realize that he is.

anonymous asked:

gotta say i find it a bit annoying when u talk about how ugly you are when you're not, you're pretty and you have a boyfriend and stuff, some people have no body fancy them and it feels bad when pretty people complain about their looks

gotta say these messages are super fucking annoying because you’ve never seen me in real life no offense. it’s amazing what you can make yourself look like in selfies especially with beauty filters that completely clear your skin, thin out your nose, and just overall soften everything then add that on top of the angles i’ve been practicing since the myspace days as well as knowing what facial expressions i can and can’t make for selfies if i want anyone to believe that i’m attractive. this is why i always say if i looked like my selfies i’d be super happy with that

idk MAYBE if you saw me in real life or saw a real picture of me, maybe you’d still think i was okay or even pretty (doubtful but you never know) but until then the compliments or just comments on my appearance mean nothing. because what you know is only what i want people to see after hours and hours of taking pictures to get one or 2 that are decent enough to share anywhere

ever notice how i literally have never not once posted pictures somebody else has taken of me? there’s a reason for it

and this is my place to vent anyway so sorry if it “annoys” you but it’s literally easier to unfollow me if i’m so annoying than to send me messages that are only sent to try and make me feel even worse

anonymous asked:

Do you have any pining-related headcanons for Atomwave?

let me tell YOU something, my friend- Atomwave is 99% pining. It’s nothing BUT pining. It is a BOX OF EMOTION. 

Like first of all, Ray takes a beating for Mick in 1x05, and I’m pretty sure at that point Mick falls in love with him but will never admit it but it’s just from that moment forward, like these weird quiet looks between them especially in 1x09 and just this guilt Ray carries when Mick is Chronos, that Len also carries, but Ray is really fond of blaming himself, and it’s kind of post Chronos that Mick starts gravitating more towards Ray because Ray is willing to be so much more of like, I completely forgive you for everything, Best Friend- And it’s not that Mick hates or resents Len, but they’re having trouble looking at each other right now- And the sort of free range excessive love that Ray carries with him is something Mick really wants.

There’s a lot of sort of unconcealed desire on Ray’s part for Mick to let him in- He’s constantly inserting himself into Mick’s life and into Mick’s business and he is essentially pining to be the most important person in Mick’s life, pining for the affection that Mick does occasionally give him, but most importantly he’s constantly striving to make Mick happy on some level- But Mick never really shows if he’s happy or not, at least not in ways Ray understands (love how two autistic people can both be autistic and act in completely different ways!!!!!!) So he’s like, well I guess I’m just gonna stand here until you love me, and I’m not going to take no for an answer!!!! <3 <3 <3 

They both have this desire for more intimacy with each other but are afraid to move in- Mick because he’s so full of self loathing that he doesn’t want to tarnish ray, who he not so secretly thinks is like, a really good, true person, and ray, who doesn’t want to make mick uncomfortable but is also terrified that the closer he gets the more mick will try to push him away, or that mick will leave

anonymous asked:

Susie, I had a really bad day today. I'm 28 and I work in a place where everyone is much older than me and all they talk about is their children. Today I felt really bad because a new employee asked me in front of everyone if i have a boyfriend, children, if I live alone, if I hace siblings and if I travelled to europe. I had to say no to all her questions. My family always has financial troubles and I have to help a lot at home and can't afford moving alone yet. Second part....

Second part…. they are all much better financially than me and I just don’t have anything in common and I know they don’t like me. They looked at me with pity, especially because I’m single and don’t have kids. I feel like a failure. When they were my age they were already married with at least one child. It’s not something I particulalrly want right now, but I can’t help but feel like a loser . What can I do susie? Love ya

Flip them the bird and do your thing.  Don’t ever let someone make you feel bad for your life choices.  Let them look at you with pity.  “Yes, hey feel bad for me.  I’m not stuck in a shitty sexless marriage with kids hanging all over me because I married someone before I was ready so people wouldn’t feel bad for me because they think my life is unfulfilled without a man.”

Fuck em.

anonymous asked:

Seeing all your posts about your weight loss experience makes me think that for me the worst part was all the people who don't know what you used to look like assuming you've always looked the way you do now and "Just don't get it"

Oh yes, that can really get under your skin. I was ok with my body even at my heaviest, but I guess that being overweight most of my life kind of gave me an outlook to life I can’t really shed now, and sometimes it feels a lot like I’m actually still a fat person - just hidden in a fit suit.

It gets especially weird when people who didn’t know me before comment on other people’s weight in front of me. Because of course they wouldn’t have said anything like that in front of me some twenty kilos ago, but now they see me, assume I’ve always been fit, and feel free to talk shit about this or that fat person (who’s daring to have ice cream/breathe/exist in public) in my presence. To be fair, their mild panic at my casual “I used to be bigger than that and what I ate was no one’s business” is usually priceless. It’s also a good way to find out early on which people I really don’t need to bother with, so I’m not really complaining.

There is also a sort of lowkey cynism that shows up from time to time, I guess. A few months a go this guy approached me in a bar, bought me a drink and began chatting me up. I knew it wasn’t going to get anywhere, but I didn’t mind: he was a nice guy, he was funny, he wasn’t pushy, and we had a good time and exchanged contact details to stay in touch. But even though he was nothing but respectful, at the end of the evening there was this nagging thought in the back of my mind that said “that was fun, but he wouldn’t have engaged with you just last year and you know it”. And maybe it was unfair to him, but honestly? There is no doubt in my mind that my guess was right.

anonymous asked:

I can't help but compare myself to other black women especially black Instagram models or just well-known black woman on social media I constantly compare my body to them or their clothes their make up I'm young and I know that it's not worth it but it's hard I don't look like any of these other black girls I'm not slim thick I have unconventional curves I don't have tons of clothes I can't beat my face every day honestly I'm really trying when it comes to self-love any advice?

I know it’s hard not to compare yourself to the Instagram models and the girls with the snatched waists and the big hips/butts. We live in a patriarchal society that emphasizes cultivated competition between women. And especially in the black community where everything is a competition for a chance to be placed on the pedestal (ie. Light-skinned v. Dark-skinned, Thick vs. Thin, Thick vs. Fat, Good hair vs. Nappy Hair, Queen vs. Thot). It’s easy to get sucked into that. But the best advice I can give you is to realize that everyone has flaws. Yes those girls on Instagram are very pretty, but they are still human. And even though, their flaws may not be visible to the naked eye, it’s there.

I feel like a lot of times girls are so quick to idolize what they see. Try not to idolize what you see on social media. (Most of it is an illusion anyways) As long as you remember that they are human beings just like you, you won’t feel the need to constantly compare and contrast because the day will come where your divinity will be recognized. Are those Instagram girls beautiful? Yes! Do they get a lot of attention and male recognition? Yes! Do they have great bodies? Yes! Are they perfect? No! None of us are, and that’s what you have to remember everytime you login into Instagram or any other social media site.

You mentioned that you’re young. Focus on developing yourself on the inside before developing the outside. Great mental health, a high confidence level, and a heightened sense of self-worth will expedite your glo-up phase. Once you cleanse out your psyche and rid yourself of all self-doubt and feelings of inadequacy, I guarantee that you won’t feel the need to compare yourself to anyone else, because you’ll be right where you need to be.

And furthermore, with great mental health and confidence comes physical beauty as well. When you love yourself, and you’re content with all that you are, you’ll start to walk differently. Talk differently. Do your hair differently. Approach people differently. All of the beauty that is on the inside will make itself on the outside. Everything will fall into place.

It’s kind of like drinking water. When you don’t drink water, your skin gets very dry and you get pimples everywhere from toxins. Right? When you do drink water, your skin starts to clear up and glow. Your spirit is the same way.

For the time being, try to limit your time on Instagram and always remember that their beauty does not negate yours.

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Pre-ruffle, mid-ruffle, and post-ruffle Tenth Doctor Hair

David Tennant from the podcast commentary for Tooth and Claw (from the hair-messing-up scene above):

“I love the way Euros [Lyn, director] uses all these shots here to show the ideas all colliding at once

…and I love messing with my hair in moments like this, because it gives Steve, who does my make-up, a nightmare in continuity terms.

I like to keep him on his toes.”

David Tennant Appreciation Week 2016 (theme: smile - because it makes me)

BNHA Headcanons

Just some head canons I have

Midoriya

- Don’t challenge him to any video game. He will. Destroy. You. Does not matter if you’re his best friend. You’re going down, and he’ll smile the entire time.

- Animals?? Love him?? Koda low-key gets excited.

- Pretty good artist. He doesn’t do it a lot, but it’s one thing him and Bakouga have in common. Not that either know. (Thats a lie. Katsuki has seen him draw, but doesn’t comment. He’s a little impressed tbh.)

- As they get older, and he gets more stable with his quirk he just. Picks people up. Randomly. Todoroki in his way? Dat boi in the air and set down before he can blink. Iida ranting too early in the morning? Tossed over the shoulder and thrown on the couch with a very drawn out “shhhhhh”. Shoji cries the first time Izuku does it to him cuz he thought nobody could pick him up anymore. Piggy back rides are a regular thing by third year. Even Momo gets in on it. (They’re all low-key attracted by it, but no one saying shit.)

Bakugou

- Good artist. doodles mostly and doesn’t talk about it. 

- very big dog person. Cats are okay- he’d own one, yeah, but dogs are where its at. When he gets one later in life, people are shook by how well trained and affectionate the pupper is. 

- Tone deaf. No one takes him to karaoke after the incident.

- He likes?? Kids?? No one was expecting this when they went on a field trip to the elementary school. Kirishima kinda thinks its cuz he regrets what he did to Izuku, and is sorta trying to make up for it. 

- When no one is around, he listens to really soft music.

Todoroki

- By third year he is known as The Prankster. He’s gotten too comfortable. Everyone fears the 1st of April. Even Bakouga locks himself in his dorm. (The only ones safe are Izuku and Momo- but they help him in secret.)

- The sass master by second year. “Did you run all the way here?” “No, just briskly walking throws me into cardiac arrest.”

- Really likes small animals. Hamsters? Heck ye. Chinchilla? STOP HIS HEART WILL BURST. (But hes also scared he’ll accidentally hurt them. Sweet boi.)

- Ride or die friend. Will drive at two in the morning to wherever they hell u managed to land yourself at. Probably would help you hide a body too.

- This boy can’t figure out video games to save his life. Prefers chess and crosswords. (But will try to play for Izuku.)

- Surprisingly, he’s that one person always taking pictures. His phone is loaded with selfies of him and and his friends. The only physical evidence that he smiles. He carries a selfie stick around and no one lets him forget it (but he doesn’t understand why its so funny?? he likes taking selfies with his friends. :( )

Kirishima

- Unhealthy obsession with flower crowns. He has like 10 at his dorm that he wears around when they aren’t training. (He made them himself.)

- Rly good at comforting. best hugs. Well, after Shoji. Good listener. 11/10 would have as best friend. 

- Really likes fictional books. Especially action filled ones. Bakugou was v surprised when he was laying on his friend’s floor and looked under the bed to find. like. fifty books. They all have rlly colorful covers and outrageous plots, but Kiri will defend them to the ends of the earth.

- fav pass time is to just.. walk. Where is he? probs just walking around the school grounds. Has accidentally stayed out after curfew. Got an earful from Aizawa. 

Aizawa

- Makes some bomb ass tea. However, he prefers coffee or cocoa. Midnight regularly makes him brew the staff tea tho.

- Regularly daydreams about being a cat

- His apartment has one (1) picture hanging on the wall. Its of his cat. Mic gave it to him one year as a joke. The blond still cries a little whenever he sees it.

- he writes down and saves weird things his students say. He has enough material to make roughly 3 books filled with quotes. He’s planning to publish them when he retires.

Tokoyami

- Regularly gets attacked by birds. No. Really. It’s an actual problem. Birds are assholes.

- Both of his parents have regular human heads. His birth was very odd. And his dad couldn’t exactly accuse his mom of cheating, ya know? That would just raise so many strange questions.

- He’s not much of an animal person. The irony is not lost to him.

- Prefers hand-held games. He also joins Todo for chess usually. They are pretty evenly matched.


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MCU characters as John Mulaney quotes
  • Loki: "I’ll keep all of my emotions right here *points to chest*, and then one day I’ll die.”
  • Fury: "You have the moral backbone of a chocolate éclair."
  • Bruce Banner: “Hey, you could pour soup in my lap and I’ll probably apologize to you!”
  • Bucky Barnes: “Hi, I’m very gay, and I’d like a few dollars.”
  • Clint Barton: "It is 100% easier not to do things than to do them, and so much fun not to do them- especially when you were supposed to do them. In terms of instant relief, cancelling plans is like heroin."
  • Thor: "Anyone who has seen my dick and met my parents needs to die"
  • Tony Stark: "Thirteen year olds are the meanest people in the world. They terrify me to do this day...because 8th graders will make fun of you but in an accurate way. They will get to the thing that you don't like about you. They don't even have to look at you for long. They'll just be like 'Ha, ha, ha hey look at that high waisted man he got feminine hips.' and I'm like 'No! That's the thing I'm sensitive about!'"
  • Steve Rogers: "I don't look older, I just look worse."
  • Peter Parker: "You remember being 12, when you're like 'nobody look at me or I'll kill myself.'"
  • Natasha Romanoff: "Sometimes babies will point at me and I don't care for that shit at all."
  • Scott Lang: "You know those days where you're just like 'this might as well happen. Adult life is already so damn weird.'"
  • Rhodey: "I have a girlfriend now. Which is weird because I'm probably gay based on the way I've walked and talked for 28 years."
  • Sam Wilson: "Stick it in, I am an American!"
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Guys, I have so much to tell you about Will Roland

I may die penniless, unwed, and forgotten, but I will still die happy because I spent four hours of one long-ago summer in a song interpretation master class taught by Will Roland. 

I don’t even know where to BEGIN. To quote Rachel Bay Jones, Will…*bursts into laughter* oh my God, there’s so much Will.

Ramblings about Will Roland under the cut. This is my day with Will Roland.

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HERE TAKE THIS AS MY THANK YOU PICTURE

my casual suga post just got a bunch of notes recently and people seemed to like it so i thought id draw another one in my own outfit from a couple of days ago bc im Gay And Edgy

anonymous asked:

Can we have more cute touchy lance I love your head cannons :')

thank yoouu of course 

  • whenever keith trains too hard and is laying on the floor resting lance will lift him up and swing him over his shoulder so his arms are dangling all useless 
    • keith will murmur strange things into his back because he’s so worn out that he doesn’t even have a filter anymore
    • lance carries him back to his room except he loses his balance at the last moment and they both go sprawling onto the bed all tangled together
  • or when lance is injured during a battle keith will pick him up and swing him over his shoulder in the same way 
    • and just start running
    • while lance is shooting over keith’s shoulder and hitting every target (ngl the image looks p badass in my head) 
    • at one point he kind of like hugs keith’s back and jokes “i got your back” and keith rolls his eyes but he’s secretly relieved lance isn’t so injured that he’s stopped making stupid jokes
  • keith shoves his face in lance’s neck a lot, especially when he’s tired, and wrap his arms around him and lance just puts his hands on top of keith’s on his stomach and supports his full weight
  • keith also likes to trace lance’s arms, especially his forearms
    • he’ll connect the tiny freckles that only show when the sun is out and lance will be like “keith that tickles stoppp” 
    • i’m very in love with the hc that lance has freckles so,, after keith discovers lance’s face gets all freckly in the sun he’ll spend like thirty minutes just sitting across from him, tracing them with a light touch that makes lance shiver 
    • he pokes one on the bridge of lance’s nose, declares it his favorite, and names it after a star 
    • and all the others too 
    • and traces them when lance is asleep on his lap 
    • he loves them so much
  • lance sits on keith’s lap with his legs beside his waist and falls asleep whilst keith is sharpening his blade or something and keith will finish and just gently lean back so lance is resting on his chest and they’re very comfy 
  • hands,, in each other’s pockets 
  • keith shoves his hands in lance’s sleeves a lot to get warm or up his shirt and lance yelps and laughs but but doesn’t move away from him and instead covers them with his own hands and keith loves him so much
    they probably do dumb suggestive things like help each other stretch
  • sparring can be,, very risqué
  • they also fix each other’s clothes when they get all rumpled (from laying around on top of each other) 
  • they’re also clumsy teenagers tho so they step on each other a lot and trip over each other and bump foreheads trying to kiss for the first time (and after that too) 
  • whenever they sleep in the same bed together they’ll move around so much and somehow lance’s feet are on keith’s head and how is he bending like that what even is happening
    • lance, laying on keith: “you’re stomach is, dare i say, soft”
    • keith: is not. i have abs 
    • lance, poking the stomach: what’s this then?  
  • when lance is getting too sappy and complimenting keith nonstop keith will get too embarrassed and his heart will start beating too fast so he’ll put his hand on his mouth and lance will lick it because he is a child 
  • thank you

I would just like to emphasize - especially after watching the proshot - the fact that Anthony Rosenthal is TWELVE YEARS OLD.
He is such a phenomenal actor! His expressions were always so perfect - just the right mixture of noticeable and comical without being so “cutesy” or exaggerated. Even when he wasn’t singing and the camera would pan ban to him, he /never broke character./
And during Father to Son!!!! How was he able to look so authentic in his heartbreak and anger??? And esp during act 1, he played the wild child so well without being annoying and his voice is so soothing and he articulates his words so very well even during the fast parts where he has to almost blurr his words together.
AND DURING CANCELLING THE BAR MITZVAH AND ANOTHER MIRACLE OF JUDAISM, WHEN HE LOOKED ON THE VERGE OF TEARS HOW DOES A LITTLE KID DO THAT??? And my favorite part of him: His nervousness during Jason’s Bar Mitzvah. Like g o d, punch me in the face
Anthony played Jason’s immaturity and anger and devastation and denial /so/ well.
And he is /twelve years old./ Jesus, watching the proshot, I feel like one more Falsettos actor was robbed at the Tony’s than you think.