especially if you talk about derek that way

just-ktsy-things asked:

i love my bf & i dont wanna lose him ever. but we both got our own lives to live still. he's in college & i will be too soon. we're both pretty busy & we've got no experience regarding ldrs. but breaking up is just not an option. any help? thanks

Part 2

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All you can really do is find a way to make it work. It’s definitely a challenge being in an LDR, especially when you’re busy. When Derek & I first became an LDR, it was hard work. He was gone all the time with the military and I was working and in school. But after a little while, you get a routine down and things fall into place. The best thing you two can do is communicate with each other about what you want/need from the relationship. Talk about how often you expect to be able to visit each other, how often you’ll have skype dates, etc.

I think as long as you’re willing to put in the effort, you can always find time for someone you love. It might not be easy all the time and some periods will be rougher than others, but you can make it work!

-Aubrey