enjoy this gay thing

I hate how lgbt people can’t just exist as themselves without straight people questioning it. You’re a gay man who enjoys style and “girly” things? You’ll get straight girls wanting you to be their gay best friend and go shopping with you. Then you’ll get blamed when you get upset about being treated that way because you “shouldn’t have acted the stereotype if you didn’t want to be treated that way” even though you were just being who you are. You’re a lesbian woman who doesn’t really fall in with any of the lesbian stereotypes? You’ll get “well you don’t really look like a lesbian.” You’re a non binary person who doesn’t present totally androgynous and you lean more feminine or masculine? You’ll get people questioning your identity and telling you you’re “making it up for attention” because you don’t fall into their definition of a non binary person. Lgbt people’s lives don’t revolve around the stereotypes you’ve made for us. We’re more than that. We’re allowed to just be who we are without “perpetuating stereotypes” or “not being lgbt enough”.

9

pipe dream
noun

an unattainable or fanciful hope or scheme.

“I hate you,” Andrew said casually. He took a last long drag from his cigarette and flicked it off the roof. “You were supposed to be a side effect of the drugs.”
“I’m not a hallucination,” Neil said, nonplussed.
“You are a pipe dream,” Andrew said.”

Every morning when I wake up, the first thing I do is get a kiss from my wife, and every night before I fall asleep, the last thing I do is get a kiss from my wife.

Let me tell you, I am a lucky lady.

that post about cishet gamers and homoeroticism is supposed to be cute but like… its just straight up homophobia and there’s no sense dulling that by acting like its cute or calling it homoerotic. like the jokes about sucking dick are rooted in the idea that threats of sexual violence are acceptable and the bonding that occurs over that joke necessitates both the rejection of homosexuality and the agreement that homosexuality is ridiculous/disgusting/unacceptable

its not cute its not homoerotic its not a “secretly gay” thing that we can enjoy, its homophobia

//Why I don’t like Yaoi

Okay.

So.

Theres been an anon bumming around pestering people for yaoi and I, along with many other muns, are not amused by this.

I feel like some of you don’t know exactly why we’re upset by this so I’m just gonna have a quick little explanation of it, at least in my opinion. I will calmly express my views here. If you bother me about it again, I will be considerably less calm.

I can’t speak for the other muns, so remember that this is just me.

i mostly dislike it because I am a feminist.

First of all, this is in no way homophobia.

I am, in fact, gender fluid, asexual, and bi-romantic, so I am very much involved with the lgbtqa community, and I know that yes, there are people in said community that are bigoted, and its not cool. I am not one of these people.

The entire yaoi industry is harming to gay men for numerous reasons. These reasons include but are not limited to, misinformation and misrepresentation of gay men, objectification of gay men, extreme pedophilic undertones (the whole ‘shota/loli’ thing) and the fact that a lot of people who enjoy yaoi are homophobic.

They fawn over these things about gay men that were mostly written/drawn by heterosexual women for heterosexual women then proceed to be bigoted to actual people. Or, fawn over and objectify real gay people, which is also extremely harming, as it trivializes gay relationships and no one likes being objectified.

That’s about it on my view of the subject, though I would like to add one more thing.

You cannot be a feminist and objectify and fetishize gay relationships.

archiveofourown.org
Male Inserts for Descendants
Surely I'm not the only one that wants this
By Organization for Transformative Works

Hey guys, so like if you don’t know this already I’ve gotten into the world of male inserts because I am sad, lonely, and shameless (except not that last one I’m so ashamed)

And I was recently looking for Male Inserts for Disney’s Descendants because it’s a great movie and an awesome concept.  I could only find a handful, none of which were m/m

So now I’m doing this requests things on AO3 because, you know, yolo or something

Feel free to send a request or just have a read

Enough Already!

I’m so tired of this so called “Feminist” and “Gay elitist” in supergirl fandom. Being feminist and gay doesn’t give you the right to attack and bully other people cause they don’t have the same preference as yours. Being straight and shipping straight couples is not necessarily homophobic!
If they’re not attacking or bullying you leave them alone. And let them enjoy what they love and enjoy yours! Why it is so hard for you guys to respect others! If they’re disrespecting you then don’t respect them, but until then be quiet it’s that easy.
Don’t attack them just cause they ship a hetero white couple! Stop putting labels and stereotype on a character! If you do please learn the facts first. Mon el and kara is far from being a white hetero couple. They’re are from another planet which make them alien (illegal alien to be precise) they’re are not white or Caucasian because they’re ancestors didn’t came from Europe. Stop judging them cause of the color of their skin, you know why? Because that makes you racist and prejudice! They’re alien from another planet! You’re basically erasing their real race by saying they’re white or Caucasian!
As for their sexuality it’s not their fault that they’re hetero, as like it’s not your fault to be gay. Supergirl is canon hetero in comics and in the show. They never showed or gives hints that she could be bi or gay, it’s just your shipper goggles that makes you see that. And as far as mon el goes, so far the show is portraying him straight, but who knows cause some of the hints he’s dropping says otherwise but still the show is not giving us besides him being straight. Kara is hetero in comics and in the show, and there’s no changing that until the creator and writer said so. It’s not your call or right to push your belief cause you didn’t create supergirl. You’re just an audience you cannot demand to change a character because it doesn’t suits you.
This show is the most diverse show I’ve ever watch! Why are you still can’t see that. Why can’t you celebrate it! we have two alien lovers whose trying to fit in a new planet, gay couples showing us what it’s like to be gay and be in a healthy relationship, and a possible interracial human (Winn). Supergirl is a show where you can see they celebrate different form of love. But still it’s not enough for you guys! I don’t get it at all?
Stop calling yourself feminist if you hate seeing or reading hetero couple. You’re an embarrassment. Feminist stand for equality and inclusivity, and you are neither that, if you hate straight character. Stop throwing hate and bullying people for the sake of feminism, cause that not what feminism is about.
Don’t ruin this show cause you’re blinded with your hate.
Try to enjoy the little things! My god gays and lesbians are so blessed being shown in the media right now! They’re being portrayed. Not all LGBTQ has been portrayed yet in tv cause the people is not yet ready! Damn I haven’t even seen a lot of show about trans people. The only one I know is OITNB, and that’s it! I don’t see a lot of trans in the media!. Do you know how I feel about that being trans? No you don’t! Trans people were never portray perfectly by the media! Except OITNB but still she’s a black trans woman who is in jail. I’ve never seen trans character being healthy or portrayed in good light. They’re always portrayed as sex worker drug addict or a pariah in the community. But do I bitch about that? No because I’m trying to enjoy what gay and lesbians are doing in the media right now. It’s giving me hope that one day it will be trans people next to be portrayed in beautiful spotlight.
So enough with the hate enjoy supergirl for what it is. It’s not perfect but damn they’re giving us all the inclusivity and equality we are all craving for.
Stop calling people homophobes and racist just cause they ship karamel. Not all karamel shippers are straight and hetero. Some karamel shippers are member of lgbtq so sit your ass down and chill. I am a karamel shipper and I’m an lgb"T"q member. Emphasis on T just in case you still don’t get it, TRANS WOMAN OF COLOR (Chinese/Filipino/Spaniard).

Originally posted by danks-gif

archiveofourown.org
Four Banquets (And What Comes After) - damnslippyplanet - Yuri!!! on Ice (Anime) [Archive of Our Own]
An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works
By Organization for Transformative Works

Chapters: ½
Fandom: Yuri!!! on Ice (Anime)
Rating: Mature
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Relationships: Otabek Altin/Yuri Plisetsky, Katsuki Yuuri/Victor Nikiforov, Phichit Chulanont & Yuri Plisetsky
Characters: Otabek Altin, Yuri Plisetsky, Phichit Chulanont, Leo de la Iglesia, Katsuki Yuuri, Victor Nikiforov
Additional Tags: Grand Prix Final Banquet, Grand Prix Final, Future Fic
Summary:

Yuri’s hair is softer than Otabek thought it would be.

He doesn’t remember when, exactly, he started having opinions about what he thought Yuri’s hair would feel like.

It’s possible that even with Yuri stealing half of every drink, Otabek should have stopped drinking a while ago or eaten something other than figs for dinner. Many things seem possible, at the moment.

(Or: Four years’ worth of GPF exhibitions, banquets, and Otabek trying to keep Yuri from stabbing anyone with a shrimp fork.)


I was going to wait to post this one all in one go, but I’m having a crappy weekend and I decided I would feel better about life if I put some fluff out into the world.  And so: half a fic, with the rest to come soon, I hope.  Enjoy, loves. 

did you know yugioh is gay?  it’s completely saturated and infused with gayness and us gays have claimed it for our own, if you like yugioh you’re probably gay. it’s gay culture

you can enjoy yugioh if you’re straight but just know that the thing you’re enjoying is a gay thing and you are partaking in gay culture. that is all