When I bring up a feminist issue to my boyfriend, he plays devil advocate and insists that the side I'm on (for the ladies) isnt feminism its inequality. (such as talking about crime on women, and not really talking about crime on men) How do I respond to this? he constantly sounds like an "all lives matter!" type of person. wanting to be heard and recognized and acknowledged isnt inequality! but I dont know how to respond to this. help?