encouragement (for bad days)

To everybody needing it:
  • I’m really sorry to hear your day sucked
  • I’m not sure if tomorrow will be better for you, but it’ll be a reset
  • You’ll find the courage you need to do That Thing
  • You are perfectly okay. You’re doing just fine…more than just fine, even. There’s nothing wrong with you. 
  • Take care of yourself tonight. It’ll be okay.
Signs as boyfriends

Aries: passionate at making out, passive personality but physically really dominant and protective, good at massages, wraps you in their arm when walking, little pecks on the top of the head and cheek

Taurus: wraps you in a hug every time they see you, tells you how cute you are everyday, tries cooking meals for you, lots of humorous banter, makes bad jokes to make you laugh, brings you flowers

Gemini: reserved when you first meet them but talks a lot when you get closer, lies in bed with you all day, lots of pda, holds your hand all the time, likes to listen to your goals and encourage you

Cancer: peppers you in kisses, really bashful about it though, makes you giggle a lot, likes more outgoing partners to bring them out of their shells, has cute quirks that you fall in love with, very sensitive

Leo: will hold your hand a lot while taking you on a new adventure, takes a lot of pictures of and with you, will sing and dance crazy with you, smiles at you for no reason, shows you lots of affection

Virgo: kind of shy about getting physical with you, brings you cute, thoughtful gifts, knows how to cheer you up even if you don’t want to smile, says corny lovey-dovey things to you

Libra: takes you on elaborate dates, stays up late talking to you, makes sure you’re okay, tight hugs, breaths in your scent, likes to just stare at and admire your face, late-night talks

Scorpio: is really awkward when they first start dating you, slightly less awkward throughout, sends you suggestive memes, seductive stares and sheepish smiles, can get jealous

Sagittarius: always wanting to try new things with you, gets wild once you get to know them better, dirty talk, gives you the smoldering look a lot, tells you stories, wants to please you

Capricorn: teases you a lot, ruffles your hair, gives you strangely adorable nicknames, goes on movie marathons with you, compliments you a lot, can seem rigid at first but underneath is lovable

Aquarius: tickles you and turns into making out, is really chill, plays video games with you, loves running their hand through your hair, encourages you to have fun even if you’ve had a bad day

Pisces: loves cuddling and spooning, will just look at their partner and think how pretty they are, makes playlists for you, remembers every little thing you tell them, lets you know how much they love you

Important OTP Questions (Send a ship to my ask box and some numbers!)

1) Who rocks the Ferris Wheel seat and who flips out and begs them to stop?

2) Who is always horny and will have sex at any time, at any place and at any time?

3) Who is more into taking showers/baths together? Who tries to make it relaxing and who tries to make it sexy time?

4) Who likes to walk around the house naked and who tells the other to go put some clothes on?

5) Who sleeps on the couch when they get into a fight?

6) Who takes photos of the other while they sleep?

7) Who said “I love you” first? and who ends their arguments in a fight with “Because I love you”?

8) Who likes to wear the others sweatshirts?

9) Who wakes the other up in the middle of the night to tell them a cool dream they had? Who has the most nightmares, and who sings them back to sleep after?

10) Who is more likely to cheat?

11) Who makes fun of the other for having a crush on them, and who has to remind them that they are in a relationship?

12) Who starts a food fight in the kitchen?

13) Who initiates duets? and who is the better singer?

14) Who starts the hand holding? Who grabs the others butt? Who slides their arm around their waist? Who likes to put their fingers in the belt loops?

15) Who likes writes the others name on their wrist?

16) Who is more seductive when they are drunk? and who is louder in bed?

17) Who is more protective?

18) Who talks to the other while they are sleeping?

19) Who drives and who has the window seat?

20) Who falls asleep in the others lap and who carries them to bed?

21) Who cuts the others hair?

22) Who is super bad at sexting? and who sends them encouraging messages throughout the day?

23) Who thinks they are not good enough for the others love? and who’s more afraid of loosing the other? Who thinks they keep messing up, only for the other to tell them they don’t need to worry?

24) Who starts random slow dancing with the other in the kitchen? Who holds the other just above the ground and kisses them?

25) Who says shitty puns and sex jokes just to see the other giggle and blush?

26) Who kissed first?

27) Who orders take out at two in a morning? and who wakes the other up at three in the morning to go downstairs with them to get a glass of water because it’s too dark?

28) Who writes poems/stories and love songs about the other? Do they sing the songs the write for them?

29) Who does some crazy stunt to try and impress the other and who ends up driving them to the emergency room after it backfires?

30) Who is embarrassed when they have to wear their glasses and who thinks they look super cute?

decepticonsensual  asked:

I really just wanted to say thank you for your posts about depression. You're always really supportive and kind when people write to you, and when my own depression is being a dick, just reading your suggestions and encouragement helps immensely. Thank you.

Thank you. When I have bad days and tough days, I try to remember notes like this from people like you, so I don’t feel like I’m completely useless.

hey if you’re reading this, you made it through the week and I am sosososo proud of you. keep it up babes. you got the whole weekend ahead of you. enjoy it. dont worry about school right now. if you need to #TreatYoSelf, flippin do it. get some ice cream and watch some netflix by yourself, no shame in that (; keep your head up. this is a reminder that you can and will get through whatever you’re going through right now. you can 1000000% do this. i’m proud of you for making it this far. i believe in youuuuuu :)xoxo

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It’s okay if today is a bad day <3


Not every day can be our best day ever, so it’s okay if today isn’t exactly a good day. It’s okay if you just want today to end, and it’s okay if you can’t wait to get home and relax.

Tomorrow may be better, so just get through today. You can do it <3

Keep on shining!
♥ Courtney

I love how everyone’s perception of health and fitness is alway evolving to include mental health and not just physical strength/being lean/being thin etc.

I’ve always felt out of place, uncomfortable and anxious when out, when in groups, when faced with doing something new or out of my routine. I manifested this anxiety in very self destructive ways; over and under eating, purging, excessive (sometimes 3 times a day!) trips to the gym and self harm.

Although I still struggle with some of these problems day-to-day, the feeling of isolation is far less since discovering this amazing (most of the time, don’t get me wrong, tumblr isn’t perfect) site and community. I feel safe on here when I’m having a bad day, I feel welcome, appreciated and encouraged on here.

Finding other people who struggle with mental health, and who are ensuring that they live their best lives are my everyday role models.

Girls like @aubernutter like @oatsnjen and so so many others are so jaw droppingly inspiring that it makes me so happy to see how far they have come and how much peace they have found in the last few years, and even more that they are still so open about both their good AND bad days.

Girls. I both salute and thank you, and so many others like you, for making me (and I imagine many many others) feel safe, and not alone in this fight.

anonymous asked:

BurrMads: Burr being kissed around the neck, soft touches under his sweater, James snuggling into the smol boy's neck and praising him

SORRY! This has been in my inbox for quite a while! I did not forget about it, I just needed a break from daily fic writing! More under readmore


It was a long day. It was always a long day, for both of them. Still, even through his own haze of gentle exhaustion- the feeling of a productive, if challenging, day of work- Aaron recognized the look on James’ face.

“Bad day?” Aaron gave his boyfriend an encouraging smile. Usually well kept together, even in private, James let out a long, quiet sigh as he dropped his bags on the floor. James’ coat dripped as he pulled it off and hung it on the staircase railing to dry. “I don’t recall it raining..?”

“Sprinklers went off.” James spoke in short, sharp tones as he peeled his sweater off- also very wet.

Aaron considered the sight- his boyfriend sad and wet, versus the actions he could take. “Do you want to talk about it?”

“No.” From any other person, the response would sound rude and hurtful. Aaron knew James by now though. He’d never been one for many words, even compared to Aaron himself.

“Do you want me to get you some dry clothes?”

James let out a soft sigh this time, shucking out of his dress pants and standing in a mere shirt and boxers. “No thanks.”

Aaron raised a brow- would James rather stand there in the middle of the kitchen, half dressed?- but then James wasn’t just standing there, he was striding over in quick, purposeful steps. In one quick motion, Aaron found himself with an armful of James. Instinctively, his hands closed around the slightly smaller body. James tipped his head down until wet hair, nearly dripping, rubbed against the side of Aaron’s face. Distantly, Aaron thanked the fact that James preferred a short cut.

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anonymous asked:

Trigger Warning : all the people (not just RFA) react to MC being an alcoholic but refuses Help (if you're not cool with it plz just delete) xoxo

Hope these are all right! 

TW: Scenarios deal with Alcoholism



Zen:

  • He enjoyed beer from time to time
  • Especially on the weekends
  • At first, he looked forward to enjoying alcohol with you on his free nights
  • But after awhile, he started seeing signs in you
  • You would drink every night, even without him…and even on days where work was the next day
  • Sometimes, you even called out of work because of a hangover
  • He saw the signs of alcoholism and tried confronting you about it
  • When you refuse the help, he understands
  • It was hard for him to admit to a drinking problem at one point in his life
  • But he doesn’t give up
  • Eventually, he convinces you to go with him to a group to get help
  • You both drop alcohol and eventually you do overcome your alcoholism

Yoosung:

  • It was hard for him because he watched you go from drinking a few times a month to nearly every night
  • At first, he didn’t think it much of a problem
  • You had a beer with dinner
  • But then he noticed he’d been getting drunk calls more often
  • He’s really worried about you so he starts doing some research on alcoholism
  • He’s subtle about trying to help you
  • But every time you refuse
  • When you get into an accident because of drunk driving, he puts his foot down
  • You’ve never seen Yoosung so upset or anxious before, so you agree to try to get some help
  • He becomes your accountability partner, and he makes sure you don’t get one drop
  • At first, this leads to a lot of fights, especially when you’re stressed and want to drown yourself in liquor
  • But you mellow out and realize how patient he is
  • After a year of being sober, you plan to do something really special for him

Jaehee:

  • When she got especially stressed, you would take her out for a drink
  • This became a weekly thing for you two
  • On the weekends, you would get a little tipsy together
  • But she noticed you were asking her to come out for a drink more often
  • Because of work, she refused more days than not
  • But after months of you disappearing after work and returning home late, she followed you several nights
  • She watched in pain as you jumped to a new bar almost every night
  • You got yourself so drunk that sometimes she would drive you home and you don’t even know how you got back
  • Instead of suggesting to get help for you alcoholism right away, she asks about your feelings
  • After a few times, you start opening up about your stress, and that’s how the drinking started
  • She helped you come to the realization
  • Seeing the light, you try to cut down on stress, claiming this would help the issue, even though she suggests going to get help for alcoholism
  • But the bad habits continue until finally she gives you an ultimatum
  • You either get help or she leaves, since she couldn’t bear you waste your potential away like that
  • This gets your attention and you get help with Jaehee as your biggest support

Jumin:

  • He likes wine
  • You like wine
  • It seemed great that you two got to enjoy a variety of drinks together because of his business
  • But he knew that wine was great with discretion….something he started to realize you didn’t have
  • He started to notice when the amount of wine being delivered home started to become more frequent
  • At first, it was one bottle a week….then it came to the point where it was one bottle a day
  • He watched night after night as you transformed from your usual self to your drunk self
  • It was like he was with two different people
  • He blamed himself for encouraging the habit in the first place
  • But he wants you to get help
  • You refuse, claiming the issue is nonexistent
  • This grows into a full blown argument leading to your separation for awhile
  • It breaks his heart to be away from you, but he feels like you’ve become a different person
  • Thankfully, this doesn’t last long as you two struggle without him
  • You return to him and ask if he would help you overcome your alcoholism
  • Of course, he gets you the best help all the while making sure it’s handled quietly for your sake
  • Everything works out in the end and you two are closer than ever


Seven:

  • He didn’t drink alcohol
  • But he didn’t mind you enjoying a drink from time to time
  • That time to time seem to grow frequent however
  • When you called him up crying because you were so drunk and you didn’t know where you were, he nearly panicked
  • He drove nearly an hour to get you, and you had drunkenly responded you had no idea how you got there
  • Hoping it was just a one time thing, he let it go, but put some tracking tags on your clothes before you left
  • He watched in horror as you hopped bars starting as early as mid afternoon
  • He confronted you about the problem
  • You refused to get help, as you didn’t think it was a big deal
  • He didn’t like it, but he didn’t want to give up
  • But you continued to get worse, and he continued to patiently ask for you to get help
  • You eventually broke down when you threw a glass at him in one of your drunken fits
  • He wasn’t hurt badly, but your heart was more shattered than the glass on the floor
  • You beg for forgiveness and promise to get help
  • He’s the most patient person as you go through the process, dealing with your bad days and encouraging in your good days
  • When you finally overcome the battle, you promise to be loyal to him until death do you part

Saeran:

  • You were drinking buddies
  • Things were tough for him and tough for you
  • So you would drink, forgetting about your worries, and just have some fun
  • But as he started recovering, he started drinking less
  • Conversely, you started drinking more
  • Without him, you feel even lonelier which only drove you to alcohol
  • He doesn’t notice until one night you mistakenly call him while drunk and spill out your heart
  • When you’re sober, he confronts you about it, inviting you with him to some therapy sessions
  • He thinks getting to the root of the problem may work for you like it did for him
  • But you refuse
  • At first he brushes it off, but as you get worse, he can’t ignore it anymore
  • He pesters you to get help until finally you give in–if only to make him shut up
  • As you go through the process, you realize how much of a problem you actually had
  • It takes awhile, but eventually you do thank him for intervening before something serious happened

V:

  • He saw as you gradually drank more and more
  • It wasn’t for any particular reason
  • You just liked alcohol, and you find it more and more addicting as time passed
  • But he noticed it started to affect your health
  • You had stomach problems, your sugars were spiked, and you seemed to age a lot quicker
  • He tries to gently suggest that you might be struggling with alcoholism
  • You flat out refuse
  • He drops it for a long while
  • But then out of the blue, he sits you down, nearly in tears, and asks if you would consider treatment
  • You can’t refuse with him sounding so heart broken
  • It isn’t until later in your recovery process does he tell you of several incidents that triggered that talk–incidents you don’t even remember
  • You’re so thankful and you really put all your effort in overcoming your addiction

Vanderwood:

  • He smokes, but he doesn’t drink often
  • It muddles the brain too much
  • At first, he’s not opposed to you drinking
  • But when he sees it’s affecting who you are–how you act around him, he intervenes
  • He sits you down and tells you bluntly that you have a problem
  • Of course you refuse
  • But he expects that
  • When you’re least expecting it, he says he’s taking you to the store or somewhere random
  • He ends up taking you to a group that can help you
  • It end in a fight when he pulls this several times over the course of a few months
  • But in the end, you finally see the light
  • As you get better, you feel a lot better
  • You thank him and try to repay him somehow, but he brushes it off saying it was nothing
  • But you know deep down that he actually cared 

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Mental Health Tags Masterpost

Every time I come across a recovery / mental health post, I do my best to organize it in the categorized links below for myself and others to get help from. If you have any posts you’d like to contribute, message me or tag my url so I can add them in right away!

Take Care Of Yourself: 

 - Advice and Tips on how to survive those rough days

     + Featuring the Bad Day tag

Reminders and Inspiration to encourage you to take care of yourself and keep going

- Posts with tips, hacks, and motivation to prevent School and Life Stress by helping you stay organized and prepared, both mentally and physically

- Whether you’re ready to take the next step of recovery or you want to learn how to stay safe in the future, the Getting Help tag will be updated with recovery resources and hotlines.

Everything (Non-Triggering) Regarding:

Depression  

Self Harm

     + Alternatives

Anxiety

     + Calming tag with soothing gifs and tips that’ll help you relax

Eating Disorders

Abuse, both emotional and physical.

Extra Tags:

- Masterposts upon masterposts to get lost in. And you will get lost in them. Approach carefully and don’t say I didn’t warn you.

Body and Identity Positivity tag to make you feel more comfortable in your own skin and identity

     + Cutie Patooties that are honestly so beautiful despite society’s standards

Good Vibes full of cute and mushy posts that’ll get you smiling in no time

- The Jams tag for when you want to discover a few new (or maybe even old) artists/bands [Recommendations always appreciated and welcomed!]

And finally, if there’s any information, subject, or post I should add or alter, ask away! I’m open and willing to make this a safer and more helpful place for everyone.

goldylocksandthethreefandoms  asked:

So, this is kinda inspired by you talking about soulmates, but could you do a hc about the reader and Tyler being "platonic soulmates"? It's something my best friend and I call each other and I feel like it could be super cute

Aww that’s adorable heck yes

- You guys hang out and call each other a lot
- To the point where people think you’re dating and you tell them that your not, you just love each other a lot as friends
- You guys get to interrogate the other one’s bf/gf/so before anyone else does
- You sleep in the same bed sometimes but its chill
- Being each other’s wingman
- Sometimes you guys feel like your the parents of Teamiplier
- When you have bad days you send each other encouraging texts
- You guys are scary good at those “how well do you know your best friend” game
- When you play games together you’re either on one team and constantly high fiving or you’re on opposite teams and trying to d e s t r o y each other
- Like you two aren’t allowed to play monopoly unsupervised because the board will get flipped and nobody trusts either of you not to smash the console if you play electronically
- Lots of snark but all in good fun
- Matching beanies cause you’re dorks

anonymous asked:

OMG can you please do the captains as BTS songs?? Like, which songs describes them best and why, and when/how would they listen to it and stuff, just like a little headcannons, Is that good? I hope so hehe, thanks!! ~~ Also my emglish is not very good, sorry!!

Your English is perfect! And I am a HUGE fan of BTS! I hope you like this as much as I did writing it! ❤️❤️

Oikawa:

• His song is ‘Blood, Sweat and Tears’
• He listens to it a lot after volleyball practice because he puts in all of those things on a mostly daily basis (especially tears when he’s lost an important match)

Kuroo:

• His song is ‘Not Today’
• He listens to it when he feels he needs a little bit of encouragement or if he’s just been having a bad day and doesn’t want it to get to him that much
* Kuroo doesn’t give up no matter what he faces do ‘Not Today’ is just a reminder for him to never give up

Sawamura:

• His song is ‘Crow Tit’ 'House of Cards’
• It reminds him of his team and how whenever they feel like collapsing or giving up they still persevere. It brings him in higher spirits and sometimes puts it on in the club room for everyone to listen to

Ushijima:

• His song is ‘Dope’
• He is pretty dope but he listens to it during practice or when he’s exercising because it means more to him as he’s working very hard a lot of the time to keep things in its best condition

Terushima:

• His song is 'Ma City’
• He listens to it in the car when his parents or friends drive him somewhere because he lives for this one song since it fits his party personality well
• He will scream at the top of his lungs 'WELCOME TO MA CITY!’ whenever the chorus hits

Bokuto:

• His song is 'Fire’
• The song just makes him more happy and confident overall because this boy is a literal ball of fire when he’s all riled up
• He’ll make Akaashi listen to it a lot and he says that he doesn’t enjoy it. But what he doesn’t want to admit to Bokuto is that he absolutely loves BTS as well

Betty x Reader: A Letter To My Lover

Warnings: talks of suicide, mental illness
Requested: yes

Dear Betty,

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