All my relationships, family, friends and my lover have taught me so many things, brought out inner happiness. but nothing has taught me as much as loving someone romantically. How can I let go while staying together? How can I can accept that this person may go one day? It is so hard for me. I want to rid myself of this "attachment"
What you’re feeling is a natural human tendency of worries, and trust me I have my share of them lol. We love to bond, and love to love. But the best way to approach this is by embracing the present moment, and what you have (now) with that special person without expectations. The humanism in us makes it so easy to get caught up in possibilities, but you must soulfully embrace who they are now, cherish the love/support they give you now, observe how they are making you feel and treating you now, make sure you both are on the same page now, and the rest will flow.
I’m typically a slow mover when it comes to romantic relationships. I love creating a solid friendship first, but sometimes life/love just happens. We can’t control it all, and letting go is our only option. (Easier said than done, I know.)
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