I have a slew of tests this next week and I am elated. I had to call to set up all the appointments and my nerves were shredded by the end of the day. I ended up having to speak to my doctors office 4 times in one day to figure out all the logistics of the HSG I have scheduled on Tuesday. I also scheduled the semen analysis on Tuesday, and it worked out since we have to abstain from sex leading up to both, it was easier to just get it done on the same day. I also got my follow up appointment scheduled with my RE for September 15th. Sweet! As long there are no major problems and all the tests come back ok, then we can start trying with medication next cycle.
My husband was complaining that he has to do the sperm analysis at the office and can’t do it at home and bring it in. I just told him that I know its uncomfortable, but that he needs to suck it up and do it. Like serious, stfu. I don’t mean to sound harsh, but all the shit I have to do is nothing compared to you having to orgasm into a cup at a location that isnt ideal.
Oh and all the clothes that I went through and got rid of, I stupidly put in bags that are sitting in the entryway needing to go to Goodwill. Well I woke up yesterday and he had gone through all of them and there is a pile of clothes sitting on the ottoman that he decided he wanted to keep. Yes besucase you REALLY need those 9 polo shirts that you never wear. You only have like 30 sitting in your closet and dresser. Yes those pants that are like 3 sizes too small must be kept just becasue your uncle gave them to you. And that wasnt even from the pile of stuff I put aside for him to go through! I’m getting rid of that shit before he has a chance to save anything. As for the stuff sitting on my ottoman, its going on the floor of the guest room for now. If he must have it, he can hang it up himself.
I was told I needed to be on “light duty” up until my HSG. Don’t know what that means but I am assuming it means not having to do the dishes? Right? Please?
When you like someone your whole world stops. Every thought becomes about them, every moment you want to be with them. And when everything comes naturally, you know this person is going to be special. Because you want to share every part of yourself with them, you want to get to know their inner soul. These people don’t come along very often, so when you find that, you need to hold on to it for as long as you can.