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Sexy Sunday

Sundays always seem so full of promise. We all know what Monday morning means (besides waking up early): The beginning of a new week, full of TC possibilities. 

This post will be a list of flirty suggestions to add a little seduction to your day/week.

Tip 1: Don’t be afraid to disagree, respectfully.

You know that old myth that a teacher always has a soft spot for the troublemakers? It’s true. Like this concept, men like to be challenged. A woman who agrees with everything and nods her head like an adoring fan, feeding off of his every word is B-O-R-I-N-G. Have your own opinions. Argue with him sometimes. Banter. Banter is the key word here, ladies. Look it up and understand what it means. Men love wit and confidence.

Tip 2: Listen to the details of his personal life and contribute details of your own.

This one is tricky because it’s about the right balance. Avoid word vomit! It is not okay to overshare because he will begin to feel uncomfortable or worse, he will give FATHERLY advice. This is not good. So many girls on here associate fatherly interest with romantic interest. No healthy, emotionally and mentally stable individual would consider a romance with a girl he thinks of like a daughter. Do not go to him for advice. He needs to see you as independent and capable, not needy for his guidance. Share little details about past vacations, books you’ve read outside of school, hobbies, etc. DO NOT complain about your parents (this reminds him of how young you are) and DO NOT complain about grades/school stress (he might see this as you using your personal relationship to your advantage for grades).

Tip 3: Draw attention your lips, collar bones, shoulders, and neck. 

By this, I do NOT mean applying lip gloss in class and smacking your lips together until he notices. Just no. It makes you look like a cheap bimbo, which hopefully is not what he’s after. This can go wrong if it’s done too obvious or exaggerated, so proceed with caution. Lightly trace a finger down your neck. Adjust a bra strap when you think he “isn’t” looking. Rub the side of your neck as though it’s tender. Add a subtle highlighter to your collar bones. Small, subtle things go a long way. For the bolder girls: Go up to his desk during independent work or a test. Act like you don’t want to disturb anyone and lean down and whisper your question in his ear. Spray a little of your perfume into your hair beforehand and let your hair sort of graze his cheek. He’ll take in your scent and the proximity will get his juices flowing.

Tip 4: Eye contact and accentuating your natural sex appeal

Have you ever noticed the way Hollywood sex symbols sort of squint their eyes slightly? Look up the most notable, like Megan Fox, Scarlett Johansson, Angelina Jolie, Cameron Diaz, etc. and observe their intensity. Practice in a mirror in you have to! Emulating the makeup is always optional, but can work in your favor. Men like a smoky eye and cherry lip! Especially the cherry lips! As for hair, bedhead curls or silky strands are generally what men are attracted to (blame evolution). 

Tip 5 : Your laugh

Women underestimate how sexy the female laugh is. Now this is tough because if you’re faking it, he’ll know. After laughing, make DIRECT eye contact with him. It makes the moment intimate, like you two just shared a secret. Men associate this move with intimacy. 

I hope you enjoyed today’s tips and tricks! Happy Hunting, darlings.

How to be his girlfriend, NOT his daughter

Here are a few dos and donts when interacting with your TC!

DON’T
Make him the center of your day (or worse, your school year). Men like women with interests and hobbies. If you’re an athlete, make sure he knows it. You like art? Show him your passion. Passion is attractive to men. If he feels like your world revolves around him, he will see it as a crush instead of a potential, healthy, adult relationship.

DO
Ace his class. Men love intelligence. If you’re not an A student, just make sure you do your best. He’ll be flattered that you’re interested enough to succeed and you will be showing interest in a subject he loves enough to teach.

That being said DON’T limit your conversations to class related subjects. If he teaches music, instead of discussing what he taught, mention that you play the piano or that you recently went to a really great concert.

DON’T be too trendy when you’re with him. Avoid slang or expressions that will emphasize the age gap. Or worse, don’t tell him you like vintage bands or old things in an effort to connect. This will make him feel worse and remind him that he’s old enough to be your father or uncle.

DO use good grammar when emailing him and use a good vocabulary when speaking to him. It will add an element of maturity to your interactions, making him feel like you can be his equal.

This next point is specifically for a married TC with children (which I never encourage because it almost always goes sour)

DON’T try to talk to him about his family. Married men who cheat compartmentalize their lives in order to feel better about themselves. If he volunteers information, don’t seem interested. Never show any jealousy as this indicates you could shatter his life by revealing to his wife your relationship.

DO proceed with caution. Let him make the first move. Many married men are not willing to go further than flirting and assume that you know this. This situation is the most difficult and unpredictable.

Married men are attracted to the carefree, novelty of pursuing a woman outside of their marriage. Be sexy and fun and he will be drawn to you!


Back to my ladies with single TCs, DO show interest in his hobbies and interests. If he plays soccer, ask him about it! Ask him why he does what he does. Get to know him the way you would get to know a new friend. If you treat him like he’s not your teacher, he will treat you like you’re not his student.

DON’T DON’T I repeat DON’T ever betray your crush in front of others. This is incredibly immature and shows him that he can’t trust you to be discrete. In class, he is your teacher and nothing more. To your friends and anyone else, while he is around, he is your teacher and nothing more. This distinction in public will show him that you will not do anything to damage his career or ruin his life.

Keep sending me your requests, my darlings!

I wish we could have  a TCC Con , like tumblr con but only for the TCC and we wear shirts with our TC’s nickname on it with our url on the back and we’d give each other hugs and our numbers and pictures of our TC and sit around and tell each other about experiences with our TCs.

Can we please make this happen.

Can we talk about this for a moment?

In the video, Jerome purposely made a bad show of his bowling skills and he shows off about it. But that’s not the point.

LOOK HOW HE’S HUGGING JEROME.

HE’S JUST SURPRISE TACKLING HIM WITH HIS ARMS AROUND HIS NECK LIKE IT’S NOTHING AND JEROME JUST INSTANT PUTS AN ARM AROUND HIS BACK ANYWAY LIKE HE WAS EXPECTING IT I MEAN-

MITCH LOOKED UP AT HIM AT LIKE THE SECOND AFTER THE GIF ENDS LIKE HE JUST REALIZED WHAT HE’S DONE OR SOMETHING.

DOESN’T IT FEEL LIKE THEY’VE DONE THIS BEFORE BUT WAAAAY OFTEN THEN WE THOUGHT OR SOMETHING?

I don’t know about you guys, BUT THAT’S A FULL ON PLATONIC FRIENDSHIP WE’RE WITNESSING.